we get a little fat

27, kink blog, minors dni, trans tme, if ur bio doesn't have an age i will block u

[fluffytransmasc]

Any pronouns🍬

You can call me Derry!

Disabled/Chronically Chill ♿️

Hucow boy with big tiddies 🐮

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Fat liberation, disability justice and kink all go hand in hand 💕

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Weight gain, Hucow/lactation, breeding, stuffing, belly play, burps <3, feedism, intox (weed and alcohol), praise, pet play (house cow/cat boy flavour <3), preg, ovipos, maybe vore? but i'm picky about it lmao

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[demonprincex]

How Do I Become Less Obedient?

Autistic Advice#12: Noncompliance is a liberating social skill - but it must be developed.

If you’ve never been all that disobedient before, you can and should start really, really small. For example, you can wear the slightly revealing or gloriously trashy-looking garment that makes your mom roll her eyes and sigh despondently every time she sees you put it on. You will feel judged and disapproved of when you put it on, but that is fine. Your goal is to sit with the uncomfortable feelings and continue with your desired behavior anyway.  Saunter down the steps in that highlighter-yellow Garfield crop top with your chest hair flowing over the neckline, and harness as much courage as you can muster. It’s okay if you feel like a beacon of sin. Just keep it moving. Your emotions are not the target here. Your behavior is. You can feel however you are feeling in the moment so long as you keep acting like you’re free.  Do you have a favorite TV show that a partner or roommate vocally hates? Try watching that show around them without apologizing or defensively joining them in mocking the program. At first, you probably won’t be able to enjoy the show while in their presence. You’ll feel self-conscious about everything they find annoying or cringe-inducing about the show, and so focused on their reactions that you can’t relax. That’s okay. Allow those feelings of embarrassment and guilt to exist and pass through you without giving up. In time, you will be able to ignore these reactions more, and enjoy the activity.  You want to see the needle of discomfort moving down just a little, like Link’s body temperature meter in Tears of the Kingdom when he puts on a breathable outfit in a hot climate. You’re not gonna go from roiling hot to frosty cold in an instant. But after a certain point, you won’t be actively in pain anymore. Things are just gonna slowly suck less, bit by bit, until they are finally okay. That’s true of most major life adjustments, I find.  Probably the best way to develop self-advocacy skills while growing in your distress tolerance is simply by telling other people no. Do this without explanation or hedging. Nitpicky aunt wants to hear all about your dating life? “No, I don’t want to talk about that.” Unreliable ex-friend wants you to do them the tiny favor of moving their entire home gymnasium into a new third story walk-up? “No, I’m not available.” Manipulative shift supervisor wants to cajole you into sticking around for another three hours to close? “No.”  As many advice columnists smarter than me have already intoned, “no” is a complete sentence. “No” requires no explanation. “No” is not subject to debate. “No” can be repeated over and over like a broken record if a disrespectful person acts like they can’t hear it. And you can walk away at any time to make your “no” physical and impossible to argue with, when someone has proven they don’t respect your boundaries. 

you can read or listen to the full piece for free here

[demonprincex]

Feeling unsafe is not the same thing as actually being under threat — and if we mask and people-please reflexively, we are likely treating many completely harmless situations of disagreement as if they were mortal threats. It’s important to learn to distinguish between a situation where you have no freedom to speak up, and one where you can live authentically as yourself, and simply get more comfortable with not pleasing everyone. So in any situation where you are free to, try saying “no” and riding out how scary it might feel.  When you first say “no” without explanation or apology, you will feel anxiety. That’s okay. In fact, you should pat yourself on the back for reaching the borders of your comfort zone. It is in this area of unfamiliar, slightly scary, yet possible action that we are able to grow.  You might panic the first time you tell your spouse you’re not cooking dinner every night anymore, and he’ll have to figure out the meal planning himself, or the first time you let a call from a manager go unanswered while you’re off the clock. Great! You are training your body to recognize that nothing bad happens when somebody is a little peeved at you. You’re detaching your sense of safety from another person’s feelings, and tearing apart that enmeshment hurts the way ripping off a band-aid does. 

[demonprincex]

#this article made me finally understand what distress tolerance is and why it would make sense to train it#but i have absolutely no idea how to apply this to my own life#none of the examples would work for me#i don't even mask well anymore i just go on autopilot when asked questions like ''is an 8 am appointment ok'' and say yes 😭

My recommendation for you would be to slow down the process. If your instinct is to automatically say yes, just don't say anything for a second. It's okay if the moment feels awkward. It's not a weird thing to stop for a moment and think. You can even say "I need a moment to think about that." when someone throws you a question or recommends a course of action that you aren't sure how you feel about.

