Hey internet I’m going to have to be needing your help on some advice. So I have this friend, let’s name her Daisy. Daisy hasn’t texted me in 6 days and I continue texting her cuz idk if she’s grounded or not. The last text she sent me was she asking abt how I would introduce her to someone. Since I don’t usually pour my heart out to people, I pour my heart out while describing it. Next things you know she leaves me on read and disappears for six days. Today, Oct 3, she finally texts me saying she wants to call. I declined, idk why but I don’t feel as close as I was before to her. I guess it would also be bc we text and call everyday, and when we stopped it felt not normal like we lost connection. My mind is telling me she’s a friend now and not my best friend, while my heart still cares abt her like she’s my sister. Not only that, I don’t put in effort on friendships (according to her) because I don’t call her. And she wants me to put more effort or the friendship is called off. Should I try to put more effort even though I won’t feel comfortable? Or should I call it off? Or is there something else I should do?
