[emmacandle]

tbh i think every transfem who publicly disagreed with isff/suggestrogen should be ashamed of herself. she was your sister and mine, one of the best of us, and you abandoned her under assault from transmisogynists because pedophile is too icky of a word for you

[emmacandle]

everyone was on board with the other stigamtized kinks she posted about, forcefemming and siscon, but when she pointed at pedophilia and said its the same idea you cut and ran, and i hope youre embarrased to your core that you couldnt get over yourself long enough to see she was right

[emmacandle]

[emmacandle]

[problemnyatic]

the most valueable skill a white leftist can ever learn is how to take an L with grace.

[problemnyatic]

You gotta be able to take an L if your moral and ethical belief systems are to be capable of guiding you. Otherwise you just have an idealized self where you get really mad and scared when anyone points out it isn't actually you. How the fuck are you gonna walk the walk if you can't handle being told when you are not, in fact, actually walking it

[problemnyatic]

you cannot just socially transition into being a good person you are going to have to settle for being a messy human being who has to try and fail and keep trying to get better like everyone else. yeah even when it's embarassing and sucks for you a lot.

[problemnyatic]

the most valueable skill a white leftist can ever learn is how to take an L with grace.

[problemnyatic]

You gotta be able to take an L if your moral and ethical belief systems are to be capable of guiding you. Otherwise you just have an idealized self where you get really mad and scared when anyone points out it isn't actually you. How the fuck are you gonna walk the walk if you can't handle being told when you are not, in fact, actually walking it

[problemnyatic]

you cannot just socially transition into being a good person you are going to have to settle for being a messy human being who has to try and fail and keep trying to get better like everyone else. yeah even when it's embarassing and sucks for you a lot.

[cutecipher]

Sorry but when i talk about supporting trans women I dont just mean popular white girls that have media careers I mean black trans women I mean broke trans women I mean trans women who dont pass and trans women with debilitating mental illness I mean all of us

[two-wizards-in-a-trench-coat]

i think a lot of poeple think of racism and sexism as something you have to actively opt in to perpetuate rather than something you have to continuously actively opt out of if you want to maybe help dismantle it

[analog-delight]

Do you eat chili with spaghetti

Yes

No what the actual fuck

Voting ended onDec 14, 2025

[tachyon-log]

If you're a trans woman, you're going to be called a sex pest no matter what you do. In for a penny or whatever. Protecting kink means protecting your community.

[bunnygirlpaws]

people on twitter are trying to cancel sadie liath (the trans woman who went viral not too long ago for wearing blue body paint) because she tweeted "done with trans men forever sorry." the post literally feels like the sort of thing you'd post after a really shitty date or a breakup and isn't targeted at anyone.

i don't know her at all but i really hope this doesn't hurt her too badly, and i haven't seen anyone here talk about it.

[bunnygirlpaws]

turns out i was right and she did just get out of an 8 year long abusive relationship with a trans man. not sure why people decided to add getting her run off of twitter to the pain of that, but congrats. you made it worse.

[ancomestrogen]

Black trans women are not just a statistic btw. They’re real people with real lives and families btw.

Black trans women aren’t monolithic; there are black trans women who are super badass and high femme but there are also black trans women who are butch, who are punk, who are a nerdy girl who hasn’t gone outside in weeks just like how white trans women are.

Ever wonder why trans memes only ever feature white girls? And rarely feature black girls? I certainly know a few black trans women who would love memes for them. It doesn’t need to be about the black experience to be for black trans women. You can have your little puppygirl memes with a black girl, they don’t need to be consigned to memes about natural hair or locs or racism or rap music.

Black people exist beyond the confines of anti-racist talking points. Black trans women exist beyond the confines of transfeminist talking points. If you don’t personally know any black trans women, analyze why that might be; are you making your presence a safe and comfortable place to rest for black trans women that you KNOW face tons of hardship? Or do you not care about actually giving them a safe harbor in your company and instead only care to use them as a cudgel in arguments.

Anyways sorry for my rant I wake up in the morning and think about trans people and sometimes I get worked up thinking about this stuff and so I yap into my little computer box about it before I go to work so I can get it out of my system

[stankyleg-deactivated2918973]

I hope black girls with depression have a good day today.

