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if you don't do anything else today,

Please have a moment of silence for the people who were killed instead of freed when news of emancipation finally reached the furthest corners of the american south.

have another moment for the ledgers, catalogs, and records that were burned and the homes that were destroyed to hide the presence of very much alive and still enslaved people on dozens of plantations and homesteads across the south for decades after emancipation.

and have a third moment for those who were hunted and killed while fleeing the south to find safety across the border, overseas, in the north and to the west.

black people. light a candle, write a note to those who have passed telling them what you have achieved in spite of the racist and intolerant conditions of this world, feel the warmth of the flame under your hand, say a prayer of rememberance if you are religious, place the note under the candle, and then blow it out.

if you have children, sit them down and tell them anything you know about the life of oldest black person you've ever met. it doesn't have to be your own family. tell them what you know about what life was like for us in the days, years, decades after emancipation. if you don't know much, look it up and learn about it together.

This is Juneteenth.

white people CAN interact with this post. share it, spread it.

monstrous-femme

as a regular donor to Gaza Soup Kitchen I get their email updates, and they said today that while they've continued to be able to expand, donations are slowing down as Gaza gets less coverage. If you have a few dollars to spare, I encourage you to send them here to continue the amazing work that Hani and his team are doing.

sycamorality

STOP!!!!! CALLING!!!!! YOUR!!!!!!!! OWN!!!!!!! ART!!!!!! SLOP!!!!!!!!! STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THROWS EVERYTHING IN THE ROOM AROUND WITH MY MIND POWERS

sycamorality

everyone in the notes saying ":(((((((((((((((((( but im right!!!!!!!" boohoo stop using an antisemetic term from 4chan

identityarchitect

[ID: tags reading "slop is a 4chan term used to push antisemitism btw; if you're using slop as in insult youre using an antisemitic [term]; plase be NICE AND MINDFUL TO JEWISH PEOPLE; STOP USING THE WORD SLOP STOP USING ANTISEMITIC DOG WHISTLES; LEAVE US JEWS BE PLEASE!!!!" /end ID]

#important

batmanisagatewaydrug

not to be a joyless hag but I've started seeing genderbent "yuri" shipping Markiplier and Ryan Gosling and I can't help but think of someone I recently I unfollowed for posting that they have an easier time caring about genderbent versions of boy characters than regular fictional women

batmanisagatewaydrug

and I'm also building some connections to that post I made about reading books by Black women (you know the one) and the people who would respond by saying something akin to "joke's on you, I only read fanfic 😜" as if that were some kind of clever loophole and not a demonstration of the exact thing I was talking about

batmanisagatewaydrug

like yes fandom is about fun or whatever but idk man at what point has your desire for no thoughts head empty uncritical consumption left you splashing around in something that's been blended down to an indistinguishable goo for the sake of avoiding anything remotely challenging. with the thing that's "challenging" here being. you know. giving a shit about women and Black people and like frankly anyone but your shippable white men (and honorary Markiplier).

batmanisagatewaydrug

don't make me tap the five year old teen vogue article, etc

All experiences of escapism are not created equally.

jer-artspat

"... what?"

#stickin' around #stickin around #SHE'S SO CUTE #friend art

I read the E&H comic a few months ago and i noticed how different Newbie's hair looks compared to the games!

Headcanon: Newbie has naturally curly hair. He just straightens it on the regular.

#edna bricht aus #edna und harvey #thoughts

a-silly-poll-side-blog-yay

is this possible to describe your favourite character/s with emoji?

yes

idk

no

would be pretty hard to do

results

Voting ended onJun 7

#🎩🧛‍♀️🔬💚

Hair

#doodle #harveys neue augen #harvey's new eyes #edna und harvey #myart #fanart

sycamorality

being really fixated on a game means you WILL recognise when a youtuber uses a random part of the game's soundtrack in the very quiet background music of an entirely unrelated video

#my ears perking up whenever i hear music from warioware diy in a yt vid unrelated to warioware diy #this game's soundtrack is surprisingly really popular. maybe even more so than the game itself!#i especially like it when saltydkdan uses it in their vids hehe

ot3

there's a certain subset of people on this site who have built their entire sense of self around being ~neurodivergent~ to they point where they become hostile to the very idea altering their behavior or speech to suit the social norms of a given situation. and even just seeing pretty neutrally phrased etiquette advice that they are not obliged to follow feels like a personal attack against them. and its quite frustrating to watch because these are also Often the people who are constantly posting about how lonely they are and how they don't understand how everyone else seems to know how to socialize with each other. They have somehow never intuited the connection between categorically rejecting etiquette and their resulting inability to initiate or maintain friendships.

like yes dude us other autistic bitches have had these problems too but social norms being less intuitive and harder to pick up doesn't mean it's impossible. it is a skill you can learn like any other if you stop acting like the people trying to teach it to you are snuffing out your divine spark or whatever, and stop plugging your ears whenever other people tell you how they want to be treated.

i think ultimately frustrates me the most about this behavior is that it's just such an insanely selfcentered understanding of human interaction. you think that conversation and behavior You don't personally see the purpose or value of has no purpose or value at all. and instead of trying to meet other people half way in their expectations of how relationships develop, you expect them to instead abandon all their criteria for socializing in favor of yours because you believe your own social framework is innately superior.

on a related note one of the single most poorly received pieces of internet friendship advice i've ever given here was "unless you have a specific reason to believe otherwise, internet strangers don't want to hear about your OCs and DND characters the first time you're speaking to them." people haaaated that one. kind of straightforwardly lets you understand exactly what people like this believe about how relationships are formed and should function. a lot of them want an audience more than they want friends because they don't know the difference.

fulgrims-big-naturals

There also this weird false belief where you just won’t need to follow that social code with fellow autistics and. Oh boy. It’s not true.

