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genuinely friendly reminder to never EVER share someone’s location/information without their explicit permission. you do not know why that person is asking, what they plan to do with that information, or even if the asker has that person’s best interest in mind at all.
OP is also not exaggerating how common this is. my abusive parents successfully kidnapped me from work once because a coworker who didn’t know my situation told them when my next shift was. my parents didn’t even know where I lived at that point in time, which was very much on purpose. it took me days to get away again. ALWAYS tell the person that is being looked for that someone is looking. never share personal information or even how to get in contact them. you can take information in and pass it along, but you absolutely cannot give any out.
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Hello friends, your regular reminder that a not insignificant number of social media “missing person” efforts are actually someone’s abuser trying to get them back, especially with missing older teens. Please don’t share unofficial missing person flyers–
–and if you do spot/know the person in them, tell THAT PERSON someone is looking for them instead of providing any information to the person doing the looking.
I cannot tell you how many times I have seen a site wide “missing person” turn into the person writing in to ask us to enforce the restraining order, or the custodial parent begging us to shut down the non custodial parent’s attempted kidnapping
Every time I say this, someone says “but what if it’s real, better safe than sorry” and no, it absolutely is not. For a good while I got “this is my abuser, please make them stop” requests for 70-80% of the viral unofficial missing persons crossing my feed.
This number is obviously anecdata–I’ve never been able to find a peer reviewed study attempting to pin down prevalance. But based on those experiences, I absolutely advise never sharing one of those posts.
(I used to finish this PSA thread saying that if a missing person alert came from police or a federal agency, it had likely been screened for abusive tactics and was more likely to be real. I no longer say this.)
This should be your principle for any time someone wants you to connect them with someone else, btw. Never give someone’s info to the person who asked. Tell the asker you’ll give that third party THEIR contact info instead.
–and if you do spot/know the person in them, tell THAT PERSON someone is looking for them instead of providing any information to the person doing the looking.
I will probably be muting this in a bit, but some followup: for those questioning “just how often does this happen, even?”, I wasn’t keeping an exact count but I think we just hit double digits of people saying “this happened to me/a friend” in replies to QTs of this
As in, of the current 70 or so quote tweets, around 10% of them have a person telling a story about a time their abuser faked a social media post expressing concern over them as a missing/vulnerable person in order to continue abusing them.
It’s not rare. It’s not unusual. It is, in fact, vastly more common than *any* dangerous situation in which social media attention can do literally anything to improve the situation. (I’ve rarely seen a dangerous situation massive social media attention can improve, honestly.)
To the people who want to argue about this advice: I have, more than once, personally seen an abuser’s viral missing persons post end in suicide or homicide. I have never in 20 years seen a case of stranger kidnapping at all, much less one that’s resolved by virality.
All I’m asking you to understand is that the abusers who do this are very, very good at convincing you their “missing person” is irrational, in danger, or has diminished capacity. You will never be able to spot these situations by reading over a single post. Ever.
If you want to retweet missing personsviral alerts because you want to do good in the world, please understand that there is a much, much greater statistical chance you are *actually* contributing to making things much worse for the person instead. Please just think about that.
And to answer the “well why are you qualified to say this”, since this has gotten way out of my usual circles: hi, I’ve been working trust and safety/ToS on social media for 20 years now. I am never, ever the person with the worst stories when I go out drinking with others.
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If you’re doubting this the thing you have to remember is that stranger kidnapping is very rare, for either children or adults. The vast majority of the time, when someone is kidnapped or held against their will, it’s by someone they already know, someone close to them: a parent, a partner, that sort of thing. So if someone has been kidnapped or whatever, the people closest to them (who are usually the ones to put up missing posters and whatnot) should be the first suspects, not the last. It’s possible that the person putting up the missing person fliers is the parent who has custody and the noncustodial parent kidnapped the kids … but it’s just as possible that the person putting up fliers is the noncustodial parent who is doing this as part of a plot to find the kids so they can kidnap them. You can’t tell which is which just from seeing the flyer.
