BDSM, S*X, AND THE SIGNS: part one.
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Every single sign has its kinky side. And they all have moments in which they desire to be submissive or dominant, but without a doubt, we can't talk about dominant energy without talking about Saturn first.
Saturn rules (♄): leather, handcuffs, bondage, the adrenal gland, belts, blindfolds, confinement, chains, obedience, padlocks, pinching, saddles, sadism, self-control, and whips.
And when it comes to the body Capricorn (♑︎ ) rules: knees, bones, skin, and skeletal structure. Aquarius rules (♒︎): lower legs.
Saturnian’s are excellent at dominating their partners in bed. Capricorn placements don't mind being dominating in the bedroom since it comes naturally to them; after all, they're used to being in charge during the day, so why would they stop at night? Cap placements (whether it's mars, rising, 10th house placements, Saturn aspects, or personal planets at 10° or 22°) exhibit this powerful energy in such a nurturing and caring manner, believe it or not. Mars-Saturn placements could also really enjoy showing off their dominant side, the sense of a slow-burn could really turn them on or edging their partner, "you won't finish until I say so" energy. ❤️🔥 when it comes to BDSM they wouldn’t mind diving into some bondage and discipline at all.
They will only take part if the other person is completely at ease with them doing so. Most of the time, cap placements will have people ask them to show off their authority in bed because they give off BDE haha. "That was nice, wasn't it?" they'll say after bending you over or watching you beg with a steady look and an almost smile on their lips. lmfao all lovely and calm. They can be big on aftercare after more intense sexual encounters. Gotta love that cap-cancer axis. 😝✨💕
And we can't forget to include Aquarius (whether it be mars, rising, 11th house placements, or personal planets at 11°, 22°) in the mix. They don't mind playing games at all, especially when it's mental games, thanks to their detached and rebellious character and that air (intellectual) sign energy. Aqua dominants can usually play on their submissive's anxieties during mind games, forcing them to question themselves and their entire worldview. Submissives can experience powerful feelings such as humiliation, fear, excitement, and arousal due to the aqua placements teasing. Aqua placements may act like no big deal, but it exhilarates them to be in charge because this is their chance to shine.
For instance, Julia Fox stated in an interview that she made a lot of money as a dominatrix and that she was able to reclaim her sexuality in those controlled environments. And the photos of her online depict her wearing tight latex or leather attire, slip dresses, and sky-high heels (haha the saturn dom energy). And surprise surprise, she is an Aquarius sun, Capricorn Mercury, Capricorn Venus, Capricorn Saturn, Capricorn Uranus, and Capricorn Neptune. Saturn took control of her whole chart haha, so when she said being a dominatrix taught her a lot about her sexuality, I'm 100% sure it did.
Uranus-mars placements can also be very kinky to the point where their partners could be shocked, or it's just very unexpected. Like in the middle of sex, they could be like, " Hey, we should try this or use this," haha. But their partners usually get very turned on by the Uranus-mars person's spontaneous energy. It's a sexually appealing and engaging vitality that attracts all kinds of people and attention. Aquarius or Uranus energy in general could be interested in sex toys or gadgets that others might find strange. Uranus (♅) rules: devices, experiments, impulses, photography. Aqua placements or those with Uranus aspects could also be interested or like the idea of fucking their friends lmfao or threesomes.
Taurus individuals could be either submissive or dominant if they please, but regardless, it will be focused on their sensory experiences and have a Venusian touch. Since Libra placements are also venus ruled, both these signs could enjoy pretty lingerie, food play, and whip cream stuff like that. Sex toys that are aesthetically pleasing, the color pink, or just beautiful sex toys in general like collars or gags that have lovely designs and quality. Stuff that looks and feels expensive as fuck. Libra placements (whether it be mars, rising, sun, or other personal planets at 7° or 19°) could also enjoy strip-teasing and flirty seduction like slowly letting their hair down and dressing up & taking pictures of one another as they slowly take pieces of clothing off. Libra placements could also have a kink for being bent over and getting their assed slapped hard (in the rulership book, the buttocks are ruled by Libra). In short, Libra placements do not mind being submissive in bed with the right person because it feels good, a sensation of being taken care of. Without a doubt though, Libra placements (or 7h placements as well) will be in tune with their partner. They will carefully pick up on their mannerisms, likes or dislikes, they like to please and it will satisfy them to pleasure their partner. These placements could ask their partner as well if they like something new they're doing or enjoying it etc.
But back to Taurus, these placements (whether it be mars, rising, venus, or personal planets at 2°, 14°, or 26°) will focus on their pleasure, even to a fault (I'm not calling them selfish, but when they want to feel good they will make it clear). There is an intense focus on quality and sensory experiences: comfortable bed, soft skin, good-smelling candles, hands-on, oil massages, and silky sheets. Sensation play involves any play that gives a person a sensation. Some common techniques include using ice during play (on the body for short periods, putting it in your mouth, etc), playing with food like whip cream or even feeding your partner, cooling or heating toys that are capable of holding temperature, using a feather, scarf, or toy to create fun sensations for you and your partner. Taurus placements or 2nd house placements could also love talking through sex or being loud or moaning since Taurus rules the throat. When there is roughness in bed, it's usually very pleasurable for the Taurus placement, and they can, for the lack of a better term, take it, haha.
