What Iāve learned in 2016
1. Friendship is a matter of convenience.
It can be true and beautiful and fun and full of love until she moves to another city for college and finds 10 more people she can āconnectā with.
2. You donāt have to pursue a boring degree for a boring job. Yes, your passion is for things that make it harder to fetch money but you have one life. Do you really want to spend it doing something you donāt absolutely love?
If youāre passionate about something, no matter what, you will excel, you will thrive. Thatās the key to real success. Not some statistics stating the most lucrative jobs and industries.
3. You will exercise. You will drink more water. You will eat healthier. Not because youāre not beautiful the way you are but because your body deserves to be treated better. It literally has carries you around, has your back and actually has your heart from that first moment to your very last.
4. If they are a bitch to others what makes you think they wonāt be one to you when the time comes? How people treat others is always a tell tale of how they will treat you. Pay attention. Itās better than feeling like a fool 6 years later.
5. Cook your own meals sometimes.
You know just the amount of oil, salt and ingredients you want. You may not be a masterchef but you know what your stomach wants.
6. Surround yourself with happiness, inspiration and positivity and a very major part of that is social media. Who you follow is so important. Social media is supposed to be a happy and safe place for you. Choose the right people and the right works to fill your feeds because eventually those fill your mind and heart.
7. Nature is all healing.
Itās the one thing in the beautiful presence of which even the most talkative person like you feels the need to shut up. Nature requires no words. Itās completeness is something to learn from.
8. Your parents live a life apart from being your parents. They have moments youāre not a part of, moments you donāt even know. They have not only had a life before you but also a life with you being there that you donāt know about. Thatās okay and thatās not something to be mad about.
9. People will leave you. Always.
Some in days, some in months. There are those who take decades and then there are those who never leave in physical form but withdraw all meaning and thatās when you must leave.
But just because people leave their stay doesnāt become any less wonderful or important.
10. Sometimes the only person you need at 3 am is yourself. Give yourself mode credit. You can always help yourself. It may just take a little longer and be a little harder but you donāt need another person to help you. You are enough. You are strong. You will never disappoint.
11. Music of all type is necessary. Songs that make you cry and the ones that make you think and then those that make you only want to dance.
12. Draw.
Everyone is an artist. And your drawings may look like those of a middle school kid but isnāt your joy just like hers?
13. Read more books. Yes, youāre older now and busier too but ābusy ā is an excuse and you know it.
Find time for something that saved you. Find time for something that you love.
14. Lipstick is life.
People may stare at you and they may get intimidated by certain shades but thatās okay, one smile and they will be at peace.
15. Click more selfies and click them without any shame.
If youāre happy, if you look at yourself and feel like capturing that one moment where you feel good about yourself - go fucking ahead.
Capture all your happiness, beauty and goofy-ness.
But remember, they are for you and not your social media.
16. Thereās literally no way you can help someone without helping yourself.
And they may give you nothing in return and they may be ungrateful but who cares?
They arenāt half the person you are and you can shrug it off and move on but remember unlike you, Karma never forgets.
Also, karma is only a bitch if you are.
The darkest moment is the very moment before sunrise. Itās a fact.
So 2016 may have been your darkest time but that only means the sunlight of happiness and inspiration and love awaits you in 2017.
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