Scorpio Siren

Grad student. Brown sw in FL. Aspiring trophy wife to a one-percenter. Previously tallymiasugar. Please be warned that this blog supports and regularly posts about all forms of heauxing, hypergamy, luxury, black women, divestment, black rights, racism, sexism, and religion.

[milaluxe]

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[milaluxe]

So I did something kind of crazy (I normally would never but I’m so fed up!) I messaged a girl about her boyfriend cheating from a fake a account I made on Instagram....I would have texted her but she blocked me from the last time I told her everything and didn’t want to message her from my own account. Anyway, I was kind of mean about it. I was calling her a pick me, dumb crazy bitch and how even if I sent proof she wouldn’t do anything about it. She in turn called me crazy, said it was a fake account (I know it was clear it was a fake account with little followers and following my point was to just express what needed to be said...) called me obsessed and have no life. Since then, (her boyfriend who stalks my page everyday for months I see on tiktok profile views has stopped, stopped liking my pictures which he always would on my story...) and I’m wondering does he/she know it was me that made the fake account? He also deleted his Instagram, is following a lot of girls on tiktok...and she changed her profile picture that was of both her and him to just a selfie of her...I feel bad I did that but at the same time I already told her everything before, she didn’t do anything about it (I sent her SO many screenshots and talked on the phone with her...and didn’t know about him having a gf before..) so I’m really just mad and think this situation is ridiculous especially when she said he’s cheated on her other times too so why’s she still asking for proof and like I said not doing anything about it.... ?I just find it odd too he was talking to me weekly asking to see me now nothing but he’s following other girls and deletes his Instagram? What do you think?

I mean I wasn’t nice at all...I’m just fed up maybe I should feel bad? But idk what it’ll take for her to understand or feel embarrassed ? This is how the conversation went “Lol ohh girly you know Armany’s been cheating on you? Dumb pick me it’s embarrassing and sad. No backbone 🤭😂 “ and she goes “Proof? No? Alright then. Find something better to do with your life” and I was like “Hahaha cause u need proof😂” and she goes “Yes definitely do You think I’m gonna listen to you? Funny” and I was like “then you’ll do what...😂” and she goes “You really have a waste of a life making a fake account to reach out to a someone you don’t even know. I guess you’re the pathetic one. You’re an obsessed dumb bitch and the sad part is you’re gonna get nothing out of this. So enjoy your worthless life” and I was like “hahaha who’s the crazy bitch? Yeah...you won’t do shit” and she goes “Yeah I won’t do shit because you’re nothing Not gonna waste my time on nothing” and I was like “yeah ok😂”

Why are you harassing someone else then getting upset when they show signs of not liking being harassed? 🫠

[milaluxe]

Hi I’m really going through it so would appreciate your advise/input💕 was basically in a talking stage/situationship for long time long distance. It was so draining for me because he kept continually hurting me but always flipping things on me trying to make it my fault when In reality it was always his fault and doing...he would be very attentive to me, consistent with communication and very nice to me with his words but his behavior told me otherwise...it was like a mind fuck. So now that it’s over, I am depressed and been like this for months. I keep up with self care, eat clean and workout but still feel SO. SAD. I have tried to go on dating apps again and gone on a few dates which went well except for the fact on one of them I was drinking and started crying so hard and talking about the guy to the guy I was on a date with and honestly just feel numb and have cried a lot over it over all these months . I know some girls just go on a hookup spree or just find a rebound but that’s not me and I’ve tired after months and not happy even still with the guy I was going on dates with that treats me well....Do you have any input?

I would definitely not be dating right now. I don't know if this sounds harsh to say, but you have a lot of self-work and self-reflection to do. Even if you get over this tomorrow, and you find another relationship the next day...what's to stop you from accepting that treatment again? Even if every guy after treats you well, what's to stop you from mistrusting them and over-analyzing every aspect of what they do and say because you're not healed from the past? It's one of those things that instead of running away from, you need to dive deeper into and really look at your pain from every angle. What exactly he did, what it made you feel, why it made you feel that way. And when you identify all of that, you need to carefully and closely examine what underlying beliefs or schemas or perceptions you have (about yourself, others, relationships, the world) that had you accepting that behavior in the first place. Then, you have to take time to actively unlearn them and learn boundaries. Learn what you want in a relationship, what behavior you deserve, what you will and won't accept from here on. If you need the help of a therapist or a life coach or a spiritual leader, I would find one. Dating isn't really for you right now, if you ask me.

[milaluxe]

This might be controversial and an unpopular take, but to me, Nara Smith is giving victim who doesn't yet know she's a victim. I'm all for y'all doing as you please and soft life living and sitting in your femininity, but I feel sadness when I look at her videos.

[milaluxe]

I’m talking to a guy for long time now long distance, and I was looking at some of his followers and noticed some girls in particular and see they liked some of his posts and stuff so all I did was click on their profiles which both were private on Instagram ...then weeks later tried to look one of them up to see I’m blocked. It’s weird bc I don’t know her (we don’t even live in the same city or anything) why might this be? I just think it’s strange

Please stop questioning and examining other people’s behavior behavior before you question and examine your own.

[pearwaldorf]

You want some serious old fart advice? Never, ever lend your friends more money than you think you can lose permanently. I don't fucking care if they say they'll pay you back. I don't care how small the amount is. Write that shit off as gone in your mind. It will eat at you forever if you don't.

Some people say the same thing about family, but I think it applies more to friends. Family is (usually) held together by obligations the way friends aren't. And money is a huge stressor in all kinds of relationships, not just romantic.

