Aqua's relationships with Kana and Akane don’t just differ in plot — they differ in vocabulary.
How language reveals what Aqua really feels in Oshi no Ko
In Oshi no Ko, words are never neutral. Every verb, every subtle word choice functions as emotional evidence.
The relationships between Aka Akasaka's characters are built not only through scenes but through linguistic precision.
What words are chosen, and which are avoided, tell us everything about how genuine — or distorted — these emotions are.
I. Irekomu (入れ込む): Obsession, not love
Let’s start with Chapter 83 — the quiet prologue to a bigger misunderstanding.
Here, Mem comments that Aqua is “obsessed” with Kana.
In the original Japanese, she uses the verb 入れ込む (irekomu), a term that carries connotations of fixation or fan-like obsession, not romance. It’s the word you’d use for someone who throws themselves too deeply into a hobby, a cause, a role, or — tellingly — an idol. That choice is intentional.
Mem doesn’t say suki (to like) or koi suru (to love).
She says irekomu, and by doing so, Aka tells us exactly what Aqua’s fixation really is: a projection of his guilt.
And it’s not just a coincidence. This scene directly mirrors Aqua’s trauma surrounding Ai’s death.
Even though Mem is talking about Kana, Aqua’s internal thoughts immediately drift to Ai — the person he couldn’t protect.
Even the anime adaptation intensifies the connection, showing a symbolic image of Kana dying just like Ai.
Through this, Aka subtly tells us what the dialogue never states outright: Aqua’s “intensity” toward Kana isn’t born of love — it’s born of fear. He’s not in love with her, he’s terrified of her meeting the same fate as Ai.
That’s why the scene with Mem matters so much. It sets the stage — showing us that whatever “interest” others might perceive between Aqua and Kana is, in truth, the echo of his trauma, not a romantic spark.
Mem´s misinterpretation sets the stage for Akane’s later misunderstanding—and for us to see how language becomes the mechanism of that confusion.
II. Hikareru (惹かれる): The understandable mistake
Chapter 87 continues this theme of misunderstanding, this time through Akane’s words.
While reflecting on Aqua’s behavior, she says he was “attracted” to Kana.
In Japanese, the word she uses is: 惹かれる (hikareru).
Again, Akasaka chooses his words with surgical precision. Hikareru doesn’t mean love. It’s often used to express admiration, curiosity, or unconscious fascination. It’s the language of interest, not intimacy.
The author’s decision to have Akane use this word is critical.
Akane — usually the most perceptive character — is reading Aqua’s behavior, but without all the information. Because she doesn’t know what we know: that Aqua’s fixation stems from his guilt, from the fact that he was the one who encouraged Kana to enter the idol world.
Therefore, her conclusion, while logical, is incomplete.
She correctly senses Aqua’s emotional intensity — but she mistakes its cause.
Some fans forget that even Akane — the one who understands Aqua most — isn’t omniscient. She’s not a narrator with divine knowledge; and she is not immune to being wrong when she doesn’t have the full picture. The story has shown us repeatedly that Akane needs to investigate and analyze before reaching the truth — it’s her method, her defining trait.
Without the full context, what she perceives as romantic interest towards Kana is really Aqua’s buried trauma manifesting through guilt and a distorted sense of responsibility .
This is a deliberate narrative move. Akasaka wants us to witness how even Akane, who “sees through” people, can misread Aqua when her information is partial.
And here is the thing: he (Aka) intentionally makes the misinterpretation visible through language.
Just like with Mem, Aka doesn’t have Akane say “好き” (suki) or “恋している” (koishiteiru, to be in love). He makes her say hikareru — a term that perfectly captures the illusion of love, not the thing itself.
And because we’ve already seen irekomu earlier (Mem’s “obsession”), the manga gently tells us:
What Akane misreads as attraction, the audience already knows as trauma.
It’s one of many examples of narrative foreshadowing through linguistic nuance.
III. Tanoshii (楽しい): Momentary joy
By Chapter 146, Aqua himself gives us another piece of the puzzle of his heart. When speaking of Kana, he says that being with her is tanoshii — “fun.”
It’s a charming line, and many readers (and Kana) took it as a hint of romance.
But semantically, tanoshii carries lightness. It implies enjoyment, amusement, or temporary relief. It is never used for profound emotional content — only for immediate, surface-level joy.
Compare this to 幸せ (shiawase), which is what Kana herself uses in Chapter 148 when she says that Aqua is “happiest” with Akane.
That’s the emotional contrast made literal:
Kana gives Aqua tanoshii — momentary relief.
Akane gives him shiawase — genuine happiness.
And we can't forget that Aqua himself once used that same concept when speaking of his time with Akane (Chapter 98).
When he recalls his days with Akane, he refers to those as “happy days” — shiawase na hibi.
This word choice is also deliberate. Shiawase (幸せ) represents genuine happiness, a state of fulfillment and stability rather than passing joy.
So when he tells Kana that being with her is tanoshii, the difference is striking: what he feels with Akane are happy days; what he feels with Kana are fun moments.
The gap between those two sensations — tanoshii and shiawase — is the entire emotional distance between escapism and acceptance.
The difference isn’t subtle. It’s intentional. And proof that Aka Akasaka constructs emotional hierarchies through word choice.
IV. Tebanashitakunai (手放したくない): The language of conscious love
In contrast, Aqua’s language toward Akane belongs to a different emotional register.
In Chapter 97, he uses 手放したくない (tebanashitakunai) — literally “I don’t want to let go.”
This phrase expresses not fleeting enjoyment (tanoshii), not obsession (hikareru), but intentional emotional attachment. It conveys a conscious choice to hold on to something meaningful.
Unlike his reactive, guilt-driven responses around Kana, here Aqua articulates agency and recognition: Akane represents a relationship he wanted to preserve (even though he didn't in the end, choosing revenge over everything, and ended up regretting it).
Aqua’s bond with Akane is thus distinguished by intent. With her, he experiences the possibility of stability and the chance to be happy — not because she mirrors his trauma or can forget about it while being with her, but because she sees it and accepts it.
And that’s why Akane’s presence in Aqua’s life holds such a distinct tone — linguistically and narratively. She represents the first relationship in which Aqua is not trying to rewrite his past, but to exist within his present.
V. The hierarchy of emotion through words
By examining the japanese words that frame Aqua’s relationships, a clear emotional hierarchy emerges:
It’s not just vocabulary — it’s emotional architecture.
Each word represents a layer of how the author wants us to feel the difference.
VI. What remains unspoken
What makes all of this fascinating is that none of these distinctions are accidental. Akasaka uses language as emotional architecture — each verb and adjective carrying the weight of narrative truth.
By denying Aqua and Kana the language of suki (love), he refuses to give that relationship the foundation of romance, just its illusion.
By granting Aqua and Akane the vocabulary of attachment and happiness, he defines their bond as something deeper, lived, and mutual.
Even Akane’s misunderstanding serves a structural role: it reinforces how language itself becomes a test of perception.
Mem and Akane both interpret Aqua’s feelings through imperfect words. While Aqua himself has established a hierarchy of what he feels, thinks, and says about Kana and Akane. And through those words, the author communicates directly with the reader.
He reminds us that truth in Oshi no Ko can be found in the language, if we put aside ship wars and focus on what the story is actually trying to tell us.
