meh..."Feminism"

A Neutral view from a young woman on modern western feminism and what's wrong and right about it.

[maybefeminism]

Lol… So frogman- How does it feel to have your words used by bigot? This is what happens when you start grouping people no matter how “Nobel” your cause is.

[anti-feminism-pro-equality]

YES

[anti-stupidity-pro-ratties]

Did I already reblog this? Oh well, I"m doing it again

[socialjusticeprincesses]

Camille Pagila - a Feminist worth following, a Feminist worth listening to.

Here, folks, listen more.

“The problem with too much current feminism, in my opinion, is that even when it strikes progressive poses, it emanates from an entitled, upper-middle-class point of view. It demands the intrusion and protection of paternalistic authority figures to project a hypothetical utopia that will be magically free from offense and hurt. Its rampant policing of thought and speech is completely reactionary, a gross betrayal of the radical principles of 1960s counterculture, which was inaugurated in the U.S. by the incendiary Free Speech Movement at the University of California at Berkeley.”

“I am continually shocked and dismayed by the nearly Victorian notions promulgated by today’s feminists about the fragility of women and their naïve helplessness in asserting control over their own dating lives. Female undergraduates incapable of negotiating the oafish pleasures and perils of campus fraternity parties are hardly prepared to win leadership positions in business or government in the future.”

On Emma Sulkowicz - I like this one:

[laughs] I’d give her a D!  I call it “mattress feminism.” Perpetually lugging around your bad memories–never evolving or moving on!  It’s like a parody of the worst aspects of that kind of grievance-oriented feminism. I called my feminism “Amazon feminism” or “street-smart feminism,” where you remain vigilant, learn how to defend yourself, and take responsibility for the choices you make. If something bad happens, you learn from it.  You become stronger and move on. But hauling a mattress around on campus? Columbia, one of the great Ivy League schools with a tremendous history of scholarship, utterly disgraced itself in how it handled that case. It enabled this protracted masochistic exercise where a young woman trapped herself in her own bad memories and publicly labeled herself as a victim, which will now be her identity forever.  This isn’t feminism–which should empower women, not cripple them.

…you’re way too generous, Ms. Pagila. Way. Too. Fucking. Generous.

=b

- Kuzco

[ren-of-rationality]

It’s always nice to have some right minded feminist women to look up to. 

[dickslapthestate]

It doesn’t do Camille Paglia justice just to read the things she says. You have to listen to her speak. She’s like a fucking machine gun and it’s awesome.

[ren-of-rationality]

You are 110% right, thanks so much for this addition!

[slytherho-deactivated20171229]

A queef gained sentience and made a stupid fucking post so I replaced it with john cena

[tqweef-deactivated20160720]

i literally want every male ( whether they identify as male or not ) to drop dead. ya’ll are ruining my beautiful planet and defiled the bodies of almost every girl i know. ya’ll are savages and i hate all of you unapologetically.

[maybefeminism]

Well. How unpleasant.

[hokeypokeyslopokechokey]

Women can do anything a man can do;

Including lie, cheat, steal, rape, murder, be sexist, be rude, not have things go their way.

Just in case you forgot.

[anti-fem-anti-stupid]

We live in a rape culture?

Bitch please. We live in a culture where people see rape as worse than murder.

[shattered-angel123]

New Mottos for 2016 Tumblr:

“Statistics and basic math is a construction of the patriarchy”

“Men should express their feelings but haha male tears”

“Masculinity is toxic…but it’s also fragile. Depends on how I’m feeling today”

“Gender is a social construct, and we got this idea from a lying, pedophile psychologist who drove two twins to suicide”

“POC can’t be racist because they never had real power…Haha…it’s not like other races owned slaves…and oppressed each other…and it’s not like some of them sold their own people Haha.

“I hate logic and I hate math now let’s go make false rape accusations and point to everything and say it’s rape”

“Teach men not to rape *5 seconds later* NOT ALL MUSLIMS YOU ISLAMOPHOBE!!!!!!!!!”

“Let’s get offended by everything” 

[communismkills]

What a quick turn around.

Bet you they don’t get why this is funny.

