Beware of becoming a dayooth in this day and age where the world is becoming more and more feminised.
Be a man with the the full meaning of the word Man and be so unapologetically without molding yourself into what society today thinks a man should be like.
How can anyone respect a dayooth that has lost all grip of his women letting his womenfolk run around in tabaruuj intermingling and mixing with the opposite gender both offline and online?
How can anyone respect a man whom he himself has so little self-respect and is always seen around non mahram women, mixing with them, laughing, joking and talking both offline and online..
A man should not be a joker and a clown (except when he is having fun with his family, wife and children responsibily). A man should have some weight and be ثقيل (heavy).