Also here is a convenient step by step guide for how to get to rge talking about OCs stage:

Tgis is social media so you can actually skip a step and check if tgey hace OCs of tgeir own and then ask them about their OC and then wait for them to do it back but generally it goes like yhis

Ask Hiw they’re doing

Listen

Ask follow up questions about the most interesting thing they’ve mentioned.

Now social norm dictates if you ask how tgey are doing tgey have to ask back

When you answer talk about what you did more than how you are feeling unless you’re already friends. You can try soft launch a convo about OCs or D&D characters or whatever by mentioning something like “oh I’m doing pretty well I have a D&D game on today”

Now if they wabt to talk avout D&D tgey will take the bait and say something like “oh neat I also play D&D”

Then YOU have to ask THEM something like “oh what do you play?” UNLESS tgey ask you first. You DO NOT start talking about your DnD character unless they ask you about it ok?

Now if they did not ask about DnD during step six you have to let it go. They will choose the most interesting part of your day to them to follow up on and if you want to seem cool and interesting to this person you hace to talk about what’s interesting to thwm. Juat likw how you guided them into taljing avout Whats most interesting to you out of the thibgs avout themselves tgey chose to share in step 3.

I’m autistic enough to get overstimulated by rain on the rooftop noises and to bring up pubic hair at Christmas dinner (I know I fucked up. I did NOT do it again) and these facts do not change Hiw other people receive my actions, autistic ir not. It is UNPLEASANT when my other autistic peers start talking about their interests without asking me avout my day first. I go to my friends yk have a DIALOGUE with them not to attend a Ted talk. You need to know and understand that if people want to talk avout something with you they will ask follow up questions. You just have to drop a hint. If they don’t pick it up it’s because either they want to talk about something else first or not talk avout it at all. You could even just fucking ask “hey can I talk avout my OCs” if you are friends and are confident they will say “no” or “not yet” to you if that’s how they feel about it.

But please be considerate avout how other people in conversation with you also have things theu want to share, or hear about just like you do. And it’s incredibly unpleasant when you ignore those things. I’m sure you’ve felt crap when you get steamrolled over in conversation before. Don’t be like that.

And obviously in case it wasn’t clear “you” is being used to address the audience. Not OP

ot3

there's a certain subset of people on this site who have built their entire sense of self around being ~neurodivergent~ to they point where they become hostile to the very idea altering their behavior or speech to suit the social norms of a given situation. and even just seeing pretty neutrally phrased etiquette advice that they are not obliged to follow feels like a personal attack against them. and its quite frustrating to watch because these are also Often the people who are constantly posting about how lonely they are and how they don't understand how everyone else seems to know how to socialize with each other. They have somehow never intuited the connection between categorically rejecting etiquette and their resulting inability to initiate or maintain friendships.

like yes dude us other autistic bitches have had these problems too but social norms being less intuitive and harder to pick up doesn't mean it's impossible. it is a skill you can learn like any other if you stop acting like the people trying to teach it to you are snuffing out your divine spark or whatever, and stop plugging your ears whenever other people tell you how they want to be treated.

i think ultimately frustrates me the most about this behavior is that it's just such an insanely selfcentered understanding of human interaction. you think that conversation and behavior You don't personally see the purpose or value of has no purpose or value at all. and instead of trying to meet other people half way in their expectations of how relationships develop, you expect them to instead abandon all their criteria for socializing in favor of yours because you believe your own social framework is innately superior.

on a related note one of the single most poorly received pieces of internet friendship advice i've ever given here was "unless you have a specific reason to believe otherwise, internet strangers don't want to hear about your OCs and DND characters the first time you're speaking to them." people haaaated that one. kind of straightforwardly lets you understand exactly what people like this believe about how relationships are formed and should function. a lot of them want an audience more than they want friends because they don't know the difference.

#thank you op for putting it into words.#having trouble with social cues and overall etiquette is something a lot of us struggle with but that doesn't mean-#-you can use it as an excuse to refuse at least TRYING to learn it and consider others #you can't just go on if you LOSE IT whenever somebody is not acting like a yes-man and actually constructively criticises you.#that will cause people to bottle up their criticism about you to avoid upsetting you #also THE LAST PART IS ESPECIALLY IMPORTANT!!!#we know that movie actors and youtubers are not our friends just because we are watching/listening to them #so why call it “friendship” if you can't even have a full mutual conversation?

Art style headcanons for FreeCapu!!!

Capu rarely draws, but when he does, he doodles in his school note book when he's bored.

Freeman is a hobby comic artist and draws a lot in private, but he hides that fact from most of the convent (the only ones who know are Suka, Capu and Lilli. Suka even secretly commissions Freeman to draw yuri for her).

Capu's art was mainly influenced by Diary of a Wimpy Kid and Middle School, while Freeman was mainly influenced by Franco Belgian artists (Hergé, Franquin ect) but also american artists like H.T. Webster.

#myart #fanart #headcanon posting #harveys neue augen #edna und harvey #harvey's new eyes

pyronado-moved

Please stop trigger tagging with #epilepsy tw/cw/warning/etc.

I need every single person to understand how horrible tumblr’s tagging system is

I go into the tag for epilepsy and its all flashing lights. We can’t use our own tag because people without epilepsy fill it up with improper warnings.

Use ‘flashing’ in place of ‘epilepsy’ in your tags. You aren’t warning people of epileptics, you’re warning us of flashing lights. Please please tag properly. Epileptics say this endlessly and constantly and it’s ignored. You are risking lives by doing this.

Here’s proof of what I mean: