Out of Range

Kai. 28. Ohio. Music. Cats. Plants. Adventure.

[edgebug]

remember in 2007 or 2008 when emo was at its peak and gay marriage wasn't legal and so we had boys in eyeliner and skirts making out with each other at the mall in protest. i think we need this again

[edgebug]

i know the floppy haired emo boys of 2006 and 2007 are in their late 30s now and perhaps even their 40s and they have jobs in tech and middle management but PLEASE. we need you. we need you to dye your hair black and put your fucking snakebites back in and paint your nails and go to the mall and kiss each other

[sm-baby]

bitches be like "god he's so hot" and he looks like this

[m00sebl0od]

I’m the clown

[sc-images]

[vmpirevnom]

Vintage LGBTQ photos are so beautiful

[jacindaelena]

Polperro, Cornwall by happiness_behind_the_lens

[tanukipost]

top surgery tip 1)

get yourself used to sleeping on your back (and possibly elevated depending on your surgeon) BEFORE surgery.

[tanukipost]

top surgery tip 2)

have cough drops on hand because your throat will probably be sore from the breathing tube they use with anesthesia.

[cathedral-spires]

Top surgery tip 3)

Get and use straws. You'll have T-Rex arms for a while but you still need to hydrate.

[tanukipost]

top surgery tip 4)

the post surgery compression binder is more comfortable than youd think but it still gets pretty itchy. so dont be afraid to take benydryl, itll help you rest and stop the itch

[tanukipost]

top surgery tip 5)

sounds weird but try not to flex your pecs… watched a horror game play through and every time there was a jump scare my whole body tensed up including my pecs which hurt like a bitch

[purplepunchsoda]

Top surgery tip 6)

Have hand sanitizer/ body wipes incase you cannot reach across sinks easily and to also put under your armpits if you cannot get deodorant there

[tanukipost]

top surgery tip 7)

you might be numb in some areas affected by the surgery. especially if your surgeon does any liposuction along with just cutting your boobs off. right now my armpits are numb which makes cleaning them weird. less of a tip and more its normal for early in recovery

[tanukipost]

top surgery tip 8)

about a week in stuff starts to feel like pins and needles. i thought that meant my one nipple was falling off. turns out its the opposite and its them coming back to life. the post op compression binder while annoying does help the tingling feel less weird

[tanukipost]

top surgery tip 9)

you surgeon may be ripped to hell and back like mine and put the compression binder on super tight. ITS OK TO LOOSEN IT A LITTLE.

its there for compression to keep the swelling down but same rules apply as a regular binder: it might be a little uncomfortable and feel tight but you need to still be able to BREATHE

[tanukipost]

top surgery tip 10)

invest in a long pair of tongs or one of those claw grabber things. i just made ramen that was in a cabinet above the microwave. how? tippy toes and tongs.

[britcision]

Top surgery tip 11)

You can buy little hair net looking guys at some major pharmacies that include shampoo and can be used to wash your hair in bed if you’re having trouble in the shower

(This is a general surgery tip but all my disabled friends swear by ‘em post surgery it makes your life much easier and you can feel properly clean)

[itsparadoxlacuna]

top surgery tip 12) it’s okay to sleep on the couch or in a chair if it’s too difficult or painful to get in and out of bed. My couch plus a pile of throw pillows on either side of me was the perfect place to sit and simmer as I recovered. I also recommend getting one of those airplane pillows that go around your neck. very useful if you end up sleeping sitting up and don’t want your neck to crick.

[tanukipost]

top surgery tip 13)

when it comes to scar care. anything is better than nothing. and you dont need to shell out hundreds of dollars for fancy scar creams. to massage your scars as long as everythings properly closed you can just grab an gentle unscented or naturally scented lotion and use that. shea butter, cocoa butter, bio oil the like. youre just looking for something for sensitive skin and thatll keep them hydrated.

[seizethegrey-deactivated2025081]

y'all really missed the boat on calling these tip top top surgery tips

[the-haiku-bot]

y'all really missed the

boat on calling these tip top

top surgery tips

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[queerpeers]

part of being an ally to trans men is not being a dick to cis men for their appearance btw

[queerpeers]

the short trans men hear you. the trans men with bottom growth—or who are post-phalloplasty—hear your bad jokes about small dicks. the trans men undergoing hrt who are losing their hair hear you talk shit about bald spots.

[queerpeers]

also, hot take, you should care about not hurting random cis men in addition to not hurting trans men. like just because some guy is being an asshole online doesn’t mean the thousands of young boys reading your comments about someone with their same acne deserved it. i don’t care what your reason is, even if you think someone is bad enough to warrant being bullied, who gave you permission to hurt the innocent bystander?

[queerpeers]

hey y’all should spread this version bc some people need to hear this context

[catchymemes]

[bugeceicelim-deactivated2023120]

[ftm-papyrus]

you know who’s valid?

trans people who didn’t “always know” they were trans

transmascs who were “girly-girls” growing up, and transfemmes who were uhh idk “boyly boys?” there’s not really a matching term but you get it.

trans people who don’t have the resources to transition or are in unsupportive households.

trans people who don’t conform to gender norms.

trans people who do conform to gender norms.

transmascs and trans guys who like feeling cute

trans people who don’t bind, tuck, pack, etc for medical or comfort reasons, or just because they don’t want to!

fat and chubby trans people!

muscular trans femmes!

gay trans guys!

lesbian trans girls!

non-binary people who use “binary” pronouns, i.e she/her or he/him!

people who use neo-pronouns!

people with “odd” or obscure gender identities or sexualities.

people who identified with micro labels!

people who don’t use any labels!

i love all you guys!💗💗💗💗

you are loved, you are beautiful, handsome, amazing, and strong.

[lionfloss]

by Danita Delimont

[maureen2musings]

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[lsleofskye]

China | maxrivephotography

[pangeen]

“ Straight From Lord of the Rings “ // Robert DIcon

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[beemovieerotica]

i think a lot about how in the past women/afab people disguised themselves as men and lived for years undetected (in all-male workplaces!!) because it really drives home the point that there is so much natural variation in human bodies that would enable somebody to believably do this. like not only is it natural for men to be very short but it's also natural for them to have high voices, it's natural for women to be tall, built, and masculine, and the fact that people in the past just rolled with it like "he has dainty hands and that's none of my business" gives me some type of jealousy. people have gotten way too comfortable deciding what traits are normal for what sex. i think we all need to mind our business more.

[memedreamm]

i don’t care about straight actors playing queer people in media all i care about is if theyre going to put their whole pussy into it. tom hardy of course ive had gay sex im an actor. keanu reeves and river phoenix going to gay clubs in seattle and making out in public. heath ledger almost breaking jake gyllenhal’s nose because he kissed him too hard. when will actors do this again. 

[theroguefeminist]

the idea that straight actors cannot play gay or bi characters is one of the most brain dead takes i have ever seen. it leads to scrutinizing about ppl’s sexuality & forcibly outing actors who are in the closet. and its based on the homophobic premise that straight ppl and bi/gay ppl “look” different in some meaningful way. not to mention it helps foster the reverse idea that gay actors cant play straight ppl which REALLY hurts their careers but also agree with op that if ur straight and youre gonna play a gay or bi person, do the performance justice. we should only be giving shit to straight actors that act grossed out or lukewarm about pretending to be gay