i will be my own home.

☼*.°•*

[archbudzar]

turn ur do i deserves ~into~ do i wants

[decentsapling]

Hey, reminder that one of the reasons humanity has been able to flourish is because we formed societies and helped support each other. Complete independence and self reliance is a myth to try to get you to buy more things. Please reach out. Please connect yourself. There is no reason you have to do things alone.

[guwopbaby]

I’ve learned that all you can do is play your part. Whether a person appreciates it or not. You know that you was 100 with every move.

[championsaremade]

Everything heals. Your body heals. Your heart heals. The mind heals. Wounds heal. Your soul repairs itself. Your happiness is always going to come back. Bad times don’t last.

[crazy-brazilian]

[little-witchys-garden]

[girlsuggestion]

you are worthy you deserve it

[transfaguette]

sometimes, especially as a disabled person, all you can do is focus on what is directly in front of you. focus on how you can make your day to day, hour by hour, life better. If that's what you have to do to survive, do it. Indulge. Be wasteful. Be messy. You deserve to thrive, or at the very least be a little more comfortable.

[wvterways]

life really is so simple when you sit back and realise you don’t actually have to do a lot of things. i don’t have to be on my phone constantly. i don’t have to sit inside all day. i don’t have to reply to peoples messages straight away. i don’t have to have what’s in my fridge. i can go out and get groceries and make things that I’m craving. i can go on a walk. i can turn my phone off for a day or two. i can sit and read for hours on end. i can journal for as long as i want. i can mediate. i can cook. i can clean. i can breathe deeply. i can get myself a tea or a coffee. i can have meaningful conversations with my family. i don’t have to be in a constant state of “online”. i can disconnect. I’m not obliged to be here. my name isn’t being called out on a list. i can leave. i can take time away. i am allowed to live.

[pacey-grey]

I made a baby blanket for a pregnant woman at work and I went back and forth about it like “is this weird? To like hand make something for someone when we’re like friendly acquaintances not like bffs. God why are you so fucking awkward.” Anyway I gave it to her and she said she loved it and in the back of my head I’m like yea she’s nice and probably just humoring the weirdo. Well she texted me a picture this weekend of a scrunchy faced newborn at the hospital wrapped in the blanket I made her. And I’m like. Wow. She loved it so much she took it with her! To the hospital! To give birth! She wrapped her newborn it! I am just so filled with love and joy right now.

People will love the things you make them. Because you thought of them and you cared.

[phases-and-frases]

[archbudzar]

follow my art on Instagram ❤️

[akindplace]

If there is something you can do right now that takes a bit of energy but it will make you feel better, please do it. Maybe it's taking a shower or eating a treat, doing some stretching, checking in with a friend. Is there anything that can improve your comfort right now? If you need a little motivation, remember that you will get a little boost after doing some self-care, even if it looks like a small step, because those steps are still moves that build up in your journey. Please choose to do something comforting for yourself, it doesn't have to take up a lot of energy. It can be enough to lay down, to wash your face, drink something refreshing or eating a something sweet. Your comfort matters.

[archbudzar]

instagram

[akindplace]

Thisfeelsnice

[juneacademia]

i don’t know who needs to hear this but everything will be okay.

i know it seems scary and daunting and really, really hard. but there are better days coming, warmer loves, more opportunities to live.

it’s okay to not have everything figured out, especially if you’re still studying or you’ve just graduated or you just don’t know what to do next.

take it slow, take some deep breaths, you’ll figure it out. be gentle with yourself.

[6i]

nobody needs you more than you need yourself. stop self sacrificing. stop self abandoning.