Is tumblr the least worst?
Hello again, tumblr. I logged back in after a pretty long hiatus (almost a year), which was unnecessarily extended by the fact that I had forgotten my login info and didn’t want to deal with the rigmarole of retrieving it for the 157th website in my life (I forget passwords a lot). So I just kind of stayed logged out and didn’t really miss it until tonight when I was missing a place where phrases like “trigger warning” and “social justice” are not treated like bad words. On a related note, what is up with Facebook lately? It’s like eating itself alive and gas-lighting anyone with an ounce of perspective-taking skills. I’m squarely in the Oregon Trail Generation, so I’ve never really fit in on tumblr-- always a little awkward, not using the lexicon quite right, plus I find it extremely difficult to really connect with others-- but I can fake being in on it all well enough. It’s a free internet after all, so it’s not like I’m gonna get kicked out. Anyway, there is one thing I have learned during my time away that I truly appreciate about you, tumblr, and it’s in the approach. I have noticed that people seem to come to the table accepting the value of diversity and a respect for the emotional space of others. As a reader, I feel more room for my own reactions and background here than on any other social media platform, and I like to think that people with different reactions and backgrounds from my own can feel the same degree of personal latitude. Everywhere else, I end up feeling brow-beaten, shouted over, and quite frankly, exhausted. Of course, I say this after being gone for about a year, so it’s possible everything has changed and this platform is as simplifying & polarizing as anywhere else now. But I hope not. What do you think, dear reader? You made it to the end of this relatively long text post, so now I want to know your thoughts. Does this platform offer hope for the future of respectful dialogue compared to other arenas of the interwebs, or is this just some kind of grass-is-greener idealization?




















