theres a weird xy type of graph or axis you can make around feedism fantasies centered around levels of intimacy vs. impersonalization (being fed By Someone vs. fattened up in a facility somewhere with a tube) and consensuality vs. non-consensuality (sitting down and agreeing about it with someone in your fantasies vs. being force fed).
Like intimate and consensual being soft feedism (usually). Intimate and nonconsensual being kidnapping type stuff. Non intimate and consensual being signing up for a medication trial knowing the side effects or getting paid to stuff yourself for cash. Intimate and nonconsensual being aliens taking you as private fodder. Do ykwim?
this is a rough and probably inaccurate guide to what I'm talking about
