[miaxnguyen]

hear me out.

I feel like not everything has to be long term. I think there’s a negative connotation that comes with short term friendships and short term relationships, but I don’t think everything is meant to last a lifetime. I think some people come into your life for moments; to teach you some things, to create memories, to shape pieces of who you are and then leave. We try so hard to hold on to things that we feel strongly about for as long as possible, but sometimes i feel like we should just be taking that moment and living in it for as long as we are meant to and then let it go when it’s time. Because people change, feelings change and sometimes you outgrow those who surround you and it was great while it lasted but your time with them is over. And that’s not saying to stop trying for your relationships with people, it’s just that not everything is meant to last forever so don’t hold onto things that are past it’s expiration date.

[miaxnguyen]

hi

[miaxnguyen]

I want so much more for myself. I want so much better.

[llleighsmith]

love is literally the whole point

[miaxnguyen]

Maybe in another life

[miaxnguyen]

When people show you who they are, believe them. I spent months trying to get you to be the man that I needed you to be, when you were never capable of being that man. I played myself by over romanticizing you and our relationship.

[miaxnguyen]

I don’t think love should be this hard. I don’t think that love is screaming and fighting everyday and begging for effort and reassurance. I think love is subtle and it comes naturally. But I also think that love is a choice. You wake up everyday and you choose whole heartedly to love and to do those things, without being told or having to ask. Don’t get me wrong, if love was easy it wouldn’t mean this much. But it shouldn’t be this hard. It shouldn’t be this exhausting.

[arabhoneey]

I hope you find someone who hates hurting your heart

[miaxnguyen]

Man I can’t do this again.

[l5005l-deactivated20221027]

I'm like "i don't care" and then i can't sleep because of it

[miaxnguyen]

It’s not my job to groom you and build you up and teach you how to love. I can only help you so much. You have to want to. #nts

[jupitersmusings]

good things will happen 🧿

things that are meant to be will fall into place 🧿

[overlord-fire-bubble]

THIS ONE FUCKING WORKS. REBLOG IT.

[tiny-kt]

this for real fucking works

[celebrityworshipsyndromee]

🧿🧿🧿

[miaxnguyen]

I don’t do needy. As an independent woman, my fight or flight triggers when someone makes me feel like I’m being needy or I am being needier than they are. I can go forever without you, so if I let my guard down enough to make you feel like I actually want to be with you, cherish that. Cause you can say one thing to trigger my flight or flight and I’m gone.

[miaxnguyen]

My growth is absolutely amazing. I am in shock everyday about how far I’ve come the past couple of years. I was at a point where I lost everything and I didn’t know if I was gonna survive. I lost my entire childhood group of friends, my job, my house, I almost dropped out of school. I lost my relationship with my parents, my bestfriend, the love of my life, everything. I lost everything. Now I cry because I’m so happy. I picked myself up from the fucking dirt over and over again. I deserve everything that I have and every opportunity that’s been given to me. And nobody on this fucking earth can make me feel bad about it.

[miaxnguyen]

How do I let myself love without letting myself self sabotage because I’m scared of getting hurt

[miaxnguyen]

“Why are you so nice”

“Why do you say that”

“I don’t say that. You say that. And I see it in everything that you do and everything that you are”

[miaxnguyen]

tumblr can get this one first 🤍 not that y’all care LOOL