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After my 21st birthday I promised to live the life that I always believed in. To be the man that I could be proud of. I needed to experience the things that makes us human in a very open way...Love, Sexuality, God, Relationships, Achievements, Music, fashion, Compassion, Status and many more things that we call "Human Nature". I dedicate this blog to you..

[dearblackwoman]

Dear Black Woman,

you are allowed to build a life that looks quiet, intentional, and deeply satisfying, even if it does not impress people who do not know your story.

[aestheticjunkyard]

Muhamad Diouf by Vazha Kuchulori for Numéro Netherlands September 2025

[theambitiouswoman]

Choosing a life partner is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. Do not let anyone rush you into this. Who you choose doesn’t just shape your love life, it shapes your health, your wealth, your happiness and even your sense of identity. This person becomes the backdrop of your everyday reality, influencing how you think, feel and show up in the world. That’s why you must approach this choice with the same care and discernment as you would any other high stakes decision

Your partner becomes your environment. Their habits, their emotional regulation & their mindset all leave an imprint on you. If you want a life of peace, growth, and purpose, you need to choose someone who will co create that environment with you not someone who drains you or keeps you in a cycle of chaos and recovery

Love by itself is not enough. Chemistry is exciting, but it’s compatibility, respect and shared vision that sustain a relationship in the long run. Look for alignment in values and goals, choose character over charm and prioritize someone who is committed to their growth. The right partner should inspire you to rise higher, not keep you stagnant

Pay attention to red flags. They are not challenges to overcome, they are stop signs. Your body often senses the truth before your mind catches up and ignoring those signals can cost you years of your life, along with your confidence and peace of mind

The best way to choose wisely is to build a life you love first. When you feel fulfilled and secure on your own, you choose a partner from a place of clarity rather than desperation. This is what helps you avoid settling and ensures that your relationship adds to your life rather than becoming the center of it

When you choose well, the ripple effects are profound. Your mental health improves, you build a home that feels safe, you create the possibility of generational wealth and you model healthy love for the next generation. In many ways, your life truly does depend on this choice so make it wisely

[moca]

[junkfoodcinemas]

2024 + HORROR

[dcminions]

CHARLIE’S ANGELS: FULL THROTTLE (2003) costume design by joseph g. aulisi.

[sweetestart]

[bakeryboys-deactivated20230122]

[anon-i-mus]

Smartphones and other modern day smart devices have now become the new drugs for this generation.  Billions of people worldwide have become techno-junkies/prisoners that are over-whelmed, rewired and addicted to the constant stimuli (a predictable dopamine driven, social validation feedback loop) of this social-matrix. We are outsourcing our brains to these smart devices, that in turn are doing the thinking for us (weak AI).   How long can we last doing a simple task without obsessively checking our smartphones or PCs (internet, social media feed, web browsers, etc) before feeling lost, anxious, fidgety, moody or bored? We all have the freedom to either live as mental slaves that are trained to be unconscious, distracted and reactive to artificially induced realities that remove us out of the Present Moment or reclaim our true sovereignty as conscious observers/creators.  

~Anon I mus (Spiritually Anonymous)

*Subscribe to Anon I mus Youtube channel @ https://www.youtube.com/user/SpirituallyAnonImus http://egoawarenessmovement.org  

[rob-pattinson]

VIOLA DAVIS 2022 | Marcos Florentino & Kelvin Yule ph. for ELLE Brasil

[caroldanversenthusiast]

the great british bake off always comes through with the relatable content

[trcouture]

https://instagram.com/francisbuseko @francisbuseko

[nommethemba]

Watch "'QUEER IS' Short Film" on YouTube

Being Queer is more African than being Queerphobic. The belief that Queerness is unAfrican and a sin has fueled a lot of Queerphobia and Queer abuse in Africa and has led to many Queer people to live in fear that their lives might be lost and their blood shed due to the hate of Queer People that stems from the misunderstanding of what Queerness is.

QUEER IS, is a short film that captures all that Queerness Is, written, shot and created by Queer People and played by Queer People for Queer People.

Directors: Sbusile Mhlanga & Lungile Khumalo

Executive Producer: Theophillus Masilela

Producer: Nomathemba Mavuso

Cinematographer: Sbusile Mhlanga

1st AC: Prince Nhlapo

Creative Directors: Jessica Motsei & Theophillus Masilela

Portrait Photographers: Mihlali Jiya & Prince Nhlapo

Cast: Afrotist, Ngoako T. Makomela, Mpho Tumahole, Phemela Tladi, Mpho Ramaoka, Khaya Mabuza, Mihlali Jiya, Kai Simpson, Siya Phungula, Sipho Mackay, Christine Versagie, Neo Sithole, Anastasia Tambo, Callum Beukes, Kago Saul, Mbali Christina

MUA: PhimiStyles

Editor: Sbusile Mhlanga

Music: Afrotist

Intro & Outro Music: Calm River by Sonny Fascia Published by Burgh Records

[globalriseofblackpeople]

Men that put all their value in finances

Some men only look at themselves financially. Many broke black men who were still loved by women never showed up for the women that loved them while they were broke . They cheat and don’t show up emotionally , spiritually , mentally . You got a good woman and the least you can do is show up in the other aspects if you can’t financially . Until we as men say… I’m on going to work on all things about myself . I’m whole with or without finances . Stop watching these podcast of men who have money and still bitter about women . Money can be a great thing to be stable and handle shit . But it will never replace the stuff that’s missing in the rest of your personality. The only women that won’t care about that and be just for the money are the ones you shouldn’t want anyways .

The patriarchy taught us that we have no value without money . And all we bring is money when that’s not true . We have to dismantle every aspect of white supremacy that affects us mentally , physically, spiritually, sexually, and emotionally . Fuck white men and their ideologies. We are more

[gold-soleil]

[demetriusmarkee]

[kidslovecudi]