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[memoriesndew]

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temi! ☂︎✰

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about me

hi, i'm temi. I started blogging because I like sharing and I am positively a yapper. if my yapping and the very desperate urge to improve myself might help others, I might as well write. I also blog to practice my writing and improve so feedback is greatly appreciated.

♡ I love organization, reading (mainly adrinette fanfics), and a slice of life

♡ I go by memoriesndew on most socials ♡ I create notion templates and sell them I also have some free templates though ♡ I'm all about self-help, I'm a child of God - yh

you can send in requests for posts, whenever

♡ my tags ; memoriesndew, dewasks, dewy dumps, dewsnotion, memoriesndewblog

♡ you can expect to see a lot of daily dumps, motivational content, and self-improvement content on my blog

♡ I'm really into media

♡ created this blog to connect with others, keep me motivated and share my experiences

♡ I'm into wonyougism, clean girl, dream girl and vanilla girl aesthetic. also, I love pink

[memoriesndew]

The great lock-in

It's been a few days, and I've been able to complete one goal while making other goals harder to reach. I completed 1 paper, out of what I can confirm now is 6 papers, because it's actually 3 actual papers and 3 reflections.

I completed 1 paper earlier today by 4am, and I'm about to start the next one.

my goals during this lock in are to:

fix my sleep schedule

complete 3 reflections (0/3)

complete my 3 final papers (1/3)

film all that needs to be filmed for my final project

edit the main parts of my final project

practice french speaking

start studying for finals

complete important thing

study often

find a daily routine

romanticize my life

focus on my relationship with myself and God

The due date for these is on the 12th of december

🍒: let all things work for my good in Jesus' name Amen

[memoriesndew]

The great lock-in

The semester is about to end, and I feel really behind. reading week just passed by, and I kind of achieved nothing. So here I am again to track my progress and lock in. I've been feeling less productive, unmotivated, and overwhelmed. So this will be a medium to organize my thoughts and progress and get back into routine.

my goals during this lock in are to:

fix my sleep schedule

complete my 3 final papers

film all that needs to be filmed for my final project

edit the main parts of my final project

practice french speaking

start studying for finals

complete important thing

study often

find a daily routine

romanticize my life

focus on my relationship with myself and God

The due date for these is on the 12th of december

🍒: let all things work for my good in Jesus' name Amen

[memoriesndew]

dew's uni girl diaries 💌

🎧 now playing: pool (stripped) by samia

🎀 currently: an ode to the time at home from an international student (who is nigerian)

So I made my bed and slept in the corner where my duvet is laid because home felt like cleaning up and getting tired, lying in the corner, because I still wanted my bed to be made I worked on my laptop for hours on end because home felt like working on my computer in the library while listening to my sister pray I'd try so desperately to get back to my all-or-nothing mindset because home felt like my hyperfixation on losing weight I'd walk for an hour on the treadmill because home felt like walking around the house for an hour every morning I'd constantly avoid my friends and purposely be alone, because home felt like being left in the house while everyone else had something to do So I'd go to bed late because home felt like waking up at 6am for morning prayer, even though I went to bed at 4am I'd try to eat minimally because home felt like eating alone in a small bowl, because I finally cooked for myself I'd do pilates in my room because home felt like my mom yelling at me to not injure myself when I did it at home I'd dress up for church because home felt like dressing up only on Sundays So I'd join a church & fellowship department because home felt like being part of a community led by Christ I'd call up a group of my friends from church because home felt like being in a room with childhood friends So I'd do anything to feel at home

💌 dew

[memoriesndew]

what would you like to see in a wonyougism notion template?

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falling in love with being alone.. - a little update

summer is almost over, and a good number of my friends are either moving out of residence or moving completely, and two of my favourite people will not be as accessible to me as they normally are. that evidently makes me sad, but I think it'll be good for me. given that the people I spend most of my time with are moving out. It'll give me more time to spend by myself, which would assist this challenge greatly

In the little time I've spent by myself, I've learned that I always feel like I'm copying someone. especially as I get more into graphic design and building more Notion systems to help people stay more productive. Whether I'm actually using their work as inspo or I'm copying them, I can never tell, so I'm taking a bit of time off Instagram and TikTok, and I'm going to focus on my style and what kind of art I would like to create. This, in turn, will give me more time to spend alone and think about myself.

a few things I should update on

I woke up at 6am once. spent an hour in the gym, listening to a podcast while on the treadmill. It was a wonderful experience (I want to keep waking up early from now on).

I had to be somewhere on time, so I spent most of my day by myself. And it was wonderful. I don't think when I was out I wished to be with my friends; it's only when something weird happened I was like, hmm, now I have stories to tell lol...

but it's safe to say I'm getting more comfortable with being alone

🍒: toodles, my loves

[memoriesndew]

falling in love with being alone..

another get my life together challenge, except I'll update weekly instead of daily because I never keep up with daily updates.

Lately, I've experienced some sort of downfall in my life, and since I am the one thing in life I can control, I have decided to make some changes.

this is another get my life together challenge, except I update it weekly or anything I think deserves an update. I will also mainly focus on my mental health because mindset is the most important thing.

