you're the universe i'm helpless in

she/her | avatar art by elain on picrew!

[love-and-starshine]

Hi everyone!!

I'm sorry I disappeared so abruptly and for such a long time! I didn't mean to do so, sometimes life just... comes at you full speed and knocks you out, you know?

I've been doing pretty poorly with everything going on, what with the Current World Situation tm and some family stuff, so I haven't had any energy left for much of anything, really. My mental health has been bad and my pet has been sick so it's been really stressful lately. I'm doing a little better now though! My pet is recovering well and that alone is such a relief I feel somewhat better due to it

I'm hoping to come back properly really soon, I've missed you all a lot!

I'm sorry if I worried anyone!! I promise I'm okay! I'm healthy and staying safe, I hope you all are too <3

[rattyshipss]

Imagine your f/o telling you you deserve the good. You've been feeling like a horrible person and you don't feel like you deserve anything good. To be happy, for things to get better, even the smallest good thing you feel undeserving of. But your f/o knows you deserve the world. You deserve to be happy, you deserve for things to get better, you deserve everything good in the world.

[stupidcupidships]

romantic F/O: wait,,,, S/I is in love with me??

S/I:

S/I:

[fictional-crush-imagines]

asexual selfshippers, your f/os would literally NEVER try to pressure you into anything you’re uncomfortable with. they love you sm and just doing non-sexual things is totally perfect with them as long as they’re doing said things with you. they don’t think you’re ‘broken’ or any other stupid arguments against it and they would beat an aphobe’s ass for you. (or just get pissed off if violence isn’t in their nature.)

[nougatships-deactivated20210316]

You know what? Fuck it *selfs my ship*

[carrionkid]

someone: hey what’s that thing you like???

me:

[jhinkaynandi]

since i’m dealing with this rn, i thought i’d make a post for you all

for my mentally ill selfshippers, imagine your f/o reminding you to eat, telling you that you don’t have to make a full meal, but to at least eat something

imagine your f/o urging you to bathe/brush your teeth/hair/etc. “you don’t have to wash your hair if you don’t have the energy”, they say.

imagine your f/o getting your medications ready for you to take so you don’t have to worry about them.

imagine your f/o petting your hair as you take a nap, knowing that you can’t control the side effects of your medications.

imagine your f/o taking care of you when you hit a depressive phase.

[gueroboyfriend-deactivated20180]

u ever have on mutuals whos so deep in another fandom that u know absolutely zero about and they make posts that look like they speaking another language or some shit

[gueroboyfriend-deactivated20180]

[captainlordauditor]

i really appreciate the number of mutuals who are not in any of my fandoms sharing this post. its like a little hello nod as we pass each other in the hall

[deadredactedwalking-deactivated]

@sherlockisdaddy

[selfshipquotes]

F/O: I can explain.

S/I: Can you?

F/O: If you give me thirty seconds to think of a lie.

[mintchocolateships]

imagine your f/o writing about you. maybe they’re writing a love letter that they’ll never send, full of feelings they’re too shy to tell you about. maybe it’s a poem with lines full of phrases that describe your wondrous beauty. maybe it’s even a little story about you. no matter what it is, you’re their muse.

[nerdyfandomgamer]

@eds-self-shipping

[kittyandco-archive]

if you’re having a rough time: think of something positive that your f/o would say to you. imagine it in their voice. keep doing that. even if it doesn’t fix things, it’s definitely a huge help. it is also very in character, even if they aren’t the comforting type, exclusively because they love you! 

[butterflyinthewell]

Happy Hanukkah to my Jewish followers. May the next several days bring you light and blessings.

[rita-remade]

[toasty-self-shipping]

me looking at the same picture of my f/o for the 5th time

[edenships-deactivated20211002]

...the poWER that you and your f/o hold together like. you guys have such a cool reputation and you are so GOOD together

[callmekorora]

[thatslikesometaldude]

Me:*sees fanart of a mutual f/o* !!!!my mutual's s/o!!I should dm them the post!Wait no what if they think im annoying oh fuck we're not doing that