Story of Rafiq and Sarah... and his girlfriend
So here’s the story from beginning to end(?) (I put the question mark cause i’m really not sure where to go from here but any way here is the raw, uncut version. and no i’m not changing any names cause he deserves to be exposed.)
So it’s mid September on a slow day at work (I work at Reading Terminal with many different food stores inside). One of my co-workers who we call “Disco” is friends with everyone. I’m walking back from the bathroom past this one store and one of the guys, Angel, says “why do you always look so angry? What’s your name?” I tell him Sarah and he introduces to everyone else that works there. I kinda brushed it off and just said hi and went back to work.
Later that day, Disco comes up to me and says that one boy that worked at the turkey place I was talking to earlier thought I was beautiful and wondered if I was single. I told him yeah I’m single but who’s asking? (I didn’t really look at any of the boy’s faces bc I was just like whatever). Anyway I find out this boy named Rafiq was the one who thought I was cute and wanted my number and to know if I was single. I thought he was super attractive so I gave him my number. I waited the next few days to text me.
He finally texted me a few days later and asked if was single (yet again). Anyway, we both decided to come into work early the next day to hang in my car. I was super nervous. I didn’t know what to expect lmao.. It was a rainy monday and i was running late. He got super pissed but anyway- we’re in my car and he got really pissed at me that we didn’t have sex the first time hanging. I mean I didn’t know anything about him, so idk what he was expecting.
ANYWAY- I finally gave in after a few times we’ve hung. We started talking more and more. I remember one particular instance he told me that if I was hooking up with anyone else he would stop what we had and never talk to me again. So I’m sitting here thinking the man is a decent guy, like he actually might care about me cause he doesn’t want anyone else to have me. Boy was I fucking wrong.
He was very shady from the geico. Never showed me his phone, only followed me on Snapchat. But one night his “ex” snapped me on his phone saying I should ‘back off cause he’s mine.’ When I confronted him, he said it was just his ex and that they were just friends- no harm no fowl, I gave him the benefit of the doubt.
So a few months go by and we’re just casually together without being together. Everything is fine, nothing is complicated. Then all of a sudden he starts getting really emotional with me and I’m about to fall back because I’m not about to have someone catch feelings, and vice versa. So we kinda chilled for a bit.
Out of no where we start talking every day and hanging about every day too, which is hard because our schedules are pretty opposite but we made it work.
So this morning I wake up to a text message from his CURRENT girlfriend of 9 years. She also followed me on snapchat and instagram. She said that Rafiq had me saved in his phone as Tom and that she read our text messages from September. Honestly I was taken back because he initiated this whole thing with me, started by asking if I was single, AND continued this relationship with her and tagging me along with it.
So this girl Cynthia honestly might work for the FBI because the information she knew about me was pretty fuckin scary. She knew where my friends lived in Manayunk.... like crazy shit. She probably has a GPS in Rafiq’s neck or some shit. SO at this point, I haven’t even confronted Radiq about this situation but I was heading into work to see him.
The first thing he texts me is “Don’t text more or talk to me again.” So I sent him the pictures of him and his girlfriend together on her instagram. He told me over and over again to deny that I even knew him at all but it doesn’t make sense because she already knew who was and almost every little thing about me. he just repeated over and over again to tell her I didn’t know him and I was actually Tom. This nigga must be brain dead. He told me “Look it’s my bad I’m embarrassed and feel weird as shit” LIKE YOU FEEL WEIRD? MAYBE YOU SHOULDN’T CHEAT ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND. Do no fucking be mad at me because you got caught and are gonna try to blame that shit on me.
Anyway more bullshit happened. I honestly feel bad for this girl, she must be so clueless. So I’m about to leave work and he goes “where you going” and i’m like home where I belong and he texts me as I’m leaving and goes “I thought we were doing something but I guess not. I’ll be fine” .... Like you’ve gotta be kidding. You still wanna try to have sex with me? You must be brain dead.
ALSO: I went over to his work towards the end of the day today with a piece of cake and asked if he wanted a piece and he shook his head at me like *why* and I said “so you can have your cake and eat it too” and all his coworkers lost their fuckin minds. I’m a troll.
Long story short: Rafiq had a girlfriend the whole time while fuckin with me but initiated this thing with me making sure I wasn’t hooking up with other people. Sorry, but you cannot have your cake and eat it too. And you’re definitely not gonna be mad at ME because you got fuckin caught in trying to have two girls. Honestly- who the fuck is named Rafiq.
Girls- be smart and check your man before he snatches your soul.