The challenge is called falling in love with being alone because I have realized that I attach my happiness to the time I spend with specific people and things, and being away from home has truly altered the routine and lifestyle I built before leaving. to really settle in. I am doing this challenge

my first course of action is to change the vibe of my notion. currently, my notion page feels too cluttered, so I am going to make some changes.

my main goals for this challenge

fall in love with being alone

have a set time that I spend with God daily

align myself with my lifestyle goals

have a set daily routine/habits

get better mentally/have a better mindset

focus on my vision board goals

tag: dews filwba challenge

[memoriesndew]

a little journal entry for the day ⭐

today is the first day I truly felt the quote "I can't believe childhood is over" - jo march

today, I took on humanity's biggest fear, "A JOB," a job search, actually, and this is the first time ever that I have truly experienced the absolute slap in the face that is adulting.

It's not like I haven't gone on a job search at all, but other times I always went with a good amount of close friends (bad idea, I know), so it always felt kind of playful, but today I was spoken to by an adult about these things, and I was told to network. I also went out with the most serious friend I have when it comes to this job thing, and gosh, did the reality hit that I'm 16 anymore, I can't try to take my time up with hobbies, and I need to find what I want to do

But that's really hard because even though I know. i love multimedia and communications; I don't think I have one thing that I want to do truly. 😫

When I've been sitting in my room overthinking my relationships with others, yearning for people to perceive me a certain way, those people are probably moving on with their lives. whereas I'm moaning about a 5 mins conversation.

excuse my language.

[memoriesndew]

hii, my dew drops

I know I haven't been active for a while, and I'm not going to promise anything, but I just hope to write more. no matter what, it is just writing for now

[memoriesndew]

let's reset

I've been feeling less like myself lately, unmotivated, overeating, and just lazy. so I'm taking it upon myself to reset, just to get back into routine.

my goals during this reset are to:

fix my sleep schedule

conquer the 75 hard habits

re-focus myself on my goals

study often

find a daily routine

romanticize my life

I'll be using @bloomzone's posts to do this, and I'll try to update every day.

🍒: really short post hnmm.

[memoriesndew]

let's reset || day 8

because I have not been keeping up with this, and my sleep schedule has been off. Anyway, today I woke up by 12pm because I slept by 5am i spelt by 5am because I slept the majority of the day, and i slept the majority of the day because I didn't sleep at all the night before... can you see how the cycle has been? Yeah. So my plan for today is to tire myself as much as possible and do things that will be so relaxing that I will want to sleep. put off screens an hour before bed. etc..

On my conquer of 75 hard habits, I'm doing better in the physical aspect of it, but not in the mental part or the drinking water goal. So I found a new book to read that I like, so I can finally read 10 pages every day. I'm going to try as much as possible to complete all 75 hard habits today.

That's how far I've gone. I am trying to refocus myself on my goals, but yeah. still trying.

[memoriesndew]

clean girl vibe

Just took a shower and washed my hair. Suddenly, I feel like I can conquer the world

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this is for the girlies that love to review

A while back, I made a Notion template that I shared online so I could review stuff like films, dramas, and books. With people, and I don't know why, it never occurred to me to share it here.

So if you love reading and watching, and you just want to share your opinions with others, this is available for you.

link

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let's reset || day ?

unfortunately, I went offline for a while, partly because of irl commitments and laziness. but I am back now. anyway, I have been keeping up with my sleep schedule. For instance, I slept by 11:06 p.m. last night, but I have been up since 3 a.m. It is currently 5 a.m. Though I have been sleeping earlier, I also wake up much earlier than I need to. I think my body is used to me sleeping for a short amount of time, and it has now become my default.

any tips on how to change this?

why do I wake up in the middle of the night? to use the bathroom; mainly after that, I just can't get back to sleep.

[memoriesndew]

75 hard tracker - not my normal colour scheme, but i love it

been in and out of the 75 hard challenge, so I decided to create a template based on inspo I found on Pinterest

links to template gumroad and kofi

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I'm planning to create a new Notion template; I'm not sure what it's going to be. I just wanted to get people's opinions on what preferred for this

Vote on my Kofi poll

which template would you like next? - Click to view on Ko-fi

temi 𓆩♡𓆪 added a poll on Ko-fi

Suggest in the comments if what you want isn't there

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Trying to journal more. Any tips?

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let's reset || day 6

I was able to sleep at 12:40 am yesterday. Which is the earliest I've slept since starting this challenge? This is only because the previous day (even though I closed for the day early), I slept about 3 hours and made sure to not sleep during the day. For the first time, I got into bed tired. I'm so happy

It felt so good waking up at 6am this morning. I spent an hour in bed, then got up by 7am, made my bed, and did a 45-minute workout. It was so refreshing. Since I hit the 12 am mark, my goal for tonight is to sleep by 11 pm, which is the bedtime I want to follow consistently (is this a good bedtime?). I want to wake up at 7am daily.

Concerning the 75 Hard goal tasks, I was able to drink 4000ml of water and do a 45-minute indoor workout. I'll try to do these consistently, and I'll slowly start adding the other rules until they become a habit.

In my studying goal, my goal is to study for at least 2 hours every day, whether it's learning a language, journalism work, or another skill, for at least 2 hours a day. Yesterday I was able to study Korean for 22 minutes. Today, I will try to study for 30 minutes

💌: apologies for not updating over the past two days - will start updating in the mornings now