Jasper

Non binary Transmasc, He/Him and Vae/Vaer pronouns, neurodivergent, genderhoarder

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Daisiboy

So I identify with Roseboy and Lavender Boy, but I I feel I identify as a “daisy” boy more. So I decided to coin it!

Daisiboy or Daisy Boy is a feminine gender associated with sunshine, cottage core aesthetics, gender non conformity, and boyhood. This gender can also be connected to nature and spring, while identifying as a boy.

The colours of the flag were chosen to reflect sunshine, nature, as well as boyhood and masculinity.

Coined by me, for me, but feel free to use with credit!

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Transfem Pride Flag

Transfem stands for transfeminist &/or transfeminine. Using trans flag format with purple colors, from a feminist flag, replacing blue stripes.

- ap

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I love this so much! I decided to make a trans masc variation to go with it

Also I thought this one could be cool as a transneutral flag

Be sure to use credit!

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Alterous Relationships

So a platonic relationship is a friend. A romantic relationship is a partner/boyfriend/girlfriend. And I’ve thought a lot about it and I feel the alterous version of these terms is “companion”.

Lil story below;

So I’ve had suspicions for a while that I’m alterously attracted to my close friend. We are both such different people yet we are the same in so many ways. We are both trans ftm and neurodivergent. We are both deeply empathetic and he’s the only other person I know that’s loves and wants to raise kids like I do. I’m not one to trust men, but when I met him I instantly felt safe and felt I had this indescribable connection. I understand his emotional needs for than most people, even more than his previous partner he had been with for two years.

I perform a platonic role in his life, but the emotional support I can deliver is more indicative of a romantic relationship, or rather just a different kind of support to what I’ve encountered in a platonic relationship. We can communicate without speaking. I understand and can pick up on the slightest change in his mood, and what he needs. And vice versa, no one understands me like he does. He knew I was trans before I did, me coming out helped him feel more confident in his trans identity. I also thought he was non binary for a long time, which he later told me he was questioning.

He’s my twin flame, and my emotional companion in life. And when I look at him I don’t think “friend” or “boyfriend” or “partner”. I feel he is my companion, my kindred spirit. That our bond goes is almost spiritual, an underlying connection that cannot be explained through words.

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Multi-Spectral Flag

So a while ago I proposed a “multi attracted flag” (see earlier posts) not realising that this mspec flag existed, using pretty much the same colour scheme.

According to @beyondmogaiprideflags the mspec flag is composed of colours from the bi, poly, pan, tri, quad, and quint sexual flags. Using this information I assigned a meaning to each of the colours to represent these labels.

This flag for me however, is more representative of the spectrum of attraction rather than just sexual attraction, the offical definition being;

“Multi- Spectrum: an umbrella term for those feeling attracted to more than one gender (as in, experiencing multiple-gender attraction/MGA) and the m-spectral community.”

In saying this, and using the multi-attracted flag I made using my synaesthesia I assigned meanings to each of the coloured stripes. This is just what the flag means to me, and everyone is welcome to have their own interpretations of it x

I also now use this flag to represent by identity, as well as the multi sexual flag, but mostly this one as sexual attraction isn’t a huge part of my experience with attraction (love that demisexual life haha)

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New Neuroqueer Flags!

So I'm not the biggest fan of the current neuroqueer flags circling around, and so i decided to do my take it on it by incorpertaing the colour scheme of the Queer flag. This version more colourful than versions using the genderqueer flag, and I just associate neurodiversity with lots of colours...

Full colour Neuroqueer flag

Pastel Neuroqueer flag

Low contrast (for sensory sensitivities) Neuroqueer flag

Made for me, by me, but feel free to use with credit!

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Neurodivergent Non Binary Flags!

(Autism: Top, ADHD: Bottom)

My take on on some neurodivergent non binary flags! While my gender is heavily influenced by the gender binary, I also struggle to comprehend the constructs of the gender binary which I feel adds a whole level of complexity to my non binary identity.

