Open Letter:
A little kindness goes a long way.Ā It starts with our internal monologue which spills into our social interactions.Ā
Iāve noticed that this week has been a bit of a whirlwind for you. Youāve been chest deep in your emotions for weeks (it feels) and, although youāve been very happy, i think youāre too afraid to mention you're exhausted. We could blame the obvious as the main contributor but we canāt forget how our family has been maxing out our emotion reservoir.Ā
Right now you're sitting in bed thinkinā real hard if youāve been making the right decisions and Iām here to tell you yes. Youāre doing just fine. Youāre mind is racing and the culmination of so many emotionally draining events this week is making you nervous for the future. Doubting yourself, behaving with insecurity, anxiety--all of which isnāt you. I want you to dig into yourself and find out where this is coming from. Why are you already trying to poke holes into this relationship? Is it because you don't have your close friends support which makes you feel unstable? Do you think youāre moving so quickly youād burn out the relationship before it has time to grow into anything? Is it because speaking to your mom reminds you that love isnāt real?Ā
This anxiety is coming from growth into the unknown. Youāve never ventured this terrain like this. Youāre afraid, not if it doesnāt work out, but if it does. You don't know what that looks like so now you have to lead your own example.Ā
One step at a time. Youāre doing what feels right and thats all that matters. Communicate, continue to be strong for yourself and those goals while loving another human being. The past is gone, the future doesnāt exist and we only have the present. So Live.Ā