[celtic-pyro-deactivated20230725]

For the sake of men everywhere, I hope these women never get a date.

[llamabagel-deactivated20170925]

Tbh if I was on a first date with a woman and she started talking about some “men are pigs” and “all men suck” garbage I’d ask for the check and leave that bitch there. Don’t think because I’m a chick and I’m on a date with another chick that I wanna hear it.

Misandry is not cute. I have males in my life that I care deeply for, and if you’re a woman I’m dating, your ass is potentially gonna meet them at some point. I’d rather not have my uncles or male friends or my nine year old brother around a woman who talks shit about the people I love just because of what’s in their pants.

Yes, some of the people who have wronged me are male. No, I’m not about to blame ALL men for their actions. I’m also not about to fall in love with someone who preaches hate. Full stop.

[fromonesurvivortoanother]

I don’t understand people on dating sites who put “working out” as one of their major interests

It’s like wow you won a genetic lottery and you aren’t disabled!! Congratulations! Wow you spend hours looking at a wall while moving your appendages in repeated motions and listening to EDM!

And this is one of the very first things you want me to learn about you. Not what you want to experience in your lifetime. Not what you care about or what you want to create in your very limited time on this earth. Out of all the possible ways your could have defined yourself, you did it with your status as not-a-cripple, and your love of bicep curls and being BORING.

[dagrfinnr]

I know a guys who’s paraplegic and he absolutely loves to work out, what’s your point? Some people spend considerable amounts of time working out, and those are their life experiences. My mom is a good example, she’s currently working on becoming a personal fitness trainer as her new career. She goes to running events, and often volunteers to work at them. Not as big a fan of running myself I haven’t gone to many, but even the few I’ve gone to had disabled people. Personally, I use free weights to keep my anger management in check because they calm me down. Working out is so much more than repeated motions and music. I’ve found it can be about creating a community and making friends. Being around those you love and feeling good about yourself while you do it.  Just because you think working out is boring and useless doesn’t mean everyone feels that way. Quite narcissistic of you to think your way of life is best. Fitness and working out can define a person. While some might use it for bragging rights, I found most people aren’t like that.

[averagefairy]

Do boys even get crushes on girls do boys even like girls do boys even feel things 

[some-poor-motherfucker]

I have cried many a tear, yes. I have loved many guys. My best friend left to do things today, and she’s a female, and it made me sad. I didn’t want to be alone today, and I felt grouchy for a bit.

Yes, boys feel feelings. No matter how silent they’re forced to be.

[playstation2chainz]

shocking

[hominishostilis]

*ahem*

from this post 

Woman kills man for refusing to give her beer 

Woman stabs man for refusing to have sex with her, threatens to cry rape 

Woman rips off man’s testicle because he rejected her, tried to swallow it

Woman kills man for refusing to marry her 

Woman cuts off man’s penis because of argument 

Woman shoots her husband after argument 

Woman cuts off cheating boyfriend’s penis, flushes it

Woman suspects husband of cheating, stabs him to death 

Woman shoots, kills boyfriend for cheating 

Woman stabs boyfriend for cheating in Monopoly board game 

Woman shoots, kills man for ending relationship 

Woman sets husband’s genitals on fire for hugging another woman, dies 

Woman kills, dismembers husband’s body over argument 

Mother kills 18-month old twins to get back at husband she thought was cheating 

Woman kills husband after he confronts her about affair 

Woman kills cheating husband with lethal dose of heroin 

Woman runs over, kills cheating husband 

Obese woman sits on boyfriend, kills him and avoids jail time 

Woman kills boyfriend with stiletto shoe

Woman murders cheating husband with coffee mug 

Woman kills boyfriend for not buying her a gift 

Woman kills boyfriend who accused her of cheating 

Woman stabs and kills boyfriend , Judge: “I hope you die in prison”