And when people choose to leave voluntarily and cut all contact with people close to them, they don’t just do it on a whim. There’s pretty much always a reason. For example, the people they’re cutting contact with might be shitty and abusive. Now, the reason might also be “the person leaving is messed up by drugs” or whatnot, or “they’re being forced by an abuser to cut contact.” Those are also reasons. But a lot of people who cut contact with someone in their life do it for very good and valid reasons. You can’t tell which is which just from seeing the flyer.
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remember this especially now with so many trans and gay people fleeing states that are passing anti lgbtq laws
i guarantee there’s going to be homophobic families saying their “mentally disturbed family member” is missing
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*parasocial war that lasts 450000 year
All wars are parasocial. Sun tzu
they're scared cuz under socialism strap gets you pregrant
ⓘ this post was flagged by fact checkers as truer words never been spoken
the US government? apolitical. now the chinese government, on the other hands? oooh they're all up in those Politics, which is unusual for governments,
how dare you treat me like this dont you know im neurodivergent and *remembers i’m over 18* a major
US transphobes are running with a new gotcha of “you never hear about WOMEN becoming MEN, hmmm curious!” and everyone is saying that you don’t hear about it because trans men are completely under the radar and like…that’s not true!
Did I hallucinate the “little girls are mutilating their bodies” “mentally ill girls are taking hormones” “what happened to our lesbians” “you wanna be a man I guess I can hit you” arguments that have been made for years??? Some of the main talking points of JKR???Hello!?
People are erasing trans men and it’s YOU TOO!
as if this book doesn't literally exist and isn't praised up and down by transphobes on the daily
Its because the conversation around trans woman is on post-transition or at least post coming out trans women.
The conversation about trans men focuses on pre-transition and pre-coming out.
It makes it feel like trans men are rare or rarely spoken about. Because the man bit doesnt come up much. It tends to focus "confused girls".
So like yeah. Most the mainstream stuff rn is focused at trans women. Trans men are talked about too, but if you dont think about it really doesnt feel like it because its not discourse about trans men. Its discourse about "little girls".
Tl;dr People will say either trans woman or some combination of words that include either trans or woman (lookin at those woman/trans "identifying" things), but when talking about ftm stuff, the discourse doesnt usually use the words "trans men".
It’s definitely focused that way but that’s not how it manifests.
Elliot Page had top surgery, he’s on hormones, he *looks* like a guy. He has already transitioned. He’s in his fucking THIRTIES! He is a grown ass adult but when transphobes discuss him he’s a “confused little girl.”
Trans men who have been on hormones for years that are targeted by lies about doctors prescribing HRT willy nilly, are framed as “confused little girls.”
You can’t get a hysterectomy in many states or through your insurance in many states until you are 25! And yet the conversation is “little girls are being sterilized and removing organs”
Hell, you can’t get ANY surgeries until 18 without parent permission and even then it’s really not done younger than 16 and yet it’s “they’re mutilating toddlers!”
Just because trans men are being infantilized and misgendered at literally ANY fucking age doesn’t mean it’s “really” about kids.
Don’t give transphobes leniency in their nonsense. It’s not about kids. It’s shouted at grown adults cloaked with language about children.
In the same vein, most transphobia aimed at trans women ALSO refuses to call them trans women. It’s “men.” Because little boys doesn’t strike concern, it has to be “big scary men.”
Do not play their games!
also in the past two years ish prominent transphobia directed at trans people who go on testosterone has broadened to include rhetoric like “predatory women pumping themselves up with male hormones” and “groomers trying to convince little girls to mutilate their bodies.” it’s just that no one notices bc they ✨simply do not pay attention✨
when you’re telling someone that you were on the wikipedia page for defunct US retail outlets and they’re like “why” and you suddenly realize that this is not someone you can successfully communicate with
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free palestine.
- Death toll is now at 11.
- 100+ wounded.
- People have been forced out of Jenin, with soldiers screaming at them to keep their hands up.
- They tear-gassed people as they were leaving.
- A hospital where many were seeking refuge was tear-gassed.
The people of Jenin were refugees of the first Nakba back in 1948. They were displaced. Today, they’ve been displaced once more. Fuck israel.
seeing everyone just mindlessly sign up for threads despite all the clear warning signs feels like I’m living in Sailor Moon or a magical girl anime episode where the Monster of the Day just set up shop over night and their product is literally draining your lifeforce for the Dark Kingdom but people keep going there