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BI PRIDE and VISIBILITY not ERASURE!!!

Happy Pride Month 2017!!!

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to anyone with a history of alcholism in their family and is yet to be 21: be careful. its hereditary. its learned as a coping mechanism. sometimes it just happens.

when you turn 21, go ahead and enjoy a couple drinks! (if you feel comfortable with that.) and then chill out. if you find yourself drinking more than 4 times a week, seek help. try to stop. at least be on the lookout for triggers that lead to you drinking.

you can be an alcoholic at 21, you can be an alcoholic at 16. dependence on alcohol doesn’t care about age or background.

you can be sober. you can live life without alcohol. you don’t have to be like your parents.

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it’s worth considering that, since many people have what I call a “submerged” history of alcoholism in their families (whether it’s a “long line of great drinkers”, an “uncle that had a hard life”, or “that’s just what we *insert ethnic group here* do!” or even, sometimes, nothing at all—no mention, nothing said), it’s worth paying close attention to how you take to drink early on.

when you’re young and first drinking, it’s important that you reflect on your relationship to alcohol *in between drinks*. have fun, but take it seriously! it can save you so much later.

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Also… it’s not normal to feel the urge to hide that you’re drinking. It’s not normal to drink t handle negative emotions. It’s not normal to have to drink to sleep. It’s not normal to have to drink to make it through work or school or family engagements. It’s not normal to hide bottles, either to drink later or to dispose of. It’s not normal to drink until you pass out, black out, or can’t stop puking.

That’s not a value judgement on you or your actions, but these are all signs of alcohol abuse. You deserve to be sober and you deserve to be able to be sober. It can be really hard to even recognize that you have a problem from the start, with how normalized alcohol abuse is.

But that’s what it is. You have a problem. The drinking may be the disease, or it may be the symptom. But it’s a problem. That doesn’t make YOU a problem.

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Another sign there’s a problem is drinking multiple drinks every single day, especially if you’re really irritable on days you can’t drink. A lot of people think that if they don’t get super drunk very often there’s no problem – but a habit of drinking all the time is also a problem. Maintaining a low-level buzz most of the time can be just as damaging as binge drinking every weekend.

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if you’re realizing you have a problem, here’s my addiction tag

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“Homosexuality is wrong, the Bible says it!”

So is:

wearing two different fabrics

eating pigs and rabbits

wearing torn clothes

having short hair

having tattoos

having more than one type of plant in your garden

going to church in the first 2 months after you’ve given birth

masturbating

wearing jewlery

remarrying

women saying anything in church, ever

eating lobsters

divorcing

eating fat

touching women who are on their periods are touching something that has been touched by a woman who is on her period

cross breeding

people with flat noses becoming priests (?)

cheating

saying God’s name

gossiping

going to church if your balls are injured in any way

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so we’re all going to hell anyways.

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Yibambe — Xhosa for “hold fast” or “hold position.”

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why is this so funny

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kuroo ruins every joke with his “well actually…” followed by a very specific science fact that no one cares about and causes a 5 minute awkward silence bc no one knows what to say after that because no one cared or listened to the long winded science explanation

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kuroo: … so can you believe how BIG the human genome is and yet we share so much of our DNA with organisms like worms?

bokuto: idk man can you believe how BIG my dick is? haha high five nerd

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Lost dog immediately recognizes his owner in court room. More interesting posts like this here.

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Judge Judy ain’t have time for that shit today 😂😂

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my hearrrrrrt

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Ivy full on GRABBING THAT BOOTY here makes me so happy :D

Sy Borg in the background there proud of his Weird Clown Surrogate Daughter that she has found the girlfriend she deserves

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Relationship Check Up

A healthy relationship means that both members of the couple are…

1. Communicating with each other: Talking about problems without screaming and shouting; listening to each other, and respecting their viewpoint; being willing to adapt and to sometimes change their mind.

2. Showing respect for one another: Valuing the other person’s culture, beliefs, viewpoints, opinions and boundaries. Also, treating each other in a kind and caring way.

