minnie ♡ @lotusfemmes - Tumblr Blog

Minnie (online name) , he/they/it, 23, femme/lotus dyke! Femme4all but butches / studs get my soft spot ! :3

🚬 - asks and DM's. - Just be respectful and kind! I love yapping and I love learning things and hearing things from people and mutuals ^_^

DNI: minor’s, cishet men, transphobes, racists, terfs, radfems, queer police, pro-ICE, religious people, anti-kink, idk if I think of more I’ll add them!

tags : #🦌☆ (my stud)

#🐚♥︎ (writes/yaps)

#🐚 ♥︎#🦌☆#🫀☆#intro post #lesbian #lesboy #dykeposting #pillow princess #femme4butch #femme dyke

birdbyt3

i love bondage in a freaky way but i also love it in an autistic sensory way

mortuaryfemme

i saw someone on tiktok suggest using “lotus” to mean “black femme lesbian” and i love it!! 🪷 i luv all my lotus sisters

lotusfemmes

“But we already have fish” godforbid we wanna create/use a new term for ourselves

thisisfutchmisia

It’s very interesting how people are weird about futches and when they give a reason it’s because “that’s just being normal” as if femme and butch aren’t, showing they don’t truly respect the identities they claim to defend

mortuaryfemme

i saw someone on tiktok suggest using “lotus” to mean “black femme lesbian” and i love it!! 🪷 i luv all my lotus sisters

theleiversept3

omg yes I’ve heard about this a few days ago. we should call ourselves that honestly, like how studs get their own name lol.💕

like “lotus x stud” do y’all see the vision?👀

mortuaryfemme

i saw someone on tiktok suggest using “lotus” to mean “black femme lesbian” and i love it!! 🪷 i luv all my lotus sisters

femmeoflaces

what to do abt envious friends that u can’t exactly pinpoint the negativity from but can feel intuition telling u its serious 😭

cocoacherub

𐙚₊˚⊹꒱ ₊˚⊹ ᰔ.

vamplire

armand doing the steps:

step 1: apology tour

step 2: evil again

I love when my butch tells me she doesn’t like choking me and proceeds to choke me till my vision becomes blurry 🥰

#🫀☆#lesbian #butch lover #femme dyke #femme posting #femme4butch #high femme #femme princess #femme4stud #femme lesbian #black femme #femme butch #femme4masc #lesbian nsft #sapphic nw/fw

sigmalesbo

can we touch tips

chrysiridiawings

I do not and will not EVER AGREE that “butchfemme dynamics are heteronormative” and I thing that take is STUPID AND IGNORANT so DO NOT HEAR ME SAY SOMETHING IM NOT SAYING

However…. Sometimes it feels like certain people, and I’ve noticed it usually be women who do not necessarily identify as lesbian (bi and pan women) but it’s def smth I see sometimes within the lesbian community as well, will use “femme” and “butch” to actually mean “sub” and “dom” or “bottom” and “top” strictly from the sense of a heteronormative lens of one being the “woman”, ie the “one who is dominated” and the other is the man, ie the “one who dominates”. Or they exclusively view Butchfemme as a kink/sex dynamic and consider absolutely nothing else about butch or femme as an identity external to sex

The people who view Butchfemme that way often view Butches as Men Lite(TM) who are exclusively daddy doms and femmes are women who are exclusively princess subs and in both cases, when talking about butches or femmes, extremely misogynistic language is used to put both of them down. And when I see people talk about them like that, i ALMOST understand how people come to the “butchfemme is heteronormative” conclusion, even if it’s still stupid as fuck.

But then like the solution is to actually talk to ACTUAL lesbians, actual butches and actual femmes, and understand that Butchfemme is NOT describing top/bottom dynamics, and that both are actually closer to gender and political identity than they are anything else

Idk if this makes sense I’m just tired of everything I do as a butch being scrutinized under these lenses is all ig