not a girl

24 | they/them

[luckylater]

if u follow me and ur a cishet man u will die in 7 days 👍

23 | they/them | sub bottom or smthn

nsft account -> DNI minors/ageless blogs

!! this blog contains untagged hard kinks !!

non exhaustive list of what im into under the cut if u gaf

yes: impact, cnc (including intox/somno), bondage, monsterfucking, stalking/kidnapping, boots, some knifeplay/choking/general edgeplay, praise/degradation, breeding, free use, edging/denial, some aspects of petplay, objectification

no: scat, raceplay, feederism

[cherryremedy]

mwah with tongue

[luckylater]

they wont tell you this but you can get pregnant from topping

[expressions-of-nature]

by Shuhei

[meowguraaaaa-deactivated2026030]

how to look cool while expressing ur masochistic desires

[twinsfawn]

need

[luckylater]

im attracted to beautiful women and im not scared to say it ❤️ #Brave

[lawoftheclaw]

[grimpact]

okay look. if you tease someone with the goal of riling them up to the point where they threaten to do something to you but you have No Intention Whatsoever of holding yourself accountable to them or the feelings of arousal you're provoking, you're not being a brat. you're treating that person like a smut dispenser & showing them you're an unsafe person to play with.

by disrespecting the rule of transactionality in brat/dom dynamics, you're blurring the lines of what are & aren't the expectations. that level of obfuscation is dangerous bc if your dom doesn't have a clear idea of how far you'll take a scene they might escalate things on their end that result in you or them getting seriously hurt, physically or emotionally. that or you might just burn them out & guarantee they'll never want to play with you again, since you're giving them Nothing for all the frustration you're offering them.

Not Giving Anything At All makes it so your dom is doing Literally All Of The Work. they have to manage the frustration of not getting you to behave the way they want you to despite behaving in the way you want & expect them to, as well as placing them in a situation where they have to maintain a scene that is becoming increasingly grating & objectively unrewarding for them to keep participating in.

here's what giving as a brat looks like: knowing what you want & being able to communicate that when engaging with someone. you like being a brat? okay. what do you want out of it? do you like being forcefully reminded you're not in charge? do you appreciate the predictability of your instigation & their reaction? do you enjoy the gradual switching of roles? assuming your play partner will instinctively """get""" where you're coming from will actually only get you where you already are, & them nowhere. if they tell you that's not great for them, are you gonna take that seriously? or are you gonna keep playing pretend bc you're having fun & invalidate their warranted dissatisfaction?

what makes bratting rewarding for both ppl involved is knowing the brat is escalating in a circumstance where they're ready & willing to engage with the full wrath & consequence of the dom. the fun part for brats is acting as if they hold all the power by being a tease, provocative, by instigating. the fun part for doms is showing them the consequences of their actions. it's transactional. brat behaves a certain way, dom reacts accordingly. bratting must account for this exchange. bratting is about seeking this reaction, seeking attention, consequence, accountability. it's the transactionality that makes the shit rly hit.

it's also proportional. being annoying is appealing in direct proportion to the amount of consequence you will face for behaving that way. you're very annoying throughout the day but your dom gets to beat the shit out of you when they get home? effervescent. you're very annoying in a circumstance where you know you will face absolutely no consequence whatsoever from the person you're going out of your way to provoke? you are Not fun to play with. or funny. just annoying.

if you're getting off on the idea of getting someone pent up & then putting absolutely no effort or work whatsoever in coming thru with being accountable to them, then find someone who's into denial or edging with whom you can negotiate & engage in that sort of dynamic. & please consider that you might actually just be a dom (or a switch) yourself since you clearly value being a position of power more than you do being in one of submission.

misbehave responsibly.

thank you for your time.

[grimpact]

here's what baby doe is talking about:

you can find even more details here.

self-knowledge will Always benefit you & your loved ones. seek it!

[luckylater]

me when i

[luckylater]

has anyone ever been 24? im scared

[luckylater]

its chic actually

[stardustlavendersstuff]

I need to chew on a butch lesbian.

[that-house]

they invented a new kind of jerking off called groping your bruises and whimpering

[milksockets]

penthouse november 1996

[luckylater]

all i do is win

[marxism-transgenderism]

Ice age woman making the first discovery of kink when she gets ambushed while out hunting by a woman from a neighboring clan who rips down her thick animal hide coat and hold a stone knife to her exposed chest saying in a language that she understands some but not all of the words of that she will skin her like an elk and she without thinking hits her with the 🥺 face

[marxism-transgenderism]

"What did she mean by this" it means I was thinking fondly about ancient lesbians with cnc kinks what the fuck do you think I meant

[marxism-transgenderism]

I must now take a moment to criticize my own post i made 30 seconds before falling asleep cause theres no way in hell some ice age chick was the first person who get kinky. When we talk about the ice age we typically mean like 20-30k years ago. Anatomically modern humans have been around for like 300k years, to say nothing of the hominids we evolved from. If you dont think we were doing shibari with hand woven rope made from wild grasses with neanderthals and denisovans you're fucking dreaming pal

[bunnieefemme]

it’s so funny to me when people say sabrina carpenter should date women instead as if the greatest butch minds of our generation are not inventing new ways to fumble femmes every day