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darcy/fidelis | they/she/he/neos | bi aroish butch | 23 yrs

[mighwnt]

hello im fidelis/darcy welcome to my blawg

i'm 23 yrs old, i'm a nonbinary genderflux aroflux bisexual furry and i use he/she/they/heart pronouns mainly. in real life, i am a dog trainer who trains service dogs.

preferably 18+ to follow

my lgbt/editing sideblog is @genderselkies

my gimmick blog where i identify dog breeds is @identifying-dogs

here is a list of things u will catch me posting about:

the web series sugar pine 7

dogs/dog training, other animals

warrior cats, the pitt, pokemon, ace attorney

youtubers/streamers (mcyt, qtcinderella, alpharad, northernlion)

honestly i just like a lot of things and post whatever i want so 👍

i like to draw and collage and make art in general but i dont really post about it much. its just for me <3

more stuff under the cut!!

i have chronic physical health issues and have ocd, autism, and social anxiety.

i smoke weed regularly. if this makes you uncomfortable, i try to tag my high posts with #weedposting. my normal textposts are #txt. if i’m liveblogging, i try to tag as “x lb”.

i try to describe/transcribe posts i put on here, but i do not have the spoons for every post i rb. if i miss anything, lmk! i also try to trigger tag, if you need smth tagged, shoot me an ask! i tag by the word itself

mutuals feel free to message me! i'm awkward but i love talking to cool ppl‼️

[ca314159bara]

if you're having trouble sleeping the best you can do is put a bright object close to your face and look at it for at least 30 minutes. if that doesn't work you can close your eyes but make sure to think really hard about a bunch of bullshit

[graveyarrdshift]

women's thighs. you agree. reblog.

[crumb-crumblet-s-crumbington]

im just doing whatever the hell now

[mighwnt]

crash 2004 was such an odd fucking movie. they had us watch that in soc 101 in community college.

[mighwnt]

i don’t trust any movie that addresses racism that stars sandra bullock

[mighwnt]

crash 2004 was such an odd fucking movie. they had us watch that in soc 101 in community college.

[maxleggy]

i love that maned wolf pups also do the canine thing where they feet too big for their got damn they, but because they also have the long ass legs they end up looking way more normally proportioned than the adults. like this:

like those are regular wolf proportions

[mouseleygraham]

I KNOW when characters are bisexual. even when it’s not explicitly said

[theohagihouse]

[kaiserin-erzsebet]

I once again made the mistake of going on Instagram.

This is apparently an example of historians erasing queer people:

Look at a certain point this is just lack of reading comprehension. This sentence invites you to make that conclusion ON PURPOSE. Why else would they be noting this evidence in this way? We can't act like mildly vague academic language is meant to be erasure.

[kaiserin-erzsebet]

I don't know who needs to hear this, but intentionally describing things as "homoerotic" or "like a couple" or extensively quoting intimate correspondence is not an elaborate ploy to deny gay implications.

It is more often turning to the camera and going "you see this? Sure looks like they're a couple, doesn't it? (Wink wink nudge nudge) I can't conclusively say that, but you see this too, right?"

[dailymanners]

I feel as though what drives most rude / inconsiderate behavior I experience IRL on a day to day basis comes from a place of having this unearned and unnecessary sense of urgency in situations that aren't actually urgent. I think if more people became aware of this completely unnecessary sense of urgency in situations that actually aren't urgent, it might make co-existing and sharing public spaces with other people a lot easier and more tolerable.

That text post that's been making the rounds that goes something like "Omg you made it to the same red light as everyone else but faster and more dangerously and recklessly, should we call nascar? Do you want a medal?" summarizes exactly what I'm trying to talk about.

It's like when I have to change buses at one of the bigger and busier bus stops, and the people who get off the same bus as me shove and elbow past me to get off before me, and then shove and elbow past anyone even slightly in their way on the way to the bus they're switching to, only to end up on the same bus as all the people they shoved and elbowed, with several minutes to spare before it leaves and plenty of open seats left.

I think this unnecessary urgency a lot of people feel in their day to day lives drives a lot of bad behavior. I'm not saying I'm innocent of this (is anyone's?), I've felt it too in plenty of situations that didn't call for it, and regrettably was less kind than I should have been as a result. But I try to be aware of it, and always try to ask myself it it's really as urgent as my lizard brain is trying to tell me it is, and even if it was urgent, does that still justify unkind behavior?

Is shoving or elbowing another person aside going to make the difference between whether or not you make it to the bus before it pulls away? (hint: at least where I live, most of the time that's a no because the drivers usually won't leave if they see people from another bus heading towards their bus). Is shoving and elbowing people aside in a crowded grocery store going to make any real difference in how quickly you get your shopping done?

Does a few extra seconds of time actually justify cruel and unkind behavior towards people you perceive as slightly inconveniencing you?

[dailymanners]

A few more examples of this phenomenon:

- Waiting in line at the store and the person behind you creeps closer and closer to try to pressure you forward, and ends up violating your personal space and making you uncomfortable, because they think creeping closer and pressuring the person in line in front of them will somehow get them through the line faster (it won't)

- Going through a self-serve buffet, and the person behind you keeps creeping closer and closer to try to pressure you to serve your food faster and get a move on. All it achieves is that you can't scoop your soup without elbowing them, and that's somehow your fault

- Crossing a crosswalk when the car waiting for you to cross creeps closer and closer to you to try to intimidate you into crossing faster (because using a 2 ton metal machine to try to intimidate a fleshy little ape you could easily kill with said 2 ton metal machine isn't acting like a bully at all no sir-ee)

- Honestly a huge heap of the poor treatment of service workers is also rooted in this sense of urgency in things that are not actually urgent

Please do feel free to add more examples if you can think of more examples

[pixierainbows]

This in every every *every* conversation Pixie have with people not in family . everybody in too much hurry to give any time or patience to Pixie using AAC device to communicate . Literally almost every person try to push Pixie to communicate faster and all that does is make Pixie silent and voiceless . So much hurrying for no good reason .

[literary-sparks]

“Why don’t you use ai” idk man beyond the obvious environmental and “this machine causes psychosis and encourages people to kill themselves” thing I think asking the equivalent of a solid D student who is also a pathological liar if they can answer my question/do the work for me seems pretty fucking stupid

[arowitharrows]

Shout-out to aromantic people whose lives are so fucking busy that they periodically forget what day of the week it is. today is Wednesday, June 5th. Happy Aromantic Visibility Day.

[arowitharrows]

Today is Thursday, June 5th. Happy Aromantic Visibility Day.

[arowitharrows]

It's June 5th again!

[valarhalla]

My favorite ultra-specific character type is "this fucked up little man clearly just needs a consensual BDSM relationship and some therapy and he'd be fine, but that is very much not what happens in this story."

[reactionimagesdaily]

[greelin]

no no i didn’t say he sucks BECAUSE he’s bisexual. i just said he sucks AND also happens to be bisexual

[tuherrus]

you don't even have a dog