Just your average outlet for sexy stuff

NSFW 18+ Only Hey you beautiful motherfucker, thanks for checking out my page. I'm a 31yo pansexual switch cis male. This page has taken many forms over the years and despite the nsfw purge, it's still going to be, a sort of sexuality repo, for me. I recently got out of a fairly serious couple year relationship with an amazing transwoman aaaand I don't know how to not come off like a chaser now 🤷‍♂️ so I guess it's all going to get funneled here. I'm very attracted to femboys, sissies, traps, transgirls, CDs, effeminate twinks etc. women too, obviously, but every woman I've met seems to be immediately turned off by guys that happen to love dicks too so🤷‍♂️. Feel free to send me dick/clitty pics 🤤 and/or messages if you'd like to 💕 Especially if you happen to be in the DFW area in Texas.

[three-is-my-crowd]

[ceeschef]

We are a bi sexual swingers couple

[lindadebakker]

zo bi als maar kan

[bobbycd311-deactivated20180525]

Yes Iam

[jhenry1974]

Yes

[cissythesissy]

I am now and I love it!

[imasucker4cdsinlingerie-deactiv]

I am!!

[haileygrey]

Thinkin about... jerkin of onto a cock 😳 then sucking it 😨🥵🥵

[lost-in-transnation]

God yes 🥵🥵 Ive wanted to do this for a long time.

But also, It'd be equally as hot for someone to jerk off onto my cock and suck it.

...And then we'd makeout 🤤

[myalltimefavs956]

I'm so bored today. Somebody suck my cock.

[glitterxdevil-deactivated202210]

normalise not expecting girls to be into anal :-)

[glitterxdevil-deactivated202210]

i understand when people say “normalise not expecting anyone to” look, i get it

however, men and teenage boys are the biggest consumers of mainstream cishet porn. as anal sex continues to grow to be a bigger part of porn, so does their thinking that anal is just as normal as vaginal sex, and that (cis) women will always be okay with it

[cwicseolfor]

Normalize penetrated partners determining what’s going to happen between them and anyone else, full stop.

If cishet guys were under constant pressure to receive penetration this would be over but quick. The same bullshit expectations groomed into straight cis men as children - namely, that sex is about them, their egos, and their penises - poison everyone’s experiences with each other no matter your configuration of traits.

No one is an object. Everyone is entitled to determine what happens to their bodies, all the more when injury is a potential outcome. If someone wanted to try their judo throw on you nobody would consider refusal unreasonable - even if you’ve done it with others, even (perhaps especially!) if you’d done it with that person before. Nobody would consider it normal or acceptable for a person to pressure people into being thrown, although it wouldn’t be unusual or inappropriate for them to seek an interested judo partner.

It’s not the act, it’s the depersonalization of the participants that creates the problem.

[lost-in-transnation]

I like this answer and I agree, but i think it's a pipedream that such a drastic change in the toxic cishet way of thinking will happen in my lifetime.

[experiencinglifeagain]

I need to get some things off my chest before I am officially on hiatus because I saw some shit

1. Calling nonbinary people cis is erasing our identities as trans people and nonbinary people. I am sick of cisgender people making it sound like nonbinary people aren't trans enough to be in the trans community, yes our experiences can be different but that's because being trans is a very diverse experience. We are nonbinary. Full stop.

2. Calling bi/pan/poly/omni people "straight-ish" or "hetero-passing" or "half straight half gay" is extremely insulting and is erasing our identities as multisexual people. It is not a privilege for our identities to be erased.

3. Policing the words people use to define their identities is bullshit. Let people be transmasc lesbians. Let people be aromantic. Let people be genderfae. Let people be polysexual. Stop telling people they're not allowed to be in our community just because their label might be "strange" to you. Newsflash, we're all fucking strange get used to it.

Alright, goodbye until I feel like I can handle tumblr discourse again.

[glitterxdevil-deactivated202210]

normalise not expecting girls to be into anal :-)

[glitterxdevil-deactivated202210]

i understand when people say “normalise not expecting anyone to” look, i get it

however, men and teenage boys are the biggest consumers of mainstream cishet porn. as anal sex continues to grow to be a bigger part of porn, so does their thinking that anal is just as normal as vaginal sex, and that (cis) women will always be okay with it

[lost-in-transnation]

I agree with this so much. I have another point to add though when it comes to how porn is depicted:

I was watching a "gonzo"-type porn vid the other day where a girl was like panicking going back and forth about whether or not she wanted to go through with trying anal because she was scared and putting a bunch of pressure on herself to do it.

The dude put everything on pause, told her she didn't have to anything she wasn't sure of, and asked her whether she was really comfortable with it or not. And if she wasn't, they would just skip it and no harm, no foul.

He didn't make a huge deal about whether or not anal happened, just that she was comfortable and really wanted to go through with it before continuing.

She wound up doing it, it was hot af, and she was a bad actress so there's no way she could have faked the fact that she did end up enjoying it by the end of the vid lol. It was honestly one of the best scenes I've seen in a long time and I gained a huge amount of respect for the male actor and the company that makes those videos for keeping those sort of things in the videos instead of editing it out.

I can find a link to it if anyone is interested because I genuinely think THAT is something that should also be normalized. Respectful porn (even if it was scripted) that actually depicts a modicum of reality.

[disgustinggf]

give me ur hoodies and shirts and i'll ride u in them

[lost-in-transnation]

Everything in the universe I need right at this moment:

A tall, cute, maybe even a little bit fem. A top. A dominant top. And not afraid to be rough and forceful.

Ok, I need him here and in my bed in 2mins ready to rail the absolute fuck outta me.

And I'd really love his cum in my mouth. Please and thank you.

**And cuddles afterwards**

**= if I can't have anything else, this is the bare minimum.

[fillmewithcum]

people that post audios of them getting off are the backbone of our society

[lost-in-transnation]

THIS

[confession-of-a-broken-person]

I’m gay for femboys. They cute af

[lost-in-transnation]

I'm in the mood to tease, edge, and pound a cute femboy until his brain shuts off, eyes roll back and his whole body spasms, milking his cum into my mouth so we can share it while we make out and cuddle and figure out what game we should play. 💚

[cultleaderzukki]

I want a boy to straddle my face and jerk off right in front of me. I want to run my nails up and down his thighs and coach him through his orgasm. Hearing his cute little gasps and whimpers on top of me…  feeling the shivers that run down his body….. what an out of body experience that would fucking be

[counterpoots-deactivated2016022]

When you’re making out with someone and they climb on top of you and lay on you and grind into you and you wrap your legs around them and you just want to get closer to them but you can’t cause you already are holy FUCK

[hxrnyxnmain]

i’d kill to be topped by a girl rn like i think i’d combust just to feel a girl grind her dick against me before pressing in and stretching me open 

[desperate-dyke]

the thought of getting edged a couple of times before a date night and made to go out all dripping and unsatisfied and unable to do anything about it is... v hot to say the least

[incubuswhorror]

I want to blow a boy’s back out, watch his eyes roll back and his mouth fill with drool and hear him whine like he never would if he was in control. I wanna fuck a boy better than he could ever hope to fuck me  

[lost-in-transnation]

Fuck. I want both sides of this.

[ladylike-dominance]

i want a pretty naked boy to straddle one of my legs so i can spank him while he grinds on my thigh and makes little whimpering moans against my neck

[wholesome-dom]

Highkey wanna make a cute boy grind on my thigh until he’s about to make himself cum, just so i can grab his hips and hold him in place to watch him squirm and whine.

[lost-in-transnation]

Umm... Fucking yes please.