Transition Updates

My name is Derek and I'm just a simple trans guy ; he/him/his pronouns T date: 07/28/14

[leahberman]

forgotten shores; mono lake, california

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[urban-industrial-aesthetic]

[kay-claire]

Top surgery studies in my sketchbook!

[meancatboy]

Penetration is a gender-neutral act. Topping is gender-neutral. Bottoming is gender-neutral. You are not more or less of a man or a woman depending on how you fuck. You are not “fake trans” for having sex a certain way. You are not any less masculine for bottoming or any less feminine for topping.

[playfully--sadistic]

Additionally, acting like being penetrated is an act of submission is deeply rooted in misogynistic, cisheteronormative ideas of sexual intercourse, as in "penetration is something that is done to women for the sexual gratification of the man, nothing more, therefore it is inherently degrading and feminine".

A cishet man getting pegged by his cishet girlfriend is not gay, he's not less of a man or submissive by default. A cishet man getting pegged by his cishet girlfriend can be sexually dominant and simply likes to be fucked in his ass - these two can co-exist. Yet, in the eyes of cishet society, a man that likes to have his ass played with, must enjoy it because it's "degrading" , not because it simply feels good.

That's why I so heavily preach about the difference between sub/dom/switch and bottom/top/vers. Penetration can be used to increase the feeling and severity of a power dynamic, but it doesn't create one. These two things are entirely separate from eachother, unless connected willingly.

[meancatboy]

you should reblog this version instead, actually

[certifiedsexed]

Certified Sex ED Post !

[mehphuckit-deactivated20240129]

[greenstar-69]

[starryeyedadmirer-deactivated20]

✨Thicc Jake!!!✨

[homoneuroticarchive]

page 104 kiss me

[pansyfemme]

i like my men like i like my women. transgender

[doegirlsnogging]

Rules for life in Seattle are conveniently posted

[conceitedtrash]

You and I were meant to be a cheap fuck for me to lay

[flower-tea-fairies]

[thesnobbyartsyblog]

[tiktoks-for-dead-pope]

[mossdftba]

Clip 1: This is my voice 1 day on T.

Clip 2: It's been a while since I've done a voice update. So, this is my voice. 16 months on testosterone... Keep moving forward.

[sleepy-domme]

[rickrude]

[orcaking]

My body is a collection of all the parts that came before! 🌱🌱🌱

[Image ID: A drawing of a trans masculine person, nude except for underwear. The figure has top surgery scars, and no head, the bottom of a jaw bone with plants growing from it floating above the neck. There are flowers, mushrooms, and stars surrounding the figure, and a bird flying to the left of the canvas. /. End ID]