[mtf-the-gathering]

"gender is a social construct": fairly easy for leftists to understand

"race is a social construct": a bit harder to swallow for some but still reasonable

"mental illness is a social construct": this one gets you hate mail in your inbox

[mtf-the-gathering]

the effects and symptoms of mental illness do in fact have material consequences but "disorders" as clinical categories are not real in any metaphysical sense; they are terms created for the purpose of describing lived experiences. you can't see or hold onto a person's depression any more than you can hold their gender in your hands. western psychology may have legal definitions of and ramifications for being diagnosed with illnesses but they do not physically exist outside of that context. any opposition to behaviors like self-diagnosis is therefore invalid when viewed in this structural context

[the-peoples-puppy]

Somehow the "is dude gendered" discourse seems to have battered a few women I respect into submission with its neverending entitlement and weaseling, so allow me to restate the transfeminist position, assertion, and point of contention: it does not matter if you actually, genuinely for real use dude, or any other masculine term, gender neutrally. It feels gender neutral because society is built upon a bedrock of misogyny where men are seen as the default human. The fact that it's a linguistic quirk with centuries of inertia doesn't absolve it from criticism.

Being a woman is seen as a deviation from being a man. Cisgender women are punished for this, but given a nominal sympathy by virtue of the sexgender binary determining that it isn't their fault and they can't help it. Transgender women are not only not granted this reprieve, we are in fact punished to an exceptional degree not just for daring to transgress the sexgender binary, but for doing so in the wrong direction. We are the women of women, and get treated as such.

We are putting forth no less than a challenge to the very bedrock of human society for millennia. You don't get to worm your way out of it by appealing to that bedrock. Rework your linguistic assumptions for us or get the fuck out of our lives.

[wifeswarmacademy]

An important thing to understanding Revolutionary Girl Utena is that Utena is not transmasc. Saionji is a trans man though.

[wifeswarmacademy]

Transmasc utena only makes sense if you believe that either being transmasc is somehow escaping patriarchy rather than becoming a man, or if you think liking sports and some masculine titles mean they want to be a man.

Utena does not aspire to the position of man ever, she reacts with disgust when offered such positions, consistently. She does not want the power of manhood, and she gives up being a prince, and this is a good thing for her.

Saionji on the other hand craves the powers of patriarchy and feels denied it. He lashes out constantly because he sees people wield patriarchy more effectively than him, and is still treated as something as an outsider. He still wields power over women, like all men do, but it is constantly pointed out how bad he is at using it.

Utena being compared to men is a sensitive spot for me, because i know that as a trans woman, gender binary is violently enforced upon me. When i enjoy many things seen as masculine, it is treater as lessening my claim to womanhood. Utena reacts to people treating her as a man like i do. I dont think transfem utena works too well as a headcanon, but it at least understands how patriarchy works better than transmasc utena headcanons

[jesncin]

Don't Call Me Superboy, a fan webcomic that re-imagines the origin story of Kon El Superboy.

I wanted to group all the pages I have so far again! This project has come a long way from when I started it, and it's still got a ways to go. Thanks for your patience as I casually work on this between my demanding jobs. I hope you're as excited to go on this journey with Kon as I am!

It shouldn't have to be said, but disclaimer: this is a re-imagining of Kon's origin. Not a direct or faithful adaptation of the source material. It is not a retelling either. It pulls influence from much of Kon's classic and modern lore but isn't beholden to canon's narrative. It is a completely new story.

[telltelltellino]

All Is Dust

Rise of the Eldrazi (Original) / SLD Showcase: Strixhaven (Reprint) Original artist: Dominik Mayer More details under the cut

I'm still pretty new to pixel art, but I thought a fun project of a manageable size would be producing a pixel edition of a Magic: the Gathering card. While I don't play MtG anymore, I still have a lot of fondness for much of the game, and particularly Dominik Mayer, who has been my favourite MtG artist (and indeed one of my favourite artists period) since his very first round of art on Zendikar Rising. I've somewhat-optimistically numbered this as card 001 - I don't know if I'll do any more of these, but it was very fun, so it's possible!

Dimensions: 189 x 263px Colours: 18 (13 for art, 5 for frame) - 6 golds, 8 purples, 4 greyscales Created in Aseprite If you're so inclined, please feel free to print and use as a proxy or for other personal, non-commercial use.

[mechanoelle]

A question came up today in my playgroup today;

Which would you rather play?

Dry Modern (All blue cards are banned)

Wet Modern (All cards must be at least a little blue)

Voting ended onDec 6, 2025

[velvetvexations]

Québec is proposing a new law that would require schools to serve "non-religious" meals, meaning that they can't just have food that's kosher and/or halal. Like, they're basically demanding you serve pork just because Jews and Muslims avoid it. I can't put into words how off the wall racist that is.

[ophyliakilledhamlet]

Quebec's new secularism bill targets daycare workers, prayer spaces and religious meals | CBC News

The Quebec government wants to place limits on praying in public and extend a ban on wearing religious symbols to daycare workers as part of