Love Is My Kink

A love letter of sorts. An experiment and, I hope, a gift for the man I love. Femdom, mostly of the gentle kind, but I have a mean streak too. I'm 30F,  this blog is 18+ only. If you follow me, and I can't see that you are of age, I will block you. That's how I roll.

[sexualflirt]

[arco-irisrosa]

[rae-being-naughty]

Once I talked to my partner about taking more initiative and scheduling activities that he wanted to do and focus on more things he was interested in. He replied, “But what if you don’t like it?”

I paused for a moment and considered. “Have we talked about anything or doing anything so far I haven’t been interested in?”

“Well…no.” He was quiet for a moment and then said softly with a hint of wonder and child-like glee, “Anything I want?”

My heart ached. Physically ached in my chest. It sounded like the world opened up for him. Like possibilities were just waiting to be examined and snatched up. How had he lived this long and seemingly no one ask to do what he wanted? It was the simplest thing for me to ask him to share with me. Experiences and things that he is passionate about. That’s partnership. Mutual effort. Building a relationship together. Even if it is friendship. How was this novel to him?

I smiled, bittersweet and blinked away tears, “Yes. Anything you want.”

[loveismykink]

Thank you

Well. I logged on to tumblr this morning for the first time in forever only to read the announcement. Ouch. I’m still in disbelief. I’m not sure if anyone reads my blog, but if you are a gfd blogger I follow, I just want to say thank you, thank you, thank you. This space has been so helpful in working out who I am, accepting myself, and feeling less alone. I won’t even know your names, and you won’t know mine, but you made a big difference to me.  I felt like my particular mix of kink and almost maternal tenderness was so strange... and maybe it is... but now I know there are others like me, and that gives me comfort and strength.  I fracking hate how people think that porn/erotica is just dirty stuff you can kill off and no harm will be done. No. Sexuality is a fundamental aspect of being human. We need spaces to explore, delight, connect, learn and (yes) enjoy. This wasn’t just a space to find hot content - though it was also that - it was a space I learned about things like consent, body positivity, gender, compassion for myself and others. Shutting this down is short-sighted, mean and narrow-minded. I don’t know what else to say... so thank you, deeply, and all the best. Wishing all the gentle femdom peeps lives filled with the most glorious kinky loving femdom imaginable x

[inluvwu]

[ravenscurse-deactivated20121030]

[loveismykink]

forever reblog

[thegoodvybe]

[dateaboysuggestions]

Date a boy who loves you for you, despite any scars or traumas you may possess

[loveismykink]

Did this too :)

[dateaboysuggestions]

date a boy who isn’t pretty by normal standards but you think he’s the cutest person you’ve ever seen

[loveismykink]

I did this :) 

[fitblr-to-be]

He can have a tummy and still be yummy

[sailorhomoputo]

[lonely-gfd-cutie]

Dommes be like

Look at this precious creature. Such a beautiful, innocent, perfect creation. I just want to hold it and cuddle it and kiss it and pet it and love it. I shall protect it. It will know that in my arms no one will ever harm it.

*evil grin blossoms across her face*

That is to say, nobody but me.

[hhnggmushrooms-deactivated20191]

Why do you expose me like this

[dateaboysuggestions]

date a boy who wants to help you get over your fear of driving and eventually get your license

[curlsandstems]

Nothing is sexier than a man who expresses his feelings, opens up instead of acting hard, and acting like it’s not bad to love a female.

[dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts]

Never lose track of the fact that, regardless of your role in a bdsm relationship, all of the above goes both ways. Always.

[gfrralltheway]

:)

[chubby-baby-deactivated20220630]

Reminder

18+ means 18+, not “I’m 14 but I don’t get offended by your posts” or “I’m 16 but I’m mature for my age”

// If you’re a minor, get off my page, this isn’t for you //

[strawberry-kisu]

Or “I’m 18 in two months”. Smash that unfollow button if you’re not 18+ seriously

[chrissongzzz]

you still gotta flirt with her, even if she's ur girl

[sleepylittledomme]

I’ve always wanted one of those fuck machines. Why? So I can bind my sub’s hands to something so they can’t escape and watch it fuck them for hours while I enjoy their screams, moans, grunts, and whimpers. So I can adjust the speed as I please and wear them out completely.