Woman shoots, kills ex-boyfriend, buries him in pile of debris 

Woman shoots boyfriend in the back of the neck, killing him 

Woman shoots boyfriend six times, kills him after argument 

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend over mother’s day gift 

Woman stabs boyfriend to death, also stabbed her husband to death 7 years prior

Woman pushes way into home, stabs boyfriend to death over argument 

Woman angry at boyfriend takes her anger out on his 4 year-old 

Woman stabs boyfriend to death, thought he was cheating on her 

Woman bludgeons husband to death with hammer to pay back loan 

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend during argument 

Woman murders boyfriend for tweeting out his female crush 

Woman shoots and kills boyfriend, kills self while out on bail 

Woman stabs to death boyfriend over argument about an ex 

Woman stabs and kills boyfriend for social media posts 

Woman shoots boyfriend in the face, fails to make it look like suicide 

Woman kills boyfriend’s puppies during phone argument

Woman shoots boyfriend in the face with rifle during argument 

Woman pushes boyfriend off fence after argument, killing him 

Woman attacks boyfriend with large knife, intent to kill 

Woman abused, threatens to kill boyfriend in sleep

Woman beats, murders boyfriend and puts him in freezer because he wanted to break up with her

Woman held gun to boyfriend’s head, murders on Christmas 

Woman with previous assault charge on another boyfriend stabs and kills different boyfriend 

Woman attempts to murder boyfriend with giant breasts 

Woman stabs boyfriend in neck, killing him after argument 

Woman chokes and stabs ex-boyfriends cat to death 

Woman starts argument with boyfriend, stabs and kills with umbrella 

Woman kills boyfriend with her car after argument 

Woman shoots, kills boyfriend in his bathroom 

Woman shoots, kills boyfriend with illegal handgun 

Woman sets her boyfriend on fire, killing him 

Woman shoots and kills ex-boyfriend multiple times, kills herself

Woman shoots boyfriend in the head, found out he was dating other women 

Woman stabs and kills boyfriend over finances 

Woman stabs and kills boyfriend’s lizard because she thought he was flirting with other women 

Woman shoots, kills boyfriend who wanted to end their relationship and urged her to get an abortion 

Woman attempts to murder husband with poison in her vagina

Woman stabs boyfriend to death after he slaps daughter

Woman conspires to have secret lover murder her husband

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend over argument on Labor Day

Woman stabs boyfriend in the chest over argument 

Woman stabs boyfriend to death after finding photos of other women on cell phone 

Woman tortured ex-boyfriend’s dog until it died after argument 

Woman stabs boyfriend in his chest and through his lung, nearly killing him 

Woman fatally stabs boyfriend during heated argument 

Woman kills her boyfriend with blunt force trauma to the head using frying pan

Woman stabs boyfriend to death for drinking her beer 

Woman strangles boyfriend to death during argument 

Woman stabs boyfriend with serrated knife over argument 

Woman shoots, murders boyfriend while she was on house arrest for another murder 11 years prior 

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend then texts friend about eating the body 

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend over dispute 

Woman shoots boyfriend in the head, suspecting he was cheating 

Woman shoots man in the groin after argument 

Woman fires handgun into the home of man who denied her a kiss 

Woman stabs husband to death over cheating fears 

Woman shoots, kills ex-boyfriend and his new girlfriend 

Women kills husband, commits suicide 

Woman shoots and kills man over argument 

Woman kills husband with baseball bat for talking back to her 

Woman kills husband, confesses to family then shoots herself 

Woman stabs boyfriend 31 times after he said ex’s name in his sleep 

Woman shoots husband in the head, shoots herself 

Woman kills boyfriend over argument at house party 

Woman shoots boyfriend with shotgun for texting another woman 

Woman kills boyfriend because she “smelled sex on him” 

Woman runs over boyfriend, kills him

Woman stabs boyfriend in the eye for turning down threesome 

Woman stabs ex-boyfriend for refusing to stop playing the Eagles 

Woman stabs boyfriend, throws out his prosthetic legs so he can’t chase her 

Woman ties up, stabs husband 193 times, jury finds her guilty for suspicion of trying to claim life insurance 

Woman stabs fiance for refusing to take her to the liquor store 

Woman assaults and threatens boyfriend with knife for not cuddling 

Woman stabs man with ceramic squirrel for not bring home beer 

Woman stabs taxi driver after he refuses to have sex with her 

Woman stabs ex-boyfriend in his penis after discovering he had a new girlfriend

Woman stabs boyfriend twice over time he spent in bathroom 

Woman stabs boyfriend over Facebook post 

Woman stabs her boyfriend several times because his dog ate her marijuana stash 

Woman stabs boyfriend for not calling her every two hours 

Woman shoots man five times for rejecting her, kills herself 

Woman murders ex-boyfriend with liquor laced with poison, was jealous he was engaged to new woman 