I'm not saying this to bum you out. I'm telling you because this is not something you want to learn on your own. Because it fucking sucks to realize it's one reason you're no longer friends, whether you were necessarily aware of it or not.

[milaluxe]

I'm very torn on Harry and Meghan right now. That William asked for a ceasefire before they did is...and all their deals with Zionists also…

Like I grew with them, been following their journey and rooting for them for the past almost 8 years. I want them to win and rise above it all and be a success. But I genuinely draw the line at genocide. That they could make a statement for the alleged 1200 Israeli victims and say nothing for the confirmed tens of thousands of Palestinians, but WILLIAM did?

WILLIAM?

I genuinely don't see their reputation or fanbase really fully recovering from this. Even if they made a statement now, it would come off as not genuine and copying William. And even though I still want them to speak, even though I still think everyone who can speak should…we’re four months in. At this point, if you’re saying anything, it’s 99% because you see the tides changing and you want to be on the “right side” of things to protect yourself, not because you’re actually a good person who cares about humanity.

And right now, two people I admired have firmly placed themselves in the former camp instead of the latter.

This hurts.

[milaluxe]

If you don’t mind me asking, how old are you? You seem very wise

Idk about wise since I’m not even 30 yet, but thank you!

[milaluxe]

anon was really asking you for advise on her cheating with him🤔

Some people can’t be saved. They just have to learn on their own (and you hope they learn quickly).

[milaluxe]

The way these people keep playing in Beyoncé’s face.

HOW was Renaissance an R&B album?! In WHAT world?!

[milaluxe]

please stop?

Yes, stop. Everything you're doing, just stop.

[milaluxe]

we’ve been messaging back and forth only on the tiktok app he’s been asking and saying he wants to see me but I’ve been hesitant on coming because he has a girlfriend and don’t know if I should...it’s just a complicated situation. Basically he and I were talking for a while then she the girlfriend contacted me wondering who I was saying she saw my phone number on his phone and wondering who I was...I had no clue about her. I told her everything. But she blocked me I tried reaching out to tell her again...I don’t know what more I can do when I already told her everything, sent her over 30 screenshots that described it all. She lied to me about her name so idk if I can trust her either or what to do.

Please stop.

[milaluxe]

My ex messaged me today (the day after Valentine’s Day) saying “Happy valentines 👍🏽” and I was like “thanks” and he goes “👍🏽” I didn’t really know how to respond...he messages me pretty often and stalks my page everyday multiple times a day (on tiktok I see through profile views) but I don’t get why he would message me that or how he expected me to respond?

He messaged you that because he wanted to see if he could get you to respond. He doesn't care how you respond so long as you do.

Men like that often just want to see if they still have access to you after the fact. If you continue to give him access, one of these days when his newest thing doesn't work out and he feels lonely or bored, he's going to try to worm his way back into your life because you've shown him that he still has a chance.

Idk what happened between you two in the past, but if you don't want him back, you need to block him on everything. If you do want him back, you both should stop playing these back and forth games and just be upfront with each other about it.

[milaluxe]

in your opinion, why do you think it takes some people (me) so long to let go of hurt someone caused in your life....I’m trying to understand why I do that and would rather hold on to hurt/bad feelings, hatred I know it sounds bad towards someone then let go of it? I was talking to a guy over a year he caused me a lot of hurt but would always justify it (flip it on me and make it my fault when it clearly wasn’t)...our relationship ended but it’s taken me so long to even let go of hurt like I said and cry about it multiple times everyday...

Lack of experience and way too much internalizing.

The two really go hand in hand. People like this (you) need to date more. The more you date and put yourself out there, the less you’ll internalize every “failed” relationship as your fault or attribute every negative feeling as evidence that you’re no good/that last person was right about you. Exposure to lots of people lets you realize that everyone has good and bad and that sometimes you just don’t fit. And honestly, the more you date, the less likely you’ll a) hang all of your hopes on one person who just doesn’t fit and b) put up with people who hurt you.

Even if you don’t feel too up to it, try to start opening yourself up to dating again! Not to get into a relationship, just casual fun dates with people you vibe with. If you’re also feeling up to it, build a roster lol.

[milaluxe]

I need some content creators to be so for real right now and learn when to shut the fuck up.

I didn’t think Shera Seven was an activist. No one expected her to be marching in the streets or boycotting anything. But at the very least, don’t say you don’t care. Because what you think you’re saying is “I don’t care about the war in Palestine because there are wars everywhere” but what you’re really saying is “I don’t care that the company I’m optionally supporting is using the money I give them to help tens of thousands of people be bombed and murdered and the other two million be starved, so long as I can have my little drinky drink.”

You can come back from one. You will eventually be recognized as a genocide supporter (and maybe social pariah) with the other.

[milaluxe]

I told the gf everything of her cheating bf she still stays, do I tell her again he’s stalking my page and talking to me, trying to see me? She said it’s happened other times (him cheating on her) so idk what to do when I told her everything with screenshots the first time.

Mentally prepare yourself to lose her. If she’s already decided that him cheating on her is not a dealbreaker for her, chances are she’ll just get mad at you for bringing it up. If it’s something that’s weighing on your conscience, let her know, make sure your evidence includes you rejecting that man in no uncertain terms, then tell her in no uncertain terms that it makes you uncomfortable to be put in that situation especially knowing that she’ll just take him back or ignore it. I wouldn’t be friends with someone like that afterwards, but we all make our own decisions in life. Also, block and report him.

[milaluxe]

“I tell the truth when I get nervous.”

Real Sag shit 😂