Relationships never work after hurt [ TRAUMA ] because . . . . .
The one who got hurt never heals
No matter how hard the one who hurt tries to redeem themselves
It’s never satisfying to the one who got hurt because he or she never understood why such harsh injury was placed upon them
They open their heart, soul, entirety to them in hopes to start something fresh, new, wholesome with an individual who they thought was going to be the magical one, like in them fairytails you were told about as a child.
Well honey, when you put all your eggs in one basket, it never results in a happy ending.
You end up blindsided by all the flaws, complete puppy love, making simple excuses to justify the actions in hope that it was just a phase, it’ll fan itself out.
But now 4 years have flown by, that puppy love died after year 1; the one who got hurt is now hurting the one who hurt them.
It’s crazy how that works huh,
See perception of hurt is experienced differently from person to person. One thing that was hurtful to you might not be hurtful to the next. Hence why, things will never work after hurt has entered the room.
A complete understanding of the situations at hand will never happen. The back and forths of blaming trying to declare who hurt who the most, fuels the little makeup sex mishaps, where we now declare we love each other all over again. But that never last long & Now we are back to blaming each other.
So shall I say again, Relationships never work after hurt [ TRAUMA ] because . . . . .
We continuously hopewe can get back to the way things use to be or normal , but that’s impossible
We live in a world that operations on experiences & perceptions. Once a new experience or a perception of that experience happen good or bad, it mold us to now act a certain way [act accordingly].
& that’s how we end up becoming the one who once was hurt now hurting others . . . . [ A CONTINUOUS CYCLE THAT’LL NEVER BE REPAIRED ]
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