Venus dominant people, in general, love luxury and taste, so why wouldn't they apply that to their sex life? Being attractive naturally and effortlessly is there thing, like mascara running and hair is disheveled, yet it looks incredibly seductive. They will look so hot before, during, and after. Their skin is silky and dewy, lips full and plump (Venusians have very lovely lips; they can be cherry red or light pink, cute cupid bows, haha like a doll), and strands of their gorgeous hair being astray. Sugary but seductive voices, curvaceous figures.💕. Venusians definitely wouldn’t mind some role-play, especially if they got to look super hot in the outfits hehe.
Venus (♀️) rules: beautiful objects, dancing, women's apparel, aromas, attraction, beds, blushing, candy, costumes, lingerie, lips, elegance, erotica, entertainment, fruit, flowers, hair, jewelry, lace, lewdness, make-up, modeling, matrimony, roses, self-indulgence, toys, velvet, wine, teeth, tongue, suffocation, stubbornness, throat, vocal cords.
When it comes to the body, Taurus (♉︎) rules: throat, jaw, ears, mouth, thyroid gland. And libra (♎︎) rules: hip, kidney, and bladder.
The sexually alluring and intensely passionate nature of harsh venus-mars aspects can be disruptive at times. The energy can be more toned down and less explosive with the gentler aspects. Regardless of whether the element is harsh or soft, there can be a rise in sexual desire accompanied by a more attractive aura. Those with venus-mars placements may benefit from relieving tension through art (venus), physical exercise, or even masturbation (mars).
The mercurials are kinky as fuck. Virgo placements effectively utilize sex to unwind and release all of the tension that has built up over the day. They are tense or have to put on composure in their daily lives; they can release that tension during sex. So, yes, the virgin represents Virgo, but not in an inexperienced or naïve way. Instead, it alludes to the sign's commitment to purity and service. It also indicates that Virgos are competent of taking care of themselves. side note: this is why Virgo women are often referred to as "model wives." For example, Beyonce, Zendaya, and Blake Lively are all Virgo suns who have received a lot of accolades from both their partners and the general public. Public opinion is that by having these ladies by their sides and putting them on a pedestal gave their husbands/partners an advantage in life. I mean, I also do agree. Imagine waking up next to Beyonce? Kissing Zendaya? I would die lmfaoo.
But the point is do not leave the Virgo placements out of the equation. Obviously, they can be selective, but if they find the right person, they will be highly interested in pleasing them and keeping their partner happy.
Mercury (☿️) rules: adaptability, androgyny, arms, hands, fingers, bisexuality, cleverness, flexibility, hygiene, humor, mischief, and nerves.
And when it comes to the body, Gemini (♊︎) rules: Body's pairs, lungs, arms, shoulders, and hands. Virgo (♍︎) rules: intestines, gall bladder, pancreas and spleen (does this mean that the Virgo placements want someone all up in their guts? possibly).
(I think we all know that mercurials love to be fingered and can be great at fingering people too lmfao, a lot of them can even have a hand fetish or get a lot of compliments on their own hands).
we have to remember that MERCURY IS CURIOUS AND CLEVER!. So in turn, Virgo and Gemini placements (whether it be mercury, mars, venus, or these planets at 6°, 18°, 3°, 15°, 27°) can seek to know everything about a subject, sex included. And then when it's showtime, you can find out there is a lot they know. They will have an open mind and can try anything out if it seems fun.
Virgo placements, in my opinion, can easily enjoy becoming more subservient. After a day of worrying and caring for others, it's good to let someone else be in charge and prioritize their pleasure. Especially because of this earth sign energy, they DO NOT mind getting rough as fuck in bed. It's their chance to make a mess and not worry about it at that moment lmfao. (and also, why did my friend say that Virgo placements with glasses are the freakiest of them all, i screamed). And like I said earlier ^ since Virgo placements don’t want to be the ones in charge during seggs all the time they could also be into Humiliation Play. Like being called dirty names in the privacy of their own bedroom or wearing a plug or bondage wear under your clothes to work or their partner spitting inside their mouth. 😭
On the other hand, Gemini placements exude a flirtatious and playful aura (Virgo and Gemini are great at dirty talk and sexting). Mercury-Mars placements, in a similar manner, can be great at dirty talk and being very specific about what they want done to them or to their partner. They know exactly how to get their partner's attention and get them fired up. But Gemini placements are deeply satisfied when watching people squirm, especially when they realize how easily they can get someone turned on. I swear all the Geminis I know are sexy as fuck. They could be into Sexual Sadism/Masochism. Doesn’t even have to be like in a crazy intense way. Can be as simple as liking to be lightly slapped, hair pulled, face grabbed hard etc. fingers in their mouth. sucking on them.
*In this post I focused on Capricorn, Aquarius, Taurus, Libra, Virgo and Gemini placements. In part two, I’ll do the rest of the signs. 🖤*