Comedian Phil Hartman was murdered by his wife on May 27th 1998

NFL player Steve McNair was murdered by his girlfriend on July 4th, 2009

John Wayne Bobbitt had his penis cut completely off on June 23rd, 1993

Travis Alexander was murdered by Jodi Arias on June 4th, 2008

Andrew Bagby was murdered by Shirley Jane Turner on November 6th, 2001 (She later murdered their 1 year-old son on August 18th, 2003)

Brenda Spencer killed two and injured nine at Cleveland Elementary School on January 29th, 1979

Laurie Dann killed one boy and injured five others at Hubbard Woods Elementary School on May 20th, 1988

Jennifer San Marco killed eight people at Goleta postal facility on January 30th, 2006

Sylvia Seegrist killed three and injured seven during a shooting spree at a Springfield mall on October 30th, 1985

Mary Ann Holder killed five children including her own son in Pleasent Gardens, NC on November 20th, 2011

Jullian Robbins killed one and injured two at Penn State on September 17th, 1997

Heather Smith killed two then committed suicide at Spanaway Junior High School on November 26th, 1985

Latina Williams killed two others then self at Louisiana Technical College on February 8th, 2008

Amy Bishop Anderson killed three and wounded three others at the University of Alabama on February 12th, 2010

What’s most interesting though is that mainstream media doesn’t even mention female shooters when they claim to show the history of the crime — but I guess they’re going by high scores. While its true that most shooting sprees are committed by males, it is also truethat most child abuse, neglect, and murders are committed by females.

Women who killed or attempted to kill children in the news, past 30 days (US):

Florida woman shoots, kills her 2 teenage sons 

Mother throws 1 year-old daughter under truck, kills her 

California mom stabs her 3 daughters to death. all under 2 years old

Mother attempts to kill her 3 teenage children 

Mother kills her infant son by stabbing him to death 

Woman kills 2 year-old girl, attempts to kill 10 year-old boy 

Utah mom murders 6 newborns, keeps them in garage 

Mother charged with trying to suffocate daughter 

Woman charged for killing 8-month old baby 

Women who killed or attempted to kill children in the news between January and April 2014 (US):

Mother drowns both of her sons aged 3 and 6 

Mother attempts to drown her 3 children in ocean 

Utah mother shoots and kills two teen daughters, then herself 

Mother suffocates 14 month old son, fails at attempted suicide 

Woman babysitter murders 19 month old boy 

Mom kills 7 month old daughter, blames Jesus 

Woman operating illegal daycare responsible for 3 month old girl’s death, police find 14 children in her basement 

Mom strangles 3 day old baby boy, discarded body in trashcan 

Woman suffocates 2 year old girl of fiance, fakes sexual assault by unknown assailant to cover tracks 

Mother charged with killing 2 year-old daughter 

Mother of several children with history of violence murdered and buried 2 year-old daughter in shallow grave 

Mother stabs and kills her 2 children in exorcism 

Mother kills her teen son and daughter, self 

Mother confesses to killing 10 year-old son 

Mother tortures and kills 3 year-old son, burned genitals with lighter 

This is only mid-year and I didn’t even include the reports of mothers killing their children from previous years or other countries.”

The only thing “shocking” here is how far you’ve managed to cram your head up your own ass.

[notcayleb]

This post is disturbingly long.

[tired-bi-lady-deactivated201606]

REBLOG THE SHIT OF THIS. I AM SO FUCKING SICK OF PEOPLE TREATIG WOMEN LIKE INNOCENT GODDESS WHO NEVER DO ANYTHING WRONG WHILE THEY TREAT ALL MEN LIKE ANIMALS.

[vulture-jack]

I debated on whether or not to reblog this but damn those sources are a fucking feat and pretending that they dont exist erases the victims.

