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A lot of pro-kink/sex positivity/and even LGBT activists pushing for normalizing sex to children and teenagers either don't realize or don't care that exposing kids to sex is a form of child sexual abuse.

I cared for a girl from the ages of 12–14 after she was removed from her mother due to extensive terror and abuse. Her mom was in several open relationships and had zero sexual boundaries with her children. She walked around nude, walked right into the bathroom while they were showering or using the toilet, talking to them about her sex life, answering the phone to talk to her kids while she was actively having sex, etc.

When her kids would act embarrassed or want privacy, she would get outraged and lecture them about how sex was normal, it was fine, sex shaming was bad and inappropriate, etc.

The fact that she was exposing her child to sex showed up in the guardian ad litem report by a woman who worked 17 years as a CPS caseworker and was a practicing therapist prior to becoming a guardian ad litem, and she identified this lack of boundaries for what it was—sexual abuse.

So while I understand that oversheltering kids from sex causes social problems, I do not for one second trust anyone who centers exposing minors to sex as a concentrated social justice effort. Sex education done by trained professionals is fine. Me hearing a they/them with a mic throw on the Jesus camp voice at a Pride event cheering how it's now up to a bunch of adult strangers to "teach" kids about sex since conservatives won't and enthusiastically joke about and describe their kinks to a bunch of minors in the audience is not fine.

I will not forget that little girl saying to me in an emphatic voice "sex was everywhere".

You are part of the problem.

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Sex education for children looks like teaching them about how their bodies work, how each part of their bodies is important, who to trust, what's a good touch what's a bad touch, how to set boundaries, how to love themselves as everything they are. It's about creating a healthy connection with their own bodies and learning how to protect themselves from abuse.

It's never, EVER, exposing them to sexual acts, because that is, indeed, a form of child abuse. Children aren't ready yet to understand sexual intercourse, and that's not what they need! The development of a healthy sexuality in a child comes from learning to love and respect themselves, their bodies and their boundaries

And respecting others.

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The fact there are people over on tiktok legit mad over the fact that people find this character attractive is hilarious,

like they're going as far as calling people who like him, pedophiles, since they think he's a child, despite it being very obvious based on how he behaves, he's clearly meant to be an adult, plus the first time he's introduced, he's drunk