#enboy

[scooter-hates-you]

I made all of these specifically for MY simply plural, but I'll share.

[erinelliotc]

A few years ago I used to be that annoying "transmasc lesbians don't exist, this shit is harmful and invalidates both transmascs and lesbians" person, and now I'M the transmasc lesbian. Seems like the tables have turned, huh?

I've spent so many months, years, trying so hard to fit into these categories that I saw so many people talk about as if it were the definitive truth, and this shallow and simplistic vision seems to be gaining a lot of attention and traction here in Brazil. Isn't it ironic to free yourself from cisnormativity and heteronormativity and all these binary boxes to find yourself again trying to fit into other boxes and norms that don't actually describe your experience correctly? Because your experience with gender is so chaotic and confusing (as expected of a nonbinary identity, and even more so if you're neurodivergent too) that there's no simple way to describe it. Then when you find out what describes this, people say you can't identify yourself that way because two or more of your identities are "incompatible". I see people treating non-binarity as if it were an exact science, as if it were math, as if it were something simple and logical, as it is precisely the escape from what has been established in our society as the only two possible options, generating countless identities within a gray area outside this black and white vision, so of course it's something complex, abstract and subjective.

EDIT: One of my reasons for thinking this way was that I ignored that the transgender experience and the cisgender experience aren't and will never be equivalent. It's obvious that a cis man can't be a lesbian, but the same doesn't go for transmasc people, and I thought that admitting that was the same as being transphobic, denying the masculinity of transmascs, denying their male identity. I already had a debate on Twitter because people didn't want to admit that trans men and transmasc people in general can suffer misogyny and male chauvinism (as society can still see and treat us as women) because they also saw it as the same as saying transmasc people are women. The identity of trans people is a very complex experience that involves a series of factors that cis people will never experience. We cannot equate the trans experience with the cis experience.

I thought identifying as a butch lesbian was enough to describe my masculinity, but I realized that I felt like it didn't encompass everything I felt, I still felt like something was missing. Preventing and depriving myself of identifying with more explicit masculine identities was actually making me feel bad and dysphoric. So yeah, I've been avoiding identifying with male-aligned identities because I thought that would mean having to stop identifying as a lesbian, and I didn't want that, and I don't really feel like calling myself straight makes any sense.

I have a text in Portuguese talking about my experience as a butch lesbian, and I feel that now it also serves to describe my experience as a nonbinary transmasc (the part where I talk about not identifying with "traditional masculinity", but with a "different type", like "soft masculinity", is directly related to the fact that, in addition to being nonbinary, I don't identify as a man, I don't feel comfortable with the term "man", but rather with "boy"). I spent a few months wondering whether I was libramasculine or boyflux, and I ended up deciding that if I can't identify which one I am, maybe it makes more sense to just adopt both identities, maybe I am both then! I'm tired of trying to fit into supposed rules about being nonbinary. This is exactly how non-binarity shouldn't be. I'm supposed to feel free, not trapped again. My identity is my identity and that's nobody's business.

[lgbtqiatext]

[fagulously-me]

[dhddmods]

Time for another gender-related design!

Everyone is free to use these designs on shirts, stickers, pins, whatever they'd like, as long as they are using it for inclusive purposes! Just don't claim it as your own, please.

Transparent version:

Version with a background, for viewing purposes:

The symbols/flags include the following:

Top, from left to right:

-Genderflux -Genderfluid -Multigender -Androgyne -Fenby/Finby/Femby -Non-binary woman/Galby/Engirl

Left, from top to bottom:

-Demigender -Agender -Genderless -Gendervoid -Neutrois -Neugender

Right, from top to bottom:

-Lunarian -Solarian -Non-binary man/Enboy -Menby/Minby -Atrinary -Abinary

Bottom, from left to right:

-Xenogender -Maverique -Outherine -Aporagender -Stellarian

(Here's a visual with each symbol/flag labelled.)

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Check out our other designs!

I support equality always

Gender and sex are spectrums

Nobody chooses their sex or gender

Intersex people exist

A-specs unite

Attraction is individual, not societal

Queerness is natural

Racial equality matters

All disabilities matter

Support all neurodivergence

[ur-fav-is-nonbinary]

stimpson j cat is non binary

(could you also do him w/ the enboy flag)

Stimpson J Cat from Ren And Stimpy is an Enboy!

[felidaety]

✦ ENBOYFRIEND ! ✦

pt: enboyfriend. end pt.

☆ ‿‿ definition : a flag for anyone who uses the term enboyfriend, exclusively or not, in place of boyfriend / girlfriend / other typical partner terms !

pt: definition, a flag for anyone who uses the term enboyfriend, exclusively or not, in place of boyfriend/girlfriend/other typical partner terms. end pt.

requested by anon !

Template by @rwuffles, colours taken from the most well known enboy flag.

No spoons for ID

[bimdraws]

Pride art part 13!: aroallo, lingender, non-binary girl, non-binary boy, femme lesbian and abroromantic.