being a switch lets me be double annoyed by the culture around bratting because when you dom it's really annoying when people assume bratting as a default thing everyone likes with 0 conversation about it and then get mad when you won't "break them"/cross boundaries that weren't negotiated prior and when you sub it's really annoying to be called a "brat" by people who think that bratting is when a sub has any kind of personality or intrinsic desire
This lady just walked up to me with a label printer and is very obviously typing out things like "Hypnotized," "blank," "obedient," "slut," and other stuff, and it's like super obvious she's about to instant loss me. See, she's reaching over with the firs sti ck er uu... uuhhh uum.. tss,, wha wus i sayin ??