FA side blog

28 FFA, 18+ minors DNI, bi verse/switch, soft feedee and feeder, not actively gaining

[softalloverbabe]

Greetings Tumblr, you’ve got another one. I have no idea what anyone should call me, I’ll figure that out later. I’m thinking about Softie, but I’m not set on it

I’ve been kind of a lurker in the feedist community for almost a decade, and recently I got to the point where I wanted to start posting. This is an anonymous side blog, I’m not sure how frequently I’ll be on here.

Stuff about me:

28, woman??? femme non-binary leaning (gender is hard, and I am soft)

5’6”, 400ish lbs (no, I’m not actively gaining, just maintaining/going with the flow)

Bi, switch, verse (no, I’ve never made a decision in my life)

I’m in the States (Northeast on the coast)

Not really sure what’s going on, but I think I’m being ghosted

✨if you’re exclusively looking for photos, they’re all tagged under “personal photos” and “personal”✨

Also interested in other kinks, I’ll likely post about them here too (d/s dynamics, praise kink, other stuff)

Non-kink related interests: Dungeons and Dragons, romantasy books, sewing and crafts, history and paleontology, nature and space, piercings and tattoos

I was an aspiring writer, but I’m switching fields because of AI, so now I just write kinky romance/smut as a hobby (I’m switching to working in healthcare and am staunchly anti-AI)

I was always a fat admirer, then I leaned into encourager/feeder territory, now I’m exploring feedee territory

This blog is mostly an outlet for kink related stuff I can’t talk about with people in my life and I’m too hesitant to post about on my main blog. I’m open to asks/messages/encouraging.

I WILL NOT SHOW MY FACE.

I DON’T HAVE SNAPCHAT.

I WILL NOT GIVE OUT MY PERSONAL SOCIALS.

THIS BLOG IS ANONYMOUS.

[softalloverbabe]

Got PayPal sweetie?

I do, I’m not one to ask for money but if you’re interested it’s: @kakuff

[peachy-ffa]

I'm no longer sure if this is me simply being too passionate or being obsessed at this point, but there's nothing as beautifully artistic as fat, how it creates curves that go outwards, rolls that stack upon each other from many angles and a softness that is one of a kind.

It's a whole experience like no other with unlimited beauty, especially since everyone carries extra weight differently, those little details only make it even more enchanting to me.

I only desire to one day sink into that softness and make it more abundant with my feeding hand.

[pangur-and-grim]

what I've learned from having other people edit my work is that I have a sick addiction to commas

[pangur-and-grim]

there have been four editing passes on my spider sex book, and each time they take away so many commas. no fresh commas are being added, this is just a continued culling. if you see a comma in the final book please understand that it survived so much

[pangur-and-grim]

[veemochi]

[softalloverbabe]

I was trying to figure out why I felt like garbage and realized I hadn’t eaten or drank anything today

So I got the $20 family deal from Popeyes

To quote a friend of a friend, “I’m eating for a family of ME”

[softalloverbabe]

Not quite a set, but I like it

[peachy-ffa]

Maybe some tummy wouldn't solve my problems, but at least it'd make them more bearable

[softalloverbabe]

I found the box of stuff on my dad’s body when he killed himself roughly a decade ago and he had $20 in singles in his wallet

I feel like I should do something with it, but I’m not sure what

Might go get a drink

[softalloverbabe]

I forgot to post these last night, but now the lace is unsalvageable

[softalloverbabe]

What's the oldest man you'll date and why are you talking about giving up on dating older men, bad experiences???

My situationship which led to the start of this blog was about 15 years older than me and in his early 40s

Generally I won’t date someone over 10-15 years older than me, but that’s a preference

It wasn’t a bad experience dating him (for the most part) but I find that the older the age gap the less people have in common

[softalloverbabe]

I am so genuinely confused

I could have sworn I just posted about hitting 500 followers a few days ago

Now I’m a little over 600 😳

When did this happen?????

Thanks everybody for following, I’m not really sure why 💜

I’ll keep things going as usual, randomness and all

[softalloverbabe]

Quick panties of the day in a Wawa bathroom

[softalloverbabe]

I’m not used to casually talking to people/dating because I tend to overthink everything

But I have a (maybe) date with an older guy in a few days

I told myself after my one situationship I wasn’t going to date older guys again

That’s also assuming things go well on this maybe-date

I also didn’t take all of my psych meds today so I might be scrambling for no reason

Fuuuuuuuck

[anxietyproblem]

[softalloverbabe]

I made what I thought was a good looking burger, posted it on Feabie, and immediately got asked where the toppings and sauces are

I’m basic as hell, I’m sorry 🫠

[softalloverbabe]

The burger in question

[softalloverbabe]

I made what I thought was a good looking burger, posted it on Feabie, and immediately got asked where the toppings and sauces are

I’m basic as hell, I’m sorry 🫠

[softalloverbabe]

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