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I cant stop putting Elster in situations lol

#genuinely have no idea how i made this look so good lol #out of nowhere while im adding color it just looks amazing #first time doing a proper background as well #signalis fanart #signalis #gealachs craic

* (Well, there is a man here.)

Made this in Minecraft :)

#deltarune #deltarune forgotten man #minecraft

nerviswitch

World BDSM day seems like a good time to remind you:

If the idea of being cuddled and kissed and doted on after a scene makes you want to crawl out of your skin, that doesn't mean you don't need aftercare, it might just mean that what aftercare looks like for you is being left alone for a little while.

Aftercare isn't one-size-fits-all. Maybe you need a snack. Maybe you want to watch a youtube video. Maybe you just need to have a calm conversation to debrief about the scene you just had. Or maybe you do want to snuggle.

Do what works for you, because doing aftercare you hate because you think that's what it's supposed to look like or skipping any aftercare to avoid a particular kind isn't going to work out well for anyone in the long run.

Also, while I'm here:

check on your dominants. They need aftercare just as much as subs do but we so often see aftercare framed as "dom-comforts-sub" that folks forget about that.

While I'm at it, safewording isn't just for the sub either, and it doesn't make you less of a dom to use it. In fact:

Safewording when you need to makes you a good play partner.

Any reason you feel like safewording is a good enough reason.

You aren't boring or less fun to play with for knowing your limits or having a lot of them. The fun part happens inside the bounds, and knowing where those lines are can only help you have a better scene.

themightyhumanbroom

Toby are you dead ass

themightyhumanbroom

Toby you cannot be serious

anistarrose

[ID: Deltarune screenshots. In Chapter 4, Susie throws a rock at the lake, saying: "Lake... skip!" and then later, "Fine. We'll see how far you get at the lake next time."

In Chapter 2, Queen says: "Imagine Poor Noelle Clipping Into A Wall Somewhere." End ID.]

#no fucking way #tobias fox you mother fucker lmao

After not playing for like a year, I finally played my accordion!!

It was nice to hear it again :)

#i was able to remember the songs ive been practicing as well through muscle memory which was pretty cool #i love how the accordion sounds

viralfrog

charl0ttan

whats everyones favorite cocktails. i totally adore a sex on the beach. no rum and coke okay i want your favorite gay ass colorful fruity tasting type of drink okay? okay. i trust you. i love you

#cosmopolitan ive been liking recently but lemon drop is a go too #though ill do a screwdriver if i want something basic

ashes2caches

i really really love it when women are crazy and evil. it’s a tragedy that so few trans women are able to become supervillains…

#i need to become a villain

I know how to use a forklift :)

#remembered that i did get forklift certified years ago lol #technically the certification is expired but I do still know how to use one #forklift

k-mraz

biting is a common courting behavior in reptiles

#this is so cute #also the muzzle :3

auramgold

transfem t4t aftercare protip

a lot of transfems because of general societal transmisogyny get a pernicious brainworm that their sexuality is inherently predatory and abusive, and this can be made significantly worse after a scene where they're acting as the domme, especially after the emotional crash when it all finishes

so once you're in a mental state to do so (i personally know whenever i sub i take a good 5-10 minutes to be coherent enough to speak again), please please please reassure your domme that you wanted what she did to you and you enjoyed it all, and that your plays at resistance or stopping her were part of the moment and you would have safeworded if it did go wrong. seriously, it helps a lot to be able to hear that directly from the horse's mouth

and even if you do need to call a safeword, once you're emotionally recovered from whatever triggered you enough to need that, your domme is likely panicking that she hurt you permanently and you're going to abandon her and it is always worth reassuring that no, you still love her, accidents happen, things aren't always perfect.

dommes aren't kink dispensers, and transfem dommes are very likely to feel guilty for wanting to express that dominance at all. care for your dommes, y'all, it hurts when we're not cared for.

lunar-flower

I'M SORRY....

#signalis #signalis fanart

musashi

shit i wish people had told me about fandom: if you are a lesbian and you are frustrated because all the other "lesbians" you follow do nothing but post about Male Blorbo #546704396456, THE ANSWER IS TO FOLLOW TRANS WOMEN. trans women will never force you to look at a man. it sounds too good to be true but it IS REAL i PROMISE

#yup lmao #havent posted anything about male blorbos in years #and the only time i did was back when I was very into Trigun #i only care about women and NBs now and its been very good

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