DNI: ANYONE WHO BELIEVES GRELLE SUTCLIFFE IS MALE, RACISTS, HOMOPHOBES/TRANSPHOBES, ABLEISTS, PRO/DARKSHIPPERS, AI 'ARTISTS', ETC
I do not support 'transracial' or transmed, and 'MAPS' (aka pedophiles) aren't valid, none of you are. I am transgender myself and you're fucking disgusting. Get off my page.
[ My cat, River, is under #river (cat). I'm with her every other week. If you wanna see Nacho, clarify you want to see kitten, and he's under #nacho (cat). ]
Religious people are also fine AS LONG AS YOU DON'T HOLD HATEFUL BELIEFS. I may be slightly uncomfortable because religion is used against me often, but as long as you are not hateful, you're welcome here.
Hello! My name is Maxiem (Max is fine).
He/it transmasc, mostly bisexual with the exception of Zooble, I don't like the label of pansexual but they are an exception to bisexual.
I don't know how it happened, they suddenly got really hot. Beware of the pipeline.
I am also quoisexual/quioromantic, which for me means I don't know what sexual/romantic attraction is, so I can't determine if I've ever felt it.
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Sibling — @sllop / @voicemaildialtone
Pookie — @metaviperizfromhell
Pinterest — akikoyosanosbloodredheels or 🏳️⚧️ max_wanna_die 🏳️⚧️ (mostly inactive)
Discord — maxxsoupman (please alert me before a friend request!
AO3 — max_wanna_die
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• (disabled, yay) depression, anxiety, autism, possible inattentive ADHD / hypersexuality (eughh) , and my leg randomly got fucked so I use a cane to walk now? If that counts
• sadly American
• shitty dad haver
• sharing yumedanshi of Grelle Sutcliffe, Pierrot (TFC) , and Caine! I am perfectly fine with other yumes of them interacting!
• omegaverse fan.....
• comshipper. This gets confused with dark/pro, but it simply means I like complicated ships, not illegal ones. Darkshipping is bad (aka illegal ships), and proshippers ('ship and let ship', which can quickly turn into darkshipping/often gets confused with it) make me uncomfortable as fucking hell.
• that being said, shippers of these people DNI: dazaku/dazatsu, chuuaku/chuuatsu, Mori with anyone honestly, or if you hc he SA'd anyone bc that's gross man. Why
• please do not repost my colorings anywhere! Using them as PFPs is fine tho, I would be very honored
• why do I panic each 4th of July? I'm American and we have guns and gun violence
My dad put on a really weird anime and I'm so serious when I say the MC is actually a fucking puppyboy. He doesn't have a name but he has an actual tail clipped to his belt and puppy hair ears. He's from My Ribdiculous Reincarnation please go watch it it's so weird
What if, when Dazai runs away from the mafia and Chuuya’s car explodes, Chuuya really believes he’s dead—not because they let him believe that, but because their bond is broken, a visceral pain overwhelms him, and the emptiness in his chest can only mean one thing? Just saying
imagine caring about someone so much that you feel like the only way you can get rid of your feelings for that person is by ending their life. And people have the audacity to pretend nikolai isn’t queercoded
I remember seeing something about someone headcanoning Dazai as gay mlm because his flirting with women seemed somewhat forced, and that's kinda peak honestly
they've been arguing about malgendering on twitter so here's the truth from me, the arbiter of truth (jk but ive been talking about malgendering long before it became a popular buzzword and heres my understanding of it)
malgendering is a form of transphobia wherein a transphobic person uses their victim's correct gender to harass or demean them. it is meant to be the inverse of misgendering, where a transphobe uses the victim's incorrect gender to harass or demean them.
misgendering towards trans women can be as simple as "youre a man." but malgendering is more insidious, like someone saying "you really are a girl" when she makes a mistake in order to insult her intelligence. the phrase "you really are a girl" is positive when removed from the context of the trans woman making a mistake and the transphobe's sarcastic tone that implies shes stupid in an misogynistic way.
if a trans man does something like standing up for himself against an unfair situation or asks for better accommodations/treatment, and a transphobe wants to use that to imply he is selfish and entitled, they might say "trans men really are men" which again, is a true statement on its own. but in the context of the situation, its clear the transphobe is using the stereotypical worst qualities of men to insult and undermine someone's very identity.
malgendering can be any severity of harm, just like misgendering. my mom slipping up in the first months of my transition and accidentally calling me "she", and a bigot shouting "YOURE A WOMAN YOULL NEVER BE A MAN" at me are both examples of misgendering, but one is much worse than the other and its the same with malgendering. being told "trans men are the men of the trans community" as an insult is annoying and rude but not a big deal. however, right now ICE is torturing trans men in concentration camps by forcing them to do pointless and grueling labor. and when they become exhausted, theyre told "I thought you were a man. if youre really a man this should be easy for you" these are both examples of malgendering. one is a microaggression, the other is literal torture.
malgendering happens equally to both trans men and trans women, its not something that is unique to anyone because it is a form of transphobia. the strategy is that if a transphobe tries to make a trans persons life as their true gender so miserable and unsafe, detransitioning seems like the safer and happier option. its psychological torment, moreso than the plain and obvious insult of intentional misgendering. so dont let it happen, call it out when you see it and dont be fooled by transphobes trying to erase the context and be like "what!! what i said was true!"