3. Demonstrating and conveying trust: Each person is trustworthy and trusts the other person – because they have been shown that they are worthy of that trust.

4. Honest with each other: Both are open and honest – but are private as well; and they don’t demand the other person tells them everything.

5. Equals: They make joint decisions and treat each other well. No person calls the shots or determines all the rules.

6. Able to enjoy their own personal space: As well as spending time together, they spend time on their own. They’re respect the fact they’re different, and they need their own life, too.

7. Decisions about sex are discussed, and are consensual: They discuss sex together, including birth control. There’s no one individual sets the rules and standards here.

Signs of an unhealthy relationship

An unhealthy relationship develops where one, or both, of the partners is…

1. Failing to communicate: Problems are ignored, or not talked about at all. One or both don’t really listen, and they rarely compromise.

2. Acting in ways that are disrespectful: One or both are inconsiderate toward the other person; and they don’t behave in ways that send the message that they care.

3. Refusing to trust the other person: One or both is suspicion of their partner’s loyalty. Hence, they make false accusations, or won’t believe the truth.

4. Acting in a way that is dishonest: One or both is deceptive, or they lie and hide the truth.

5. Acting in a controlling way: One person thinks that they should set the one who rules, controls the other person, and say how things should be.

6. Beginning to feel squashed and smothered / cutting themselves off from friends and family: One partner is possessive, or feels threatened and upset, when the other’s with their family or spends time with their friends.

7. Attempting to pressurise the other into sexual activity / refusing to talk openly about birth control: One partner wants the other to participate in sex, or to engage in different practices against that’s person’s will. Or, one of the partners stops using birth control, or expects the other person to “take care of all that.”

Signs of an abusive relationship

An abusive relationship develops when one of the parties…

1. Starts to communicate in ways that are abusive: When arguments occur, one of the partners screams and cusses, or they verbally threaten or attack the other person.

2. Shows disrespect through acting in abusive ways: This is where one of the partners abuse, harms or threatens the physical safety of the other individual.

3. Wrongly accuses their partner of flirting or cheating: One of the partners is convinced – with no real grounds – that their partner is cheating or having an affair. Thus, they lash out verbally, or hurt, the accused partner.

4. Refuses to accept responsibility for the abuse: When they fly into a rage or act in ways that are abusive, they miminise their actions and refuse to accept blame. They may even blame their partner for “causing the abuse.”

5. Starts to control the other partner: One partner has no say as the other sets the rules – and arguing against that simply leads to more abuse.

6. Does what they can to isolate their partner: One partner has control of who the other person sees, the way they spend their time – and, even, clothes they buy and wear. Thus, they start to lose their confidence and personality.

7. Forces sexual activity: The frequency, type and circumstances for sex are determined by one partner – and the other must comply. If they don’t acquiesce it leads to violence or abuse. Also, sometimes violence is included in the sex.

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The original flag, by Gilbert Baker, June 25, 1978.

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La la la la la….

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Elsa x Rapunzel

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Disney movie sparks a chess boom in Uganda

The Queen of Katwe tells the rags-to-riches story of Phiona Mutesi, a young, uneducated slum girl who first turned up at one of the Katwe Academy’s chess sessions in 2005, mostly for the free porridge.

A few years later she became the first female winner of the country’s junior chess championships and by the age of 17, she was representing Uganda at international competitions.

“People liked seeing Phiona make it,” said 34-year-old Robert Katende, who founded the academy in 2003.“ It gives them hope.….

Historically, in Uganda chess was a game enjoyed mostly by a small male elite in the capital, Kampala, but Phiona’s story has inspired people from all walks of life.

Girls, in particular, have been taking up the game in considerable numbers. Vianney said there has been a threefold increase in the number of girls entering chess tournaments since 2012. “In the children’s competitions it’s almost 50/50 now,” he said…..

“When my own daughter went to the training she became a different person… Now we have four parents who want to learn.”