Hello, What's the most challenging placement for chiron in a composite or synastry chart? TY
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Most challenging Chiron placements
In synastry:
Moon conjunct/square/opposite Chiron - you're emotionally hurt by the Chiron person, they evoce negative memories and traumas for the Moon person, sometimes it can be vice versa as well
Chiron square/opposite Chiron - inability to heal/progress, you make each other feel bad because you're basically delaying each other's healing processes
Chiron square/opposite Venus - you're constantly hurting each other, arguments & challenges come to the surface when you both develop deep romantic feelings for each other
Chiron in the 1st (hurts the ego, self representation)/4th (can bring forward some family trauma and conflict with family members)/7th (diplomacy and relationship issues)/11th house (issues with friendships, the Chiron person might hurt their social representation) - only if it's badly aspected
Saturn square/opposite Chiron - represents stagnation, boredom and stubborness in the relationship
Mercury square/opposite Chiron - verbal conflicts, fighting, screaming, hurtful communication that brings forward many issues
Pluto conjunct/opposite/square Chiron - controlling & intense aspect, hurtful transformation
Chiron square/opposite Jupiter - pessimism, inability to expand, the Jupiter person is hurt since they can't reach their full potential without the Chiron person hurting them
In the composite chart:
Quite similar to the synastry aspects, negative aspects with personal planets (especially Moon, Venus and Mercury), negative aspects with Saturn, Jupiter and Pluto
South/North node square/opposite Chiron
Chiron in the 8th house
Also, the biggest indication of a hurtful relationship is having multiple bad aspects with Chiron. I had in one of my synastry charts my Chiron square other person's Sun, whilst his Chiron was conjunct my Moon, had a square at 0° with my Sun, square my Moon, square with my Mercury sign & square with my Neptune. So yeah, those should have been warning signs, so be careful if you have similar indications in your synastry chart! Watch out especially for aspects that are at 0° or 1° degree.