MileHighBrat

This is a pro-poly blog! I support love all of all kinds, and aim to spread acceptance & knowledge regarding alternative relationships! + Always down to talk/answer questions about Ethical Non-monogamy, lgbtq issues, and BDSM! I'll try my best to give advice too! ;)

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[milehiighbrat]

Love is love. Family is anything you decide.💓

[milehiighbrat]

You mean J as in Sergeant J

Sgt_J on fetlife aka @polyxdom is a friend of mine, but he isn’t my lover or play partner (yet!) hahhaa. The J I reference in my posts is simply the first initial of my soon to be ex-husband’s name, whom I started this blog with years ago when I was stillIn a polyfidelitous triad with he and our ex-girlfriend (still close friend) “ K.” Currently, I run the blog all by myself though! 😇

[my-poly-life-ramblings]

Poly Problem #783

[milehiighbrat]

Hahaha

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Hiiiii guys 💁🏼 How's my lil tumblr polyamorous community doing?

[cassmarieex]

addicted to things that hurt me like girls and tattoos

[milehiighbrat]

trueeee

[milehiighbrat]

2016 UPDATE.

Hey guys! There are a few BIG CHANGES happening over here and I wanted to fill you all in. :)

As many of you may know, this polyamorous blog was started by myself, “A” and my love “J,” in order to document our adventures in non-monogamy, and through this blog we met a woman, “K,” whom we dated for awhile in a serious triad relationship. We also dated one other woman (whom has never used tumblr at all and didn’t want to be written about either) on and off four the past four years. However, it became clear that a serious life with J and I as triad is not something she is ready for or capable of having right now. It hurts, but c’est la vie! 

Now that I’ve given a concise version of our background story for you newbies, I’ll just go ahead and say it...From now this blog will only be run by myself, A. (I’m the cute ginger girl! haha) As mentioned before, J and I wen’t to counseling with Dr. Neil Cannon the polyamory/BDSM Psychologist for counseling to work on the complex issues we have encountered along the way during our almost six year marriage, and 4+ years involved in ethical-nonmonogamy and D/s dynamics. Unfortunately, despite counseling, great effort and compromise on both of our parts; J and I have chosen to separate and I have no moved two hours away from the home we once shared...

I don’t know what the future holds for J and I as a couple (or if he will be in my life at all.) This is a very painful and difficult time for us both and I ask for your understanding and respect during this time. If you ask why we are choosing to cut ties or make hurtful remarks regarding any of this, I will ignore/delete/block you. No exceptions. Thank you in advance for any support, and all understanding.

-A

PS. You may be wondering if the content of the blog will change, and the answer is: NO! ABSOLUTELY NOT. I will write and blog exclusively about ethical non monogamy (which i am now dating multiple men and women ethically at the same time!) Also, I will start using hashtags for #NSFW content that I post for you guys to filter out if needed. 

[milehiighbrat]

We braved the snow storm outside today to go get supplies for some of our projects! What did you guys do this weekend? Hopefully it wasn't a blizzard out wherever you are! 😁🙄

[polyhorror]

Poly horror: When your partner teases you about your crush and you feel 15 again. “He’s not my boyfriend!”

(credit: mod K)

[milehiighbrat]

Heheheheh😇

[polyamorous-tangles]

“Things are shifting dramatically in our society. We are learning a new form of relationship – not based on sex, or swinging or adventure – but based on integrity, a new concept for many of us. Being out in the open about our real feelings many be a new and creative style of relating. This type of relating is not founded in following our lust or our impulses, but is the basis of forming a new style of relationship that is honest – honest with ourselves about what we really want and desire and honest with our partners about what we need. There is an inherent maturity in standing up for what we believe is our truth – even if it is the need to love more than one person at a time.”

[ljwhitcomb]

Just to be clear

You can be polyamorous and still cheat. You can be polyamorous and still cheat. You can be polyamorous and still cheat. You can be polyamorous and still cheat. Y O U   C A N   B E   P O L Y A M O R O U S   A N D   S T I L L   C H E A T

YOU CAN BE IN A POLYAMOROUS RELATIONSHIP AND STILL BE CHEATING

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[milehiighbrat]

Yes! This is SO past due.

[milehiighbrat]

Hey everyone!!! Still here, still queer! Sorry I (we) haven't posted much as of late...but I have some free time today and wanted to hop on here with a quick update. J and I are extremely busy both with working two jobs and/or college. It's been hectic, but things are beginning to look up for the new year! I'll be graduating soon (April) and he will be making a huge career change which we will be moving to a new city/state for in November! 😅😅 until then we have to hustle and save up a fk ton of money for the big move! As far as relationships go...things are getting better between J and I. If you recall, 2015 was a struggle for us and a huge period of growth, too. We opened up our minds and hearts, and learned how complex the overlapping of polyamory and bdsm can be....we were not able to do counseling like we once planned, but have been able to get through things quite a bit on our own. Speaking of polyamory....We currently aren't dating anyone else outside of our marriage together or separately. Things with the girlfriend that we both dated didn't work out. Some times things break apart. It doesn't have to be anyone's fault. It doesn't have to be ugly. It just isn't meant to be...and that's okay. Polyamorous break ups can be just as tough and painful as monogamous break ups. The only difference for us, is that J and I are not "out" as polyamorous. Nor am I 100% "out" as bisexual so it's not as easy for us to talk it over with someone while hurting. Anyway, this is becoming much longer than anticipated. I feel like it will be easier for us to move forward and date people again once we move. Right now there is not enough time. Plus, this isn't a super poly/lgbt friendly community so we don't have much opportunity! 😅 Anyone reading this, I hope the start to your 2016 has been fabulous so far! Are you guys having much luck in your poly dating lives???💕 -A

[petrihkor]

Polyamory

Reblog if you’re polyamorous/open to polyamory in the future/in a polycule or open to one/interested in polyamory I want to see how many of us there are

And like if you think polyamory is okay, can be healthy, and doesn’t “go against human nature”

[jacquielly]

Our girlfriend has this custom made for my husband and I for Christmas! It’s the three of us with our dog and cat, Susie and Annie. I’m so lucky, it’s perfect! She knew exactly what I wanted because I saw a different picture just like this that reminded me of us and she found the artist and had one done of us!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

artist: @stasiaburrington

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Aww! <3

[mypolyfamily-blog]

Adorable. I love this.

[more-than-one-love]

You’d think that being polyamorous you’d naturally develop some skill at flirting

I’m here to tell you hell nope

[milehiighbrat]

It's true. Poly and unable to adequately flirt 😅

[dwalksauce-deactivated20200209]

Never be ashamed of how much you love, or how quickly you fall. Love fully, love completely, but most importantly, love naturally — and don’t you ever apologize for it. Don’t ever be sorry for loving the way your heart knows how.

dw | language. (via h-o-r-n-g-r-y)

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[milehiighbrat]

Yaassssss!

[octopusraisedbywolves-deactivat]

Calling all Poly people!

I am Poly and I am looking for some more Poly people! 

[milehiighbrat]

We are here 😁