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I'm not sure how you found me, but: behold! a pinned post whom: emrys, he/him, late 20s

what: gay/bisexual non-binary trans-masculine queer entity. you may think of me as boy+

why: reblogging things in large bursts with reckless abandon and not many tags (but I'll do my best to tag things if you ask!)

I make art & have an art blog, enjoy virtual pet sites, like watching things, reading, and playing video games.

#not sure what else to put in a pinned post #pinned post #yeehaw baby!!#if you're reading this thanks for being here ilu

dlaserart

I might come back to this laterrr but HJ and LaVonte homoerotic couch moment

hj-wingstreet

city council of darkness is kind of like evil unsleeping city

one-1-eye

poiregourmande

happy pride month to lavonte worthy and hj wingstreet, dual income male partners

anarchistmemedistro

inchofsalt

This includes not working for free. Shift is over and work is left to do? Leave it for the next person who is paid to take care of it. Is that you and it'll sit all weekend? Well, they should hire someone else to help with the workload. They don't pay you to worry about that.

I see this with coworkers who will stay 30 min past their shift because they don't want to leave unfinished tasks for the next person. We are chronically understaffed and the employer is not inclined to change this fact if the work is still getting done and service isn't impacted.

queeranarchism

Let me settle the 'is it fetishism and is it bad?' debate once and for all:

Being attracted to any kind of body is normal. Fat bodies. Trans bodies. Disabled bodies. All normal. Being extra attracted to a specific kind of body is normal too. Totally normal to have a type.

Not unlearning the societal stigma attached to those kinds of bodies, the people who inhabit those bodies, and the people who fuck them, to the point where you do any of the following:

Only want to date/fuck the person in secret.

Reduce the person to the feature that you desire and ignore the rest of who they are as a person.

Expect the person to be a walking porn fantasy instead of a real person with their own sexual preferences and boundaries.

Would no longer love the person if the stigmatized aspect of their body changed.

Consider yourself superior to the person, think the person should be 'grateful' that you love their body, etc.

See the person as a temporary adventure while planning to eventually settle down with someone whose body isn't stigmatized.

Is bad and harmful and you shouldn't be dating anyone until you've worked on your shit, because this makes you a very terrible partner. This doesn't mean you are a bad person with bad-fetishist-desires who can only desire people badly, it means you need to unlearn societal stigma so you can be a better partner to the people you desire.

Thank you for coming to me ted talk.

orteil42

given the current climate this pride especially i feel i must mention that i love my trans friends, i stand with trans people in the fight against transphobic legislation and those who would enforce it, and this blog is not a good place for you to be if you do not vibe with that

despazito

mellifexfarm

behold my ugly

cutecipher

whether or not men benefit from feminism has no bearing on whether feminism is worthwhile

cutecipher

put another way. i dont care about how men are impacted by feminism

cutecipher

already have people mad about this. okay here's another take. men should be feminists for no benefit.

mantis-lizbian

just as white people should be anti-racism for no benefit, and cis people should be pro-trans for no benefit. the only "benefit" that should be required is the creation of a more just world, not because you, personally, actually do get something out of it.