donât hate urself, hate the system that made u feel insecure about every single aspect of ur life
to name just a few that Iâve personally dealt with
-itâs ok to be living with your family over the age of 18
-itâs ok if youâve never had a relationship, and if you still havenât had your first kiss
-itâs ok to have cellulite. itâs ok to not to work out
-itâs ok not to have a huge friend group, or a big social media presence
-itâs ok if youâre not âconventionallyâ attractive bc that concept is made up!!!!
-itâs ok if you arenât good at make up, and donât want to be. it is not lazy for a women to go bare face.
-itâs ok if you didnât go to parties and drink excessive amounts during high school, high school is so glamorized in tv and itâs not a true depiction. high school is NOT the best four years of your life. neither is college. you did not miss out.
-itâs ok to not know what you want to do, or change your ideas 1000 times. if you want to go back to school @ 28, do it. there is no age limit on education
-itâs ok to have body positivity for others but not yourself. you are growing.
-most importantly, you have time. you have time