I'm pretty sure I have synaesthesia and based the middle two colours based on how the colour each conditions *feels*.

Made for me, by me, but feel free to use with credit!

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Queer Flags

So I've seen a fair bit of debate on queer flags and as someone who identifies as queer I made a couple of variations which resonate with me the most. Essentially I love the concept of the chevron but I'm not a fan of the plain purple.

The most common (to my knowledge) queer flag chevron (without the black because I find it over contrasting and overstimulating but that is just me)

The minimalised queer flag chevron

The classic gay/lgbt+ pride flag chevron

The pastel queer flag chevron, inspired by @officalqueer and @the-thought-muesum 's flag design

Queer chevron using Mspec flag colours

Queer chevron using Mspec flag colours and white stripe (probably my fav atm!)

Made for me, by me, but feel free to use with credit!

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Pocket Boy!

A new term I coined, pocket boy! Basically I’m a trans guy who is reeeeal insecure about his height as I’m literally 5’0ft (and I’ve stopped growing peeps!)… and this started as a joke and became just sort of an empowering thing for me.

I’ve got two flag variations below (cause I fuckin love making flags)

Coined for me, by me, but feel free to use with credit!

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Changeling Flag

So I’m autistic, and possibly have adhd, and the Changeling Lore and Myth is something I have strongly connected to. I know a lot of other people in the neurodivergent community also connect with this as an identity, some of whom also fall into the other kin community as either changeling or fae kin of sorts.

Research I’ve done has also suggested that stories of the Changeling were also used against disabled children and I know is a term many people in the neurodivergent community are trying to reclaim positively.

People on tumblr have combined the Changeling Myth into Fae/Faygender, but I wanted to make a flag that represents the Changeling Lore alone. I chose earthy tones to reflect the connection to nature, with a clover and an acorn in the second variation, and a blue moth in the third variation.

Coined for me, by me 💕

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Seahorse Dad Flag

So I’ve seen recently the term Seahorse Dad floating around for trans guys wanting to carry their own children (pregnancy) and as a trans guy who has a strong connection to pregnancy, I fell in love with it.

So I made a flag! The blue and golden stripes match the ocean environment and the seahorse icon with the male symbol is to represent a male seahorse; as they are the ones who carry the seahorse eggs to term. Personally I find this really empowering and just makes me feel really good about my trans identity and my strong connection to pregnancy- which I have a lot of imposter syndrome about.

Coined by me, for me, but feel free to use with credit!

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Vae/vaer pronoun flag!

So I use he/him and vae/vaer pronouns and decided to make a flag for it 💕 I’m pretty sure I have synesthesia and these are the colour vae/vaer have to me 💚💙🤍💜💗

Update! Made a simplified version that I feel is easier on the eyes.

Flags made by me, for me, but feel free to use with credit!

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E🅱️IC GENDER

An identity I made for my friend based of their vibe, as a joke- not to be taken seriously

E🅱️IC Gender is associated with 🅱️/🅱️/🅱️s/🅱️self pronouns and all round (un)cool vi🅱️es

Coined by me, for a friend 👹

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Thoughtic Attraction!

So in my previous Multiattracted flag posts, the cyan/Aqua stripe represented intellectual attraction. However I have done some reading and feel this concept is inherently ableist... so I propose a new concept, Thoughtic Attraction.

Thoughtic attraction is attraction to the way ones mind or thoughts work, the way they think and perceive the world around them. This has nothing to do with what society considers intelligence, which is a highly ableist concept.

This is the flag I designed below;

Coined by me, for me, but feel free to use with credit!

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Multi-attracted part 2

So my last post I explained by overall multiattracted flag, and I also made some sub flags for the different individual multiattraction orientations!

Multisensual:

Multiqueerplatonic:

Multiromantic:

Multialterous:

Multiplatonic:

Multisexual:

Multithoughtic:

*see my newest post for an explanation!

Multiaesthetic:

Based of the style of the current m-spec flag, and the bisexual flag. 

Coined for me, by me, but feel free to use with credit!

