love is not over

gen // 16 // im lame abt the things i love

[maybemayii]

Jacob Anderson talking about the icons that shaped his Louis — Grace Jones & Eartha Kitt (Part ll)

[nuttysaladtree]

My comment from Oct 17, 2025

Throwback to @dedalvs's June 7, 2023 post Jacob Anderson and his flawless Astapori Valyrian (as Greyworm in Game of Thrones): tumblr.com/dedalvs/719501278414340096/jacob-anderson

[cmonbartender]

Azealia Banks, Florence Welch and Katy Perry at 2012 Coachella

[theartsyproject]

David Hockney, A Lawn Being Sprinkled, 1967.

[detailedart]

Details: The Garden of Earthly Delights. Between 1480-1505. By Jheronimus Bosch.

[lionofchaeronea]

Camellia and a Lonely Bird, Zhou Shuxi, 17th century

[artfoli]

Carnation, Lily, Lily, Rose, 1885, by John Singer Sargent (1856-1925)

[artfoli]

White Phoenix on Old Pine from the Colourful Realm of Living Beings, Edo Period, by Itō Jakuchū (1716-1800)

[theartsyproject]

Gustave Moreau, The Park and the Angel of Death, 1890.

[huictiigara]

Cats in old art

Sadly I only found the painter of 2 of these paintings. Soup and chair cat are by Fernando Botero

[lionofchaeronea]

Black Carp, Kuniyoshi (1798-1861)

[jjeongukie-deactivated20190926]

bts x colors: taehyung in red ♡ for anon

[gahdamnpunk]

Lol right? Or pay me bitch

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Emotional Abuse

The following are associated with emotional abuse:

- Withholding love, affection and attention

- Ignoring, or refusing to communicate with, the person

- Threatening the individual

- Abandoning, or threatening abandonment

- Fits of anger and rage

- Engaging in chronic deceit

- Criticizing, belittling, ridiculing or demeaning the individual

- Negatively labelling the person

- Controlling their life and ordering them around

- Minimizing their opinions, and ignoring the person’s wishes, needs and preferences

- Gaslighting, and denying the individual’s reality

- Isolating the person from their family and friends.

[turtwig387]

After getting out of a toxic, abusive, manipulative, or what have you, kind of relationship, friendship, etc,

It’s okay to miss them

It’s okay to miss what you had

It’s okay to wish it didn’t happen that way

It’s okay to to be upset about how they treated you

Ita okay to be upset about it being over

It’s okay to be angry about how they treated you

It’s okay to have feelings about the situation and even about them still.

It’s okay to cry about it even though it’s over, or cry about it even because it’s over.

You can cry, you can get mad, you can express your emotions.

It’s okay.

But it’s not okay to go back to them. It’s not okay to apologize to them for how they treated you. It’s not okay to hurt other people because of how they hurt you. And it’s not okay to hurt yourself.

Please please please I know that you might still be hurting from them and from what they did and becuase it’s over, but the hurt won’t last forever. You’ll heal and you’ll be better.

They don’t deserve you.

You deserve better. You deserve good things. You deserve healthy love and healthy friendships and healthy activities.

I hope moving on, even if it’s painful, comes to you soon. I hope you’ll start to feel better soon. I hope you feel like you can go on, soon. <3

[furiousgoldfish]

I wish instead of yelling “You have to get out of abusive situations!!!” people said “We all owe to help you out in situations like this, you are a part of society and we’re all responsible for making sure you’re protected, it’s devastating you’ve been thru this all on your own and burden of dealing with it all alone will no longer be on your shoulders.”

[copingundertheradar]

Just because you didn’t understand what was happening at the time doesn’t invalidate the abuse. Just because your abuser appeared to not know what they were doing doesn’t invalidate the abuse. Abuse is abuse is abuse no matter what.

[kookosaur-deactivated20220507]

au where jungkook is a mukbang youtuber