hey sorry to bother you & idk if this is stupid but i recently watched a kxk proof thing and feel like shit about kaisoo?? kinda like when their scandal came out. i was wondering if you had tips to feel better :/ if not its ok too :) i love your blog 💞💞 and i hope you are doing well
hi anon!
I totally understand what you’re feeling :/ Sometimes even things we ourselves feel are true can be doubted on when something poses a new idea in our head (even if it isn’t completely logical). So here are my personal tips that have always reassured me about how true kaisoo are <3 (which only one time but reassuring yourself never hurts).
1. Read Kadi Analysis
I think this is quite obvious on why it helps. Having other people reassure you instead of you yourself is always helpful. This is because we all like when people agree with us, it makes us feel more right; when these opinions are supported with facts and not other opinions by other people they create a stronger reassurement. So here are some kadi analysis blogs (or at least that are known for them apart from mine):
faakeid
jongsooyah
cckaisoo (currently private though)
dorkdo
if anyone know more please tell me and i’ll add them in
2. Look At Kadi Photos/Blogs
I think this in general makes everyone feel better because you get to see the way they react to each other in a fun way. This personally makes me feel better because I love seeing people’s comments or creations of kadi. To see other people love and enjoy kadi (even creating things that take lots of time) as much as you /[want] is a great feeling. Here are some of my favs:
kaisdonuts
magiclitchii (she makes fanart!)
kaisooficrec - this is more general because this blog showcases other people who create things kadi based so instead of creating another bullet point for reading fanfics to help, just look through this blog and read some kadi fics as a bonus!
soofection
kyungception
I’m sure there’s many more (feel free to comment more) but these were the blogs on my “your favorite tumblrs” thing lol
3. Watch Kadi Videos
What better way to feel assured than to actually see them interact with each other fully? Videos are a great way to see their moments, people’s ideas, and getting to find moments you may not have seen before. Sure pictures and gifs are great but videos give you the full experience that may sink you back into the ship lol. Here are some of my personal favs:
[Moments] KaiSoo - We’re the Perfect Two
[Moments] Kaisoo | They Don’t Know About Us
[Moments/FMV] Kaisoo; Kai & Kyungsoo ✖ Right Now
[FMV] || Kaisoo || Impossible
Everything on Kaisooism’s youtube
4. Recall Why You Started Shipping Kadi
Honestly I think this is what really drives your motive (or at least mine) whenever a small piece of doubt starts to form. Recalling the first time of pretty much anything can be a blessing or a curse, it can heal or it can burn and in this case it’s always a heal and blessing for me (and I dear hope for you too haha). So think:
Was there a specific moment that you got you to ship them? If so look for that moment again, watch/look at it. Sometimes a little visual will bring all the nostalgia back.
Was it something someone said? If so try to recall what it was or try to find it.
Was it something else? Try and find that specific thing or things or try to find the closest thing to it.
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And finally if all else fails, try and separate yourself from kadi a little bit. Sometimes separation makes us realize how much we really care about things :) Maybe being away from them will make you realise you love/belief for them again …or it won’t but that’s okay too.
I hope that regardless of the outcome, the nostalgia brings back happy moments/memories for you! Thanks for loving my blog and for asking about my well being: I am doing really well actually! I hope you are doing well too and please tell me if the kadi love has reached you once more!
take care anon!
