Max @maxncheesey - Tumblr Blog

I think everyone who posts discourse about how Rocky Horror is bad queer rep should be strapped to a chair and forced to watch Pink Flamingos. I think it would make them all a whole lot less annoying. It might kill some of them, but the dead can't post discourse, so...

inthefallofasparrow

batboyblog

you know its telling how few people on the internet actually spend time outdoors in general and around actual gay men in particular

because to hear even Tumblr the "gay gender website" talk people only wear harnesses while strapped into a sex swing while being fisted

but the reality is that the harness, both leather and spandex, in gay male world is like stiletto pumps, a bright red lip stick, a short skirt or push up bra.

sure some people are wearing those things because they're about to get laid or hoping to. But lots of people wear them just to feel sexy, confident or powerful. And there's nothing X rated and "shouldn't be seen in public" about any of that.

lots of gay guys wear harnesses to bars or clubs not because its a sex thing, but because its a sexy thing, they feel attractive and confident.

I get that gay men feeling attractive and confident terrifies people, but if you're at Pride and a guy walks past you in jeans and a harness, either shirtless or over his shirt, he didn't violate your civil rights or do a sex thing in front of you, he's wearing a totally appropriate outside that makes him feel confident and powerful.

grow up, deal.

maggotwithanf

I own this exact harness and I wear it to play Beyblade. unironically

vrumblr

And you do indeed look very cool and powerful playing Beyblade

8 years of Melvin Carter: no Weiner Wednesday

8 months of Kaohly Her: Weiner Wednesday

#minnesota #saint paul #Saint Paul MN #Kaohly Her #Melvin Carter

beingharsh

olden-towne

When one requests to do a noncon kink scene and then, within in the scene, is degraded for being turned on, and having secretly wanted it the whole time, (in effect, referencing the circumstances of having requested to do a noncon scene in the first place), is this postmodernism? Is this postmodern kink?