[hunter-sundown-deactivated20200]

once in a blue moon someone on tumblr will acknowledge anyone other than a man has done something wrong

[spongebobafettywap]

if your feminism involves overlooking crimes by women then it isn’t feminism

[bundywashere]

if your feminism involves overlooking crimes by women then it isn’t feminism

[chancebrojustsingthehook-deacti]

^^^^^

[facelesskinkyblackguyblog]

Damn son that clapback was too real

[thetallblacknerd]

Love posts like this

[whydontiagreewithfeminism]

Basically why I’m not a feminist

[minus-zero-blogs-blog]

you know what’d be nice

if the internet was female-only

just picture it

no porn

no sexism

no harassment

it’d be the one thing in the world not corrupted by men

[beevomitbooboo-blog]

“no porn”

“no sexism”

“no harassment”

[prettyboyshyflizzy]

😨 😂

[westindianboo]

Y'all crazy foreal

[pattyeffinmayo]

Is hacking into their iCloud putting on their find my iPhone to trace their location considered crazy, if so I qualify……..😂😂

[unaveragethoughts]

^^^😭😭😭😭 I know someone that happened too!! Took him months too figure it out!

[prettyboyshyflizzy]

Wild

[quixon]

Hmmmm

[thetallblacknerd]

The fuck is wrong with them?

[ashley-diorr-deactivated2018120]

Lmfaooooo y'all 😂😂😂😂😂 to all my fellow egalitarians out there!! My Twitter was so funny today 😂😂😂 people were sharing their experiences with EXTREMIST ppl from tumblr and I couldn’t help but Share some. (The funniest one was “Santa isn’t even real"😩😂😂) LMAO! Tag some more egalitarians too!!

@tuhmblr-logic @white–chocolate @areyouactuallyhavingfun @specialsnowflakesanonymous @ilikechildren–fried @cutandpastequeen @anti-radfem @lion-against-sjw

[peppermint-bones]

THAT LAST ONE

[takingofforionsbelt-deactivated]

My fucking sides

I love it when ‘woke’ people act like interracial dating is going to make their race go the way of Atlantis.

[squided]

WHEN WILL PEOPLE FUCKING REALIZE THAT

MEN

ALSO

ARE

GIVEN

UNREALISTIC

EXPECTATIONS

DO YOU HAVE ANY FUCKING IDEA

HOW IMPOSSIBLE IT IS

TO LOOK LIKE THIS???

IT’S 100% FUCKING ILLOGICAL TO EXPECT MEN TO HAVE THIS RIPPED SIX-PACK ABS AND BE SKINNY AND HAVE PERFECT SKIN AND FACIAL COMPLEXION!  MEN ALSO EXPERIENCE BEING UNCOMFORTABLE WITH OUR BODIES ALL. THE. FUCKING. TIME.

[squided]

I’m bringing back the REAL post.  For those of you who care enough about how body image issues effect BOTH MEN AND WOMEN and how ignoring men with eating disorders or who have depression or deep insecurities because of their body image is not just ignorant, but it’s horribly insulting.  Making fun of this post means you are telling men who feel degraded that they should feel bad about themselves and that they don’t mean anything.  For everyone who reblogged the posts that made fun of this original post, shame on you.  I’m very disappointed.  Please share the original because this is an important issue.

Also raised to my attention is I neglected to add people of color to this post, I am sorry for my negligence so I shall add bonus images here of unrealistic expectations for men of every race, I chose Men’s Health Magazine because it’s extremely popular in telling men how to look:

[emile8]

No, guys, you don’t understand. I just got so relieved seeing this original post again that I nearly cried.

[nicthefanboy]

Bless the blog that brought the original back!

[safety-officer-barto-deactivate]

Here’s the original post without some of you asshats changing the pictures

[ladywordfighter]

This is actually the VERY FIRST TIME I’ve seen the original post, which goes to show how quickly people turned it into a joke. I confess that I did laugh at some of the absurd replacement images in the other versions, and I feel guilty for that now because I, like many, was missing an extremely important message.

To all of my male followers who struggle with self-esteem: I support you too. Even though I’m really quiet and have a bad habit of going weeks or months without posting, I WILL be there for you if you come to me wanting to talk or just vent. That’s a promise.