Born on the Cob

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20yrs ✿ soulaani ✿ aromantic,

girlboy ✿ and a plethora of mental disorders.

you can guess which ones idc

mecore = that's me fr

that's the only tag I use

you are at my main

this is my misceblog

this is my batman

this is my fandomblog

I have a couple other blogs not listed, so you might know me from there too

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CHALLENGE FOR THIS PRIDE MONTH, if someone says they’re aromantic/has an aro flag accessory, don’t assume they’re also asexual by default. I wish you all luck

[star-mom-selkie]

happy pride month

[cursedpossums]

unrestrained summer fun

[cursedpossums]

every year around late may, without fail, this post starts getting notes again . and my little wet raw chicken breast of a brain gets puzzled. because i forget that summer is , in fact. a yearly event

[sitronsangbody]

"Oh so we should just eat anything we want??"

Well actually YES but also:

Restricting food Does Stuff To Your Brain. "Restricting" doesn't mean stopping when you're full. I feel like this is what gets misunderstood a lot. It means placing rules and limits on food that supercede what your body is signalling that it wants. Let's use cookies as an example. Restricting would be:

- I can only have cookies when I deserve them.

- I can only have cookies when I'm alone.

- I can only have two cookies.

- I can only have low-calorie cookies.

- I can only have cookies on set days, or so-called cheat days.

- I can't have cookies.

- I can't have cookies in the house.

- I'm bad when I eat cookies.

- Cookies are a bad food and I must compensate for having eaten them.

Whether or not you stick to the restrictions you set, your brain is learning to be an anxious mess around cookies. It might want to avoid anywhere that has cookies. It might feel shame for wanting or eating cookies. It might get exhausted from suppressing the craving and decide to binge. It might go into binge mode every time you eat cookies because you've taught your body that This Will Not Be Available Whenever. It might feel ridiculously important to eat all the cookies while you can.

I know we're all so used to constantly talking about food, diets, weight and bodies, and it's completely normalised to look at absolutely everything you eat and assign it the level of guilt you're gonna feel for eating it, and to brag about not eating this and that, and to announce that you know it's a Naughty Indulgence when you eat anything sweet.

But oh my god, it's such a huge weight off your shoulders to just let yourself eat cookies because you wanted cookies and stop when you feel satiated and know that the cookies will be available next time you want cookies because you don't need to earn them in any way. Because a brain that knows it can have cookies whenever it wants cookies, doesn't crave cookies all the time. Nor does it feel any self-loathing when it does crave cookies.

And I just wish everyone a very chill brain and some cookies

[mevil]

[joy-and-whimsy-official]

Joy and whimsy detected! This post is joyful and whimsical!

[ceruleanheaven]

[looking at people younger than me] you have your whole life ahead of you [looking at people older than me] you have your whole life ahead of you [looking at myself] its over

[ceruleanheaven]

brought nothing to the gun fight. whatever man

[manuciruja]

awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?

[manuciruja]

i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users

[mac-aro-ni]

This pride, a reminder to support:

Cishet aros

Straight aros

Cis aros

Nb aros

Intersex aros

Transfem aros

Transmasc aros

Trans aros who don’t identify as transmasc or transfem

Trans aros who identify as transmascfem/transfemmasc

Aro men

Aro women

Loveless aros

Queerplatonic aros

Aplatonic aros

[mac-aro-ni]

Some more!

BIPOC aros

AAPI aros

Asian Aros (looking at you, American COVID-stoked sinophobia)

Indigenous aros

Latiné aros

GNC aros

Disabled aros

Mentally ill aros

I/DD aros

Autistic aros

[themanwhooncedweltinavault]

[loulooser]

Can’t wait to not sleep at all on September 11th

[spinostarz]

i know ur from the uk(?) but reading this as an american is really really funny

[loulooser]

why 😭 it’s about twenty one pilots???? Their new album is out sep 12th????

[jarsjam]

THERE'S TWENTY ONE THIS TIME???

[max-nicoxposts]

I just saw a post on tiktok that really frustrated me. It was a black person expressing annoyance over yt ppl "soft launching" a blaccent mid conversation, and I laughed bc real and true actually. But half the comments were yt ppl being like "🥺🥺 I have echolalia 🥺 I can't help it" like are you serious ??? Someone went as far as to call the post ableist ???? And it's like wow okay, so have you never considered that there are black autistic people who also feel like this ? And just bc you have an extenuating circumstance it does not excuse you from making other people uncomfortable ? And also I do not think that echolalia is just gonna give you a random fucking blaccent but I guess I don't know a lot about how it is being white with echolalia, I only know how it is being black with it

[local-lesbian-tree-demon]

they should invent a body that feels normal to be inside of

[encryptidarchivist]

count dracula? uhhh ok. one

[zamczysko]

WRONG! searching "dracula" on letterboxd alone gives almost 600 results! and that's just movies! thousands of draculas are upon us

[kozlarz]

cmon they just started… give it some time

[encryptidarchivist]

thank you.

two

[onemilliondraculas]

Keep going

[redstonedust]

by default i dont understand people with boobs who argue against freeing the nipple and think top nudity is shameful. but ESPECIALLY i dont understand it when you live somewhere where temperatures can exceed like 80F. youre telling me you havent ever wished it was socially acceptable to walk downtown with your tits out when its hot outside. youre just okay with having to wear shirts in all weather and this doesnt bother you. i simply do not believe you............

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