If those options fail, and you still reflexively say yes, you get to change your mind! You can call back and say "I need to change the time for an appointment." You can text your friend and say "Actually, I decided I don't want to see that slasher movie, sorry." You are allowed to speak up after the fact! That is just as legitimate! If you can't access your feelings in the heat of the moment, give yourself some time and space, and then do what you wanna do.

[fluffytransmasc]

man the new meds are def working cause i don't tend to crave sweets but i want cookies and brownies and donuts so bad rn

[magicratfingers]

bc tumblr u dipshits

[guillotinedream]

why are we not talking about this bitch carrying a designer bindle on a stick. This is the millionaire homeless person of 1929

[fluffytransmasc]

smh stole his whole look

[fluffytransmasc]

new meds seem to be doing their job i've actually been eating several times a day for once! helps that my love is finally home and encouraging me to eat too.

[zenaida-auriculata]

My tumblr notes when mutuales clock in to like my posts

[peenutbuttjelly]

No one asked for it but here is my fave boy Ben...In french when someone wrongfully think they can handle something when they actually can't we say "to have eyes bigger than the belly" <33 fits soo well

[radium225]

More obscure VN stuff....

[wobblywhims]

sleepy Leon

[ambergate18andup]

Is it that wrong to want to be fat and worshiped and doted on from time to time

[wobblywhims]

Leon’s a softy ♡

(referenced from gainerforever !)

[kaylmao]

you love fat people outside of sexual contexts too, right?

[housecow]

cute and soft and round and fat 🙂‍↕️

[wizardarchetypes]

craziest thing in the world is how many restaurants have started not including fries or any side whatsoever with their burgers meanwhile the burgers cost the downpayment on a new car. you want $19 for a fucking sandwich and you aint gonna give me even a scoop of coleslaw on the side? you’ve truly lost your fucking mind. i’m filing a class action lawsuit atp

[fluffytransmasc]

GUESS WHO FINALLY GOT AROUND TO ADDING STICKERS TO THEIR STORE!

Take home your own lil guy for just 4 Dollars!

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Derry Sticker - fluffytransmasc's Ko-fi Shop

Take a cute lil hucow home! Home cut and printed holo sticker in Blue, Yellow and Pink!

[gelphienation]

I think with ozempic what really sets it apart on a marketing level is it’s the first weight loss medication or treatment to really say “we believe you, you’re not fat because you suck and have no willpower you’re fat because you’re genetically inferior but we can fix that now!” and they’re saying this to people who have probably been told since the age of maybe 6 or 7 that having cellulite made them spiritually feeble and morally evil. You can’t reasonably counter that kind of approach by saying “but I love fat butches though” like you need a disability informed approach that actively challenges any notions of health as tied to morality in any way. Otherwise you’re basically just shooting a nerf gun at an armoured tank. Charming as fat butches may be

[b33t-r00t]

When you’re so bad at bartering that your supplier ends up with a lot of excess income…

Based on a text post I made a little while ago. Had to get Cai (xe/xer) involved for this one.

Text is written out below the cut.

Image 1 Item description: ”Relay conduit Translates beacon energy for use in your pulse drive. Cost 560” Dialogue box: ”Cai - Black market vendor You're after parts, right? I think I’ve got something you’ll want to take a look at. It’s yours… for a price.”

Image 2 Item description: ”Tracking chip The tech is so out-dated that it might be undetectable… Cost 300” Dialogue box: ”Cai - Scavenger What? You thought my wares were a one time thing? I’ve got an eye for this stuff, if you’ve got the funds.”

Image 3 Item description: ”Lock pick A modern-day pick for a modern-day lock. Cost 1750” Dialogue box: “Cai - Trader Come to check out the new storefront ? Watch out, prices are on the rise these days~”

Image 4 Item description: ”Nyandwi’s pyramid An old world artifact of some mystery. Cost 3020” Dialogue box: ”Cai - Specialist merchant These are dangerous items my friend, I’ll not sell them to just anyone…”

Image 5 Dialogue box: ”Cai - Antiquatarian [yeah that’s spelt wrong oops] What’s this? An out of hours appointment? Well, since you’ve kept me so well-funded…”