love letters from a stranger

jia | she/her | spreading positivity

[lovelettersfromjia]

𝐣𝐢𝐚'𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐭!

jia % she/her % minor % spreading love, not germs!

note:

seeking meaningful interactions

recovery, positivity, body positivity :o)

everything here is entirely sfw!

trigger warnings will be tagged accordingly

responses to letters about heavy triggers (e.g. TW/CW: su*cide, TW/CW: blood) will be written under the cut.

** i am not a licensed mental health professional, and neither am i equipped to give medical advice. please seek further professional help and please do not be afraid to reach out!

p.s. i use 'lovelies', 'dear', 'dearie', 'darling', a lot. please let me know if you're uncomfortable!

important notes:

hello lovelies, welcome to my little corner of the internet. this is where i talk about positive stuff! there won't be as much politics /drama/discourse here – i intend for this space to be safe, comfortable, and peaceful. however, you are welcome to share your opinions on anything; as long as you keep it respectful! :o) this is also an LGBTQ+ safe space.

this is a space for everyone. i'll add more when i see fit, but for now, everyone is welcome to interact.

no nsfw interactions, please. i am very much a minor.

you're more than welcome to be on anon :o)

you can find my rules here!

my genshinblr is @ohmykazuha :o)

tags i use:

love letters from jia : answering asks, sending comfort letters, etc

jia talks : jia's interactions in general

jia's musings : my monologues, soliloquies, etc.

jia's rules : self explanatory XD

more will be added as this blog grows.

[yinyinggie]

i am actively trying to become the best version of myself . it will take time and i will fail sometimes but what matters is that i am taking the effort to better myself step by step

[lovelettersfromjia]

♥ give yourself the space and the time to heal. people are not entitled to you giving those up just for them, and you should not be giving up your mental health to please them.

[lovelettersfromjia]

🔖 special note!

lovelettersfromjia will be undergoing a transformation!

we'll be embarking on a project called "letters from a stranger", where you get to send in your own advice and positivity and tips and things of that sort. from strangers, to strangers! i hope you will participate in it. thank you for sticking around!

ps. i'll still be doing my regular quotes and stuff! just this on top of it <3

[lovelettersfromjia]

♥︎ if you haven’t heard it today, i’m very proud of you! love, a stranger on the internet.

[lovelettersfromjia]

♥︎ how beautiful it is to be able to feel alive.

[lovelettersfromjia]

♥︎ love harder, appreciate longer, hope stronger.

[lovelettersfromjia]

♥︎ let your mind wander freely, let yourself be enraptured by the world around you. never let your imagination fade, and never lose that sparkle in your eyes.

[lovelettersfromjia]

♥︎ shh, rest.

[lovelettersfromjia]

♥︎ the pain you're going through now is only temporary.

[1anonyymous1]

tell me about your day, i care

[lovelettersfromjia]

i love hearing about all your stories: the good and the bad! my inbox is always open for anyone to share ♥︎

[lovelettersfromjia]

hello jia! i hope you're doing well :) congrats on all of your big achievements so far! i wanted to come into your inbox because i was wondering how do you make friends on tumblr? because i've been trying to interact with other blogs (ie: reblogging posts and leaving comments, going into their inboxes, etc.) but it feels like whatever i do just gets left unnoticed. a lot of the blogs i try to interact with seem to only interact with the people in their group and despite being in the same fandom, it feels like they want nothing to do with me :( im sure this feels a little heavy, so please take your time with this. if you're uncomfortable, feel free to discard this i just needed to get it off of my chest. thank you, and i love the purpose of this blog so so much :)

♥︎ 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞: 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬

hi anonnie! thank you for the well wishes :o)

i think i want to start off with how proud i am with you being able to tell someone. good job! what i'm going to say may unintentionally be a little blunt, but take it with a pinch of salt, hm?

i would genuinely suggest finding your own group of people instead. some groups may be too tightly-knitted to enter or join. i think – take this with a pinch of salt – that it also depends on how you're going about with it, because some people may be uncomfortable, if that makes sense? for the longest time, i have not allowed dms from non-mutuals on my other sideblog. some people (non mutuals, in this case) dm-ed me there to become friends and i was extremely uncomfortable as well. this eventually led to me not wanting to be mutuals with them. :")

and of course, it may just be that others may be uncomfortable around new people. i'm sure all of us understand the comforting concept of familiarity, and how we tend to stick to those we know and understand the most. this potentially affects how we deal with new people and new relationships around us, i feel. but it really depends on each person.

i suggest finding common grounds as well. you've mentioned that you're in the same fandom as them, yes? talk about your favourite characters. i think you can try to reach out to different people as well. perhaps when one door is closed, another is open! and take your time – time shapes people together and eventually, things will fit together like a jigsaw puzzle.

i'm sorry that you feel that way right now, nonnie – but i wish you all the best in your journey here on tumblr. if you're into genshin impact, my inbox is always open @ohmykazuha, if you'd like to make new friends. :")

all the love,

jia xx

[lovelettersfromjia]

♥︎ never, ever, hold back on your kindness.

[lovelettersfromjia]

♥︎ i hope you know that people care about you.

[lovelettersfromjia]

♥︎ if no one has told you yet... i think your smile is one of the most wonderful things about you.

[lovelettersfromjia]

tomorrow is mental health monday! remember to send some asks in 💕

[lovelettersfromjia]

Thank you for spreading love and positivity . It helps me .

hey there! i’m so glad it helped you. thank you for this wonderful message, have an equally wonderful day! ❤️