Little Ferret's Space

One little ferret's musings on a myriad of things. Nature, Consciousness, Theosophy, Ganja, Psychedelics,Love, Sexuality, Cooking, Comedy,*And anything else that captures my fancy.*28-F-US-closed polyamorous relationship

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MY HEART

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Well this just improved my day by a kabillion percent.

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Femdom? Me??

I have been "researching" some femdom techniques and methods, ("research" meaning, I have been watching smut) and am definitely acclimating myself to the idea. My husband has always been a fixed dominant type, which I genuinely love about him. I settle into a much more submissive role, naturally, but have always been tantalized by the idea of switching a little. I'm really not into causing any great pain or humiliation, I more-so want to master the manipulation of a man's body and mind to find the most intense ways to cause pleasure/orgasm. Edging has long been something I wish to do with a man, but again, my husband just is not into being dominated or even teased for any length of time. He is a "down to business" kind of guy and likes to be in control. However, my boyfriend has expressed very different desires on many occasions. I have lightly played around with some restraints and edging with him, but nothing to write home about. It is very new for me and I tend to be a perfectionist, so I have hesitated to really dive in. Next weekend I plan to change that. I will be spending the weekend with my boyfriend and I plan to thoroughly tie/restrain him, preferably to a chair, and edge him blindfolded for a very very long time. I do want to incorporate some sensory experiences like rubbing ice over his erection, and alternating with my warm mouth. He has a very thin/short belt that I could use either for breath control/choking or for some cock/ball bondage- just around the base. Mostly I just plan to toy with him and bring him to the brink of orgasm over and over and over again. I am fairly good at improvisation but would love to have some ideas or suggestions from people who have more experience with this. Any perspective here would be helpful, whether giving or receiving the lovely torture. Wish me luck, I hope I can be convincing.

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Harvested some lovely reishi today to add to soups this autumn for medicinal benefits.

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WATER

EARTH

Fire

AIR

Long ago, the four nations lived together in harmony. Then everything changed when the Fire Nation attacked. Only the Avacatar, master of all four elements, could stop them. But when the world needed him most, he vanished. A hundred years passed and my brother and I adopted the new Avacatar, a kittybender named Steve. And although his felinebending skills are great, he still has a lot to learn before he’s ready to save anyone. But I believe Steve can save the world.

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All English forests are thick with ferns and foxgloves, and what a magical combination they make.

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Beach adventures.

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Gorgeous Gladiolus blooms.

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Found fungi today.

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Guacamole Breakfast Sandwich

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“Comet Moth Study” by TiggyTattoos

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❤️

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Gongora horichiana

Syn.: Gongora armeniaca var. bicornuta

July 26, 2016 

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Relationship Modification

I do not really rant on here much, but intend to start doing that more. This has been a year full of changes and personal growth for myself and for many close loved ones as well. Closest to home, and the most profound change has been my husband and I’s progression into a closed poly amorous relationship. What does this mean? For me, it means that I love and adore my husband and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but last year I met another incredible man and have since fallen completely in love with him as well, and the feelings are entirely mutual. My husband and I strive to always be growing, and to question what we have been told and to challenge it for ourselves. Our marriage is no exception to this rule. Our vows were very different from traditional, especially religious ones. We vowed to respect and care for each other, and to uplift each other and help one another reach our dreams together. To always do our best to be kind and sweet and always forgiving of each other. Etc. There was never any indication of possession. There was never even a breath of “you are mine now. You belong to me.” We choose to live each day together always, and I trust that my husband and I understand each other and will never abandon our love or our relationship. All of this trust is what allows for the new relationship dynamic we are in.

I firmly believe that every single individual must decide for themselves how their life should be. Monogamy is just the ideal way for some people, while others are better suited to a nearly endless variations in loving relationships. I never sought to fall in love again. This whole thing took me completely by surprise. I was just captivated and blown away by a man who I felt an immediate kindred spirit to. We were drawn to each other from the start, and for months we shyly flirted and talked before we admitted having feelings for each other, and every new facet of ourselves that was brought to the light was just amazingly, uncannily synchronized. We share so many of the same loves/hates/passions/interests/tastes/preferences/ideas/dreams/etc. we have concluded that we are, in fact, one soul in two bodies. There has been no better explanation offered thus far. More research is needed. ;)

    I want to sort of chronicle some of my journey here. This new relationship is not intended to be a short term or casual thing. I completely love both men, and want to spend my life with both men. I realize this is a huge change from being married and monogamous, though we had entertained the idea of threesomes before- this is quite different. I want full integration, eventually. I want us all to be on equal terms, I do not want my marriage to be the #1 and my relationship with my other man to be #2. I value them both and value their love. It is not a competition, I just love them both. Full integration into each others lives is something we are working towards all together. My husband has reservations about all of these changes and still wrestles with the idea of “sharing” me especially since we have been together and monogamous for over a decade. We have talked at length many times and he has decided and assures me again and again that he wants this. He is completely, and without spite, happy that I have a new love in my life. He and the other man get along extremely well and adore each other (though neither is sexually interested in men), they are steadily forming a strong friendship that makes my heart endlessly happy to see.

     Of course this works in reverse as well. If my husband told me today that he met some amazing woman who has just dazzled him and he wants to explore a relationship with her, I would be overjoyed. I do not view him as my possession, I love him so entirely that I want nothing more than the maximum happiness to be in his life. We love each other, always and in all ways, but I know that there is room for more love. There always is, and I want that for him. I do not need to be the source of all of his happiness, in any regard, even sexually. I want him to be able to (safely and responsibly of course) welcome new experiences and love into his life. And that is all there is to it. lol

    I will continue this rant at some point. Thanks Lovies for tuning in. ;)

     -Ferret

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Flowers Viewed in Ultra-Violet Light

Many flowers appear differently under UV light, often showing patterns of rings or lines not visible to our naked eye. The photos above show Rudbeckia flowers as our eyes would see them (left) and using a special UV camera filter (right).

The UV markings are designed to be seen by insects, which are able to see in the ultraviolet spectrum. They seem to be most often found in yellow flowers, and are thought to serve as “landing pads”. Called nectar guides, they serve as directional signals that point the pollinators to the nectar or other reward, such as pollen.

These areas of UV reflectance are often sturdier than the non-reflectant part of the petal, which wear down faster, so sometimes as the flowers start to fade at the end of the summer it’s possible for our human eyes to see where the nectar guides are. photos by Paolo (Macro-roni) on Flickr

(via: Peterson Field Guides)

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Time for a nerd moment.... I am beyond excited to be part of a Sailor Moon cosplay group next year! I have started on my Sailor Venus cosplay and it is looking so cute already! So far we have Venus, Saturn, and either Mars or Jupiter (my friend has not decided yet). So maybe we'll find other lovely ladies to participate. :)