miryam!

mary/miri/mj || she/her/hers and more if we’re close || 23 || intersex, transfem, 2spirit, bi aro lesbian || ashkenazi and indigenous

[mirybot]

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hi i’m miry!

about me: i’m 23, my pronouns are she/her, i’m intersex, transfem, and 2spirit, i’m a bi aro lesbian, i’m indigenous and ashkenazi… i’m in a long-term relationship with my lovely partner @former-champion !!!

i am chronically physically/mentally disabled so try to be patient with me but i loveeee making friends and building community and chatting with people so please feel free to reach out whenever about anything!

interests: i’m pretty into a wife variety of things, my lifelong special interest has been film/tv, with a focus on comedy, but i’m also largely into a lot of different types of music, i play a lot of instruments, i try to write and draw when i can… considering an oc/art sideblog potentially…

extra about: i’m a very spiritual person, unsure of how much i’ll talk about it but it encompasses a lot for me. i’ve got a very complicated relationship with myself, my identity, my relationship with others and how i see myself in the world and so my spirituality helps me get a handle on that. i might make a spirituality tag for that… i also have did! i don’t plan on talking about it a ton on here but that might come up sometimes too, i’ve considered a did-comics sideblog as well before so maybe…!

tags:

#mirychat - where i keep my little bullshit original posts where i’m just chatting

#mirycore - posts crucial to understanding me as a person i guess!

#nativetalk - indigenous tag

#mediaposting - where i talk movies/tv/games/books/etc

#sounds - music tag

#dunkinposting - i work at dunkin donuts currently #yas

#transfem tag - speaks for itself

#dead horse - bitching about someone in my life 😭

[ravioliet]

fake "secret third thing" fans when a queerplatonic relationship they can't portray as romance lite walks in

[fishpondfish]

it is impossible to watch a movie. every night i think i want to watch a movie. no movie gets watched. because it's not possible

[prettycolors]

[martyfive]

a total eclipse of the heart

[tlirsgender]

I heart prey animal rage I love when characters are fucking insane with terror

[tlirsgender]

When they're not dangerous like a hunter but dangerous like a spooked horse kicking your skull in

[tlirsgender]

Let's hear it for prey animal rage let's hear it for killing everyone else in the world before you'll let them catch you

[bylerspain]

honestly, there’s something about the duffers’ narrative that byler was never in the cards that just doesn’t sit right with me.

because i only see two options here, and neither of them makes them look good.

the first one: it’s not true. it was considered at some point, and for whatever reason (pressure, fear, a change of direction, whatever), they backed out. because otherwise, the way they’ve written mike and will’s relationship across seasons simply doesn’t make sense.

if you want to tell a story about unrequited love, that’s fine. it exists, we’ve seen it a thousand times in fiction, and it works. but then why make it SO ambiguous? why write mike in a way that constantly leaves room for doubt? why all the scenes, the looks, the parallels, the narrative choices that never fully close the door?

that’s not “clearly one-sided love.” that’s deliberate ambiguity.

so no, i’m sorry, but this whole “it was never planned” version… i don’t buy it.

and then there’s the second option: that it is true. that they never intended to make it canon.

but then you’re basically admitting it was queerbaiting.

because you chose to play with that ambiguity. you built mike in a way that makes it feel like maybe yes, but you never confirm anything. you keep the audience in that constant “what if…?” limbo.

and why? because it brings in an audience. it pulls in people who get invested in that possibility, who analyze, who wait, who stay. but at the same time, you never commit, so you don’t “alienate” the more traditional audience either.

it’s literally playing both sides.

and honestly… i don’t know which is worse.

being told something now that doesn’t match what we’ve seen on screen,

or accepting that it does match, and that it means they’ve been consciously exploiting that ambiguity all along.

but yeah. that’s my take.

[machinot]

Scientists have found that if you get 8 hours of sleep and are still tired during the day it’s because your soul is cursed and your body doesn’t think you deserve happiness. There is no cure or treatment

[mirybot]

how do ppl usually get mutuals… am i allowed to make a post and tag it with the stuff i like is that regular???

[mirybot]

btw i have an art discord server if anyone wanted to join! i started it to prep for artfight

Check out the miri’s anti-artblock server! community on Discord - hang out with 12 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.

[loveridden1999]

a good fan edit will change how to you listen a certain song forever

[zmpl]

can you imagine what it will be like the day it finally happens. no one will be posting about anything else. category 10 posting event. if it happens because of someone else their gofundme page will reach over $500,000 within a day. #hopecore

[chilewithcarnage]

[slimetony]

You may have gathered from my recent posts that at this point in my life i am more or less just walking around all the time

[b0nkcreat]

i'm your only friend (realizes that's statistically unlikely) i'm not your only friend (considers my positive qualities) but i'm a little glowing friend (suddenly gets cold feet) but really i'm not actually your friend (remembers to be confident in relationships) but i am

[snowchester-system]

i wish it was easier to talk about transmisogyny without having to tiptoe around the newest stereotype of transfems being dramatic and calling everything transmisogyny.

[txttletale]

it's really funny how whenever you tell chatgpt it got something wrong it either brazenly gaslights you or starts going "I'm sorry. I let you down. It was unacceptable. I'm holding myself accountable for my egregious failure. I should be shot"