MDSA

Mother daughter sexual abuse. No TW. follow at your own risk

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Beverly Ogilvie (2004), Mother-Daughter Incest: A Guide for Helping Professionals.

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“Spiritual disconnection.“ Feels more like spiritual destruction.

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Haliburn (2019), Mother–child incest, psychosis, and the dynamics of relatedness.

(Gerry is another patient whose experiences are discussed in this paper. He was abused by his mother.)

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Health and legal professionals, as well as the public at large, tend to reject the notion that women can be sexually dangerous to their children based on the prevalent belief in mothers' (inherent, biological) role of nurturing and protecting role their young. Many continue to consider that parent-child sexual abuse is restricted to fathers and daughters. Some argued that the thought itself that a woman could sexually abuse a child is bizarre and disconnected from reality. When faced with evidence to the contrary, the general attitude is that there is no actual harm done since there is no male genital penetration. Others express compassion toward these mothers and minimize their behaviors in a merciful approach that considers them strange, mad, or survivors themselves.

Reingold, O. H., & Goldner, L. (2023). “It was wrapped in a kind of normalcy”: The lived experience and consequences in adulthood of survivors of female child sexual abuse.

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When you’re told (or worst, felt) that there was no actual harm done it arrests the scream that was about to wail from you. And that does more severe and wide ranging damage to my CNS than any other damage to anything I know thus far.

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Reingold & Goldner (2023). “It was wrapped in a kind of normalcy”: The lived experience and consequences in adulthood of survivors of female child sexual abuse.

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I read someone on Reddit said sexual abuse by a mother towards a daughter can be like any sexual abuse in that it is not necessarily about sexual gratification but dominance and control. And she could carry that dominance from other aspects to the sexual realm.

And for me violation of a person sexually reaches a depth and breadth unreachable by other forms of abuse. That’s why she went there. She wanted the most bang for her bucks.

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Reingold & Goldner (2023). “It was wrapped in a kind of normalcy”: The lived experience and consequences in adulthood of survivors of female child sexual abuse.

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Love as a destructive, annihilating, dominating, and controlling force. Towards one’s own body. “Characterized by hatred and aversion on the one hand and disconnection on the other”

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Annie Rogers, A Shining Affliction

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“in the place where there are no images, even fleeting sensory impressions terrify.”

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Reingold & Goldner (2023). “It was wrapped in a kind of normalcy”: The lived experience and consequences in adulthood of survivors of female child sexual abuse.

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Reingold & Goldner (2023). “It was wrapped in a kind of normalcy”: The lived experience and consequences in adulthood of survivors of female child sexual abuse.