This Is Why We Can’t Have Nice Things, Barry

Bailey/21/she/her

[jupitersmusings]

good things will happen 🧿

things that are meant to be will fall into place 🧿

[overlord-fire-bubble]

THIS ONE FUCKING WORKS. REBLOG IT.

[cryptid-corpse]

Reblog if you wish you had little fangs and could bite people.

[nosalvationintime-deactivated20]

PSA: Please teach your partner how to choke properly if you’re into that kind of thing.

The point of choking is not to crush the oesophagus, but rather to put light pressure on the carotid arteries to stop oxygen circulation to the brain. So tops, please create a V shape with your hands, which allows the fleshy part of the palm to rest against the oesophagus without causing any obstruction to the windpipe, and press down on the arteries. It’s not about stopping your bottom from breathing completely, but making them lightheaded.

This is very, very important!

Also, please don’t attempt any choking whilst under the influence because your better judgement may be impaired and you can cause some serious damage.

Choking is serious business, if you’re going to engage in it, please be sure to practise it properly and in a safe manner!

[alphadaddydom]

Important read.

[softbrattyangel]

get kinky bur stay safe!

[dommekinks]

Lay across my lap pet,

Keep counting,

When my palm meets your ass,

If you lose the counts,

I'll make you regret.

😏😏

Xoxo💚

@dommekinks

[mijomii]

July is disability awareness month but a lot of people tend to forget it :/ :/ :/

[mijomii]

It’s all OK if you didn’t know, don’t feel bad about it, it’s a great occasion to listen to disabled people! We might not have pretty flags who will catch your attentions like during pride months, but we’re still here!

[mijomii]

I see a lot of people (esp disabled ppl) feeling bad for not knowing it’s this month but no!! It’s all okay if you didn’t know! Don’t worry no one is going to be mad after you, I phrased it poorly in the og post. I’m sorry if my words made you feel bad.

Please take care of yourself and be proud of who you are! ♥️

[classicalphan-deactivated201805]

respect girls with a chubby tummy respect girls with stretch marks respect girls with big thighs respect girls with hairy arms respect girls and their clothing of choice respect girls and their privacy respect girls and their confidence respect girls and their rights respect girls who arent fully transitioned yet respect girls with scars respect girls who like girls respect girls who like both guys and girls respect girls who are asexual

respect girls. dont treat them as objects.

[septemberequinox]

casual survey: reblog if you want to kiss a girl right now

[guildenstern]

if you are scandalized at the thought of children seeing this

but are fine with children seeing this

you are simply homophobic. it absolutely does not matter whether you yourself are lgbt or not, in parroting the exact rhetoric that has been used to oppress us for decades (that any sensual or sexual expression by lgbt people is perverted and intended to corrupt/prey upon youth) you are aligning yourself with our oppressors and betraying your community. you are holding us to a standard drastically different than that to which you hold straight and cis people. you are demanding absolute assimilation and sanitization of our existence to cater to your own internalized homophobia and transphobia, and corporations will thank you for it

[lumberjackloverboy-moved]

also like, spirt halloween will sell sexy nurses right next to elsa costumes and nobody bats an eye. handing out condoms or wearing speedos =\= harming children

[wellthatsjustgreat]

The next time they tell you Americans are “happy” with their employer provided health insurance remember that that “happiness” is fueled by willful ignorance of what the alternatives are really like and fear of losing what little crappy health care they currently have.

[starlightomatic]

Honestly, nevermind the low price, if seeing doctors was this logistically easy I’d have way better health. With adhd/anxiety/depression, seeing doctors is usually just too complicated and takes too much energy to deal with.

[sasquapossum]

To someone in the US this reads like science fiction, or maybe a daydream. Not saying we couldn’t *ever* get there, but it will take so many years of overcoming grifters’ and troglodytes’ resistance that just thinking about it is exhausting.

[terfsarecunts]

terfs literally recycling homophobic rhetoric of “seeing Britney and Madonna kiss is gonna make my kids think they’re lesbian!! They’re going to think it’s trendy and ok!” Is baffling but unsurprising.

[slutdge]

This is what I’m fucking talking about… If this post had said “depression” instead of schizophrenia I’m positive this person wouldn’t have perceived it as threatening. Psychotic people are not dangerous. Being around psychotic people is not a threat to your safety. This is why we face so much mistreatment by medical professionals and social alienation. Because people see us as an inherent threat, you people seriously have to fucking read a book. What an absolutely pointless and rude thing to add to a post about awareness for a severe disorder.

[pervocracy]

What I Mean When I Say I’m Sex-Positive

I think freedom of sexuality is something that we all need and very few of us have

I think sexual pleasure is a legitimate thing to want and ethically pursue

I do not judge people for the (consensual) sex that they have or want

I will not tolerate slut-shaming

I will not tolerate hatred of people based on gender or orientation (including asexual)

I will not tolerate hatred of sex workers

I believe comprehensive, honest, non-judgmental sex education is necessary for public health and happiness

I think understanding of sexual consent–what it is, why it matters–is sorely lacking in society and crucially important

I reject preconceptions of what kind of sexuality a person should have, whether these preconceptions are based on gender, age, culture, disability, survivor status, or basically anything else

I value people’s individual freedom of choice in determining their sex lives (including the choices not to have sex)

What I Don’t Mean

Everyone should have sex

Everyone should have kinky, non-monogamous, exhibitionistic, pansexual sex

Accepting someone’s sexuality means you have to participate in it, watch them engage in it, or hear about it in detail

Nothing related to sex is ever hurtful for anyone

Feminism should be all about sex

Sex fixes everything

[lauryn-order]

OP Blocked Me So I Can’t Reblog/Reply So I’m Making My Own Post With Screenshots

Honestly, I just want to plead with y’all to please be careful when it comes to all older cis men on here that act like they’re the/an authority on kink and dynamics with the set in stone BDSM/kink “rules”. They may be nicer, have large followings, and not seem like obvious Tumblr Doms, but that doesn’t mean they’re not still the bad kind of Domly Doms with high and mighty attitudes that spew bullshit on here. 

I see a lot of posts circulate from popular older cis men and “mentors” who speak in similar ways to this with b.s. “facts” or advice that just simply aren’t true, absolute facts, or good advice, but people take it as if they are because they see others believing it and it’s just not okay. 

[radical-eve]

[ironbound-oberon]

I have cochlear implants and I can only buy parts to fix them or upgrade then from 1 corporation bc of tech exclusivity. upgrades to get new processors for both ears cost $23k & insurance only covers 90% (and it’s “good” insurance)

cyberpunk dystopia is already here for the disabled. fight for universal healthcare, fight against capitalism NOW.

[dovewithscales]

I want all the abled people reading this to go price check a power wheel chair.

The future people fear with subscription fees for body parts is already here. The plot of Repo! The Genetic Opera is already here. Disabled people are already facing impossible prices for aids and treatments they need to live.

[thatsjustplainpoppycock]

There is a new Spice Girls meme, and I am absolutely on board with it.

[kinkyuserboxes]

[itsjustally]

it seems as though a lot of people still don't understand (or have forgotten) that just because you're in a relationship with someone, that doesn't mean you're entitled to do whatever you want to them.

like, do not touch your s/o in their sleep without consent. do not touch them in public "secretly" without consent. do not spontaneously try to engage them in a kink that they haven't agreed to.

just don't touch people without full, enthusiastic and informed consent.

why is this so difficult to grasp??