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Multi-attracted

So I’ve been debating my sexuality for ages now, but never found a label that perfectly describes my sexuality. To cishet people I say I’m bisexual, purely because that’s easier to understand. But I’ve been dancing of the line of questioning between bi, pan, and omni for over a year when I came across Multisexual. I instantly felt connected to this term in a way none of the others had, but this got me thinking... there are many forms of attraction and for me personally I feel they are all intrinsically linked. And so, Multiattracted! Like multisexual it is attraction to multiple genders, with or without a preference. This means not only sexually but romantically, platonically, queerplatonically, alterously, sensually, thoughtically*, and aesthically. This can be experienced simultaneously or at different times for different people. 

*see my newest post for an explanation!

I used the magnet symbol to communicate the diversity of attraction (like how magnets are attracted to one another). I selected the colours based on other flags and my own interpretation (I think I have synesthesia). I also inversed the purple of the asexual flag to make green for sexual attraction, and inversed the dark green to make red... however these can be reverted to purple and green respectively if it makes it more confusing, this was just my interpretation of the different attractions. The white represents the connection between attractions and how attraction often takes multiple forms at once.

Coined for me, by me, but feel free to use with credit!

Other variations below;

The last flag is an alternative design which is based off the same format as my -attraction-specific flags in my next post x

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Not sure if this is already a thing but I can’t find anything anywhere but I’m really vibing with the term Boy Lite. Another friend of mine also does too, so I made a flag but if it’s already coined let me know! 💙

Boy Lite: a gender that is heavily masculine and boy aligned, but not understanding/conforming to all the standards set by and influenced by the gender binary. Different from demiboy as one can feel wholly a boy, but not feel a strong connection to parts of the gender binary. Also not necessarily as non conforming as non binary, but can be used interchangeably with demiboy, enboy, and any related terms.

Girl Lite: a gender that is heavily feminine and girl aligned, but not understanding/conforming to all the standards set by and influenced by the gender binary. Different from demigirl as one can feel wholly a girl, but not feel a strong connection to parts of the gender binary. Also not necessarily as non conforming as non binary, but can be used interchangeably with demigirl, girlby, and any related terms.

Gender Lite: a gender that is heavily neutral and neutral aligned, but not understanding/conforming to all the standards set by and influenced by the gender binary, or societies expectation of a gender neutral experience. Can also be used as an umbrella term for any under experience which doesn’t fully conform/fit under the gender binary while still identifying largely with it. Different from demigender as one can feel wholly a their gender, but not feel a strong connection to parts of the gender binary. Also not necessarily as non conforming as non binary, but can be used interchangeably with femigender, enby, and any related terms.

UPDATE!

Andro Lite: a gender that is heavily androgynous and andro aligned, but not understanding/conforming to all the standards set by and influenced by the gender binary, or societies expectation of an androgynous experience. Different from demigender as one can feel wholly a their gender, but not feel a strong connection to parts of the gender binary. Can encompass feeling both masculine and feminine, either at once, at different times, or fluidity between them. Also not necessarily as non conforming as non binary, but can be used interchangeably with androgyny related terms.

Neutral/Neutrois Lite: a gender that is heavily neutral and neutral aligned, but not understanding/conforming to all the standards set by and influenced by the gender binary, or societies expectation of a neutral experience. An alternative to my original “gender lite” for the specific neutral/neutrois gender experience. Different from demigender as one can feel wholly a their gender, but not feel a strong connection to parts of the gender binary. Also not necessarily as non conforming as non binary, but can be used interchangeably with neutral related terms.

Agender Lite: (I’m not agender myself so I tried to make a couple of variations based off the flag) a “gender” label to describe a heavily genderless and unaligned experience, but not understanding/conforming to all the standards set by and influenced by the gender binary, or societies expectation of an agender experience. Different from demiagender as one can feel wholly a their gender, but not feel a strong connection to parts of the gender binary. Also not necessarily as non conforming as non binary, but can be used interchangeably with agender related terms.

Coined for me, by me, but feel free to use with credit!