[treecitysessions]

There’s a catastrophic female loneliness epidemic happening rn but nobody gaf bc women aren’t going out and hurting people about it we just betray and destroy ourselves for nothing

[misandriz]

Wearing it as my second skin

[misandriz]

A womb created a blood sucking behemoth like me, it’s disgusting, biology is repulsive, putting children in this cruel shithole world is disgusting. Why was I even born? I never asked for it

[misandriz]

Urban educated women have so much privilege and freedom, but still follow the same patterns, you can easily choose to NOT reproduce and marry. Go and get a job and live alone. But that’s not gonna happen because they’re just too dumb, lack self preservation, act like marriage is the end goal and need to “settle down” (i.e reproduce children and serve in laws, basically unpaid labour), okay fine you can have the lavish tacky wedding by the beach with white roses and champagne but do not whine and moan about “patriarchy” later when the things get too ugly and you are just reduced to a wife and mommy. You had the choice and you made it. Live with it. or get out.

[misandriz]

The hardest part of life is giving up what you genuinely thought would work out for you, I still wonder what would it look like if it all magically worked out for me as the last bit of hope rots away lol the more I wanted it, the more it went away. I don’t even have the courage to dream or hope anymore…..wow man I guess this is what life had in store me

[gayvampyr]

it really pisses me off when adults sit there and drill it into kids’ heads that their youth is fleeting and tell them things like “enjoy your childhood while it lasts because this is the best it’s gonna get”. why are you telling children that adulthood is the worst thing they can experience? seriously what the fuck is wrong with you, why are you trying to make them feel like growing up is a fate worse than death? trying to convince them their life is over before it even begins? i’m tired of that shit. because tell my why my 12 year old cousin told me when she turns 30 she’ll be so depressed she’s just gonna cry all the time. what the fuck. kids don’t need to hear that their already stressful and overwhelming lives are never going to get better, that the abuse and lack of autonomy they face is apparently the highlight of their lives. they need to hear about adults who are happy to be alive and happy to have made it to their age. they need to know that growing up rules, it’s a gift and life does not have to suck for them, that they have a future that’s worth sticking around for. this rhetoric is so damaging mentally and i’m about to start hitting the adults who parrot it. i’m sorry you hate your life but you don’t get to dump your issues on these kids. don’t piss me off and leave these babies alone!

[misandriz]

It’s because they’re suffering so they want everyone to suffer too but what’s the point because once they’ll grow out of it their childhood they will know how much of a shit this world is, how it’s just misery and suffering. Stop forcing your adult anxieties onto them let them enjoy life before that is taken away from them. Life will teach them its lessons soon enough.

[soup-mother]

But like genuinely. "humans have an innate need for spirituality" should be pretty transparently a reactionary opinion. It's simply not true and equates something that some people get benefit from with it being a fundamental aspect of being human (and one that is missing it most people today). You gonna start arguing "children *need* fathers or they grow up broken" next?

[misandriz]

I genuinely hate parent influencers who post their kids online, sometimes while bathing them or changing their clothes like are you mentally incapacitated? you’re posting your child almost NAKED on internet like you don’t think some predator is probably getting off it but noooo as long as mommy and daddy are getting likes, brand deals and online validation!! We don’t gaf. but who’s gonna tell them there are people with predatory intentions and pretending they don’t exist doesn’t protect your child. and the most pathetic thing is they’ll cry afterwards when someone makes deepfakes of them. Also the child growing up and realising when did they consent to having their private moments shared with millions of strangers. Sorry kid. your safety is below some shallow online validation.

[misandriz]

experiencing the kind of numbness where nothing bad affects you anymore because your brain is exhausted by grieving all the time or maybe that’s been you the entirety of your life

[misandriz]

Everyone is so depressed and sad and worried about their future literally why life SUCKS

[cellarspirit]

i love giving up and getting worse

[misandristwoman]

I’m sick of women criticising leg hair discussions by saying “it’s personal choice”.

If it were a true choice, men and women would equally shave and not shave their legs. And yet, its 99% of women who shave, and 99% of men who don’t.

I’m honestly sick of women complaining about beauty standards when they take no steps in ending them. If all adult women stopped shaving their legs, young girls and teens wouldn’t feel compelled to shave, and boom, the beauty standard of hairless legs for women no longer exists.

I consciously look out for hairy legs in the summer, and I haven’t seen any yet. I’m just screaming into the void at this point.

[misandriz]

It’s literally rooted in pedophilia

[misandriz]

I feel like had it not been for the legal obligation and moral cost attached to it most people would’ve outed themselves as pedophiles already also its some kind status symbol amongst rich men (how much of a real man they are) since pedophilia is based on domination and children embody that vulnerability and are malleable which is needed for the domination

[tolovaj]

THANK YOU

[misandriz]

Do women know that they’re allowed to be horny like why are you labelling it as “ovulation” when most of the times you won’t even know the process is happening in your body jeez you’d think they’re taking some sort of female viagara to be acting like this

[womenstruation]

One of the biggest ways young girls are exploited in the global South is via the “house girl” culture. I’m speaking on how it works in Nigeria as that is my experience but I know it happens all around the world.

“House girls” are domestic servants, usually late teens though I have seen girls as young as six or seven, employed by middle and upper class families. They do everything from cooking and cleaning to caring for the elderly and young children and get very little wages. Most times these girls never see a penny of their wages- it’s all sent to their families. In Nigeria, these girls tend to come from very impoverished families living in border towns and often times do not speak the language before being sent to these families that exploit them.

Due to their young age, lack of any family nearby or money, poor education, and Nigeria’s legal system, these girls are overwhelmingly subject to sexual abuse at the hands of their male employers. In fact there is a common trope in media of the “husband cheating with the house girl and replacing the “madam” of the house. And when these men impregnate these girls, they are sent back to their villages in shame while the cycle continues.

They also face lots of other abuse. One of my mother’s friends was a “house girl” in the 70s when she was just thirteen and she was only given mouldy food and left overs to eat for most of her childhood. she once told me of a time where she was so thirsty, she drank the dirty water her abusers had used to wash their hands. I have also seen “house girls” physically beaten by their abusers and subject to horrific punishments- once as a child I saw a very young girl forced to ride in the boot of a car while all the employers children threw their imported backpacks at her.

There have also been situations in which families immigrate and arrange to bring their house girls with them. They continue to abuse them and when these girls manage to break free, they face deportation and further exploitation.

Of course such experiences are usually less common but the hiring of house girls is not viewed as the exploitation it is. Some people, my parents included, seem to view themselves as saving these girls from their lives in the village where they would get married young and live in poverty with lots of children. But how is it saving them to deprive them of education and enslave them? It is said that it is easy to recognise a house girl: shaven heads, old and dirty clothes and a scarily small stature. They look nothing like girls who have been saved.

[indigo-invictus]

Every time I see some "feminist" with a moid who's defending him by saying something along the lines " do you think I can't choose a good man? Do you think I am too stupid to find someone good?" I want to say yes. Yes you are.

You are exactly as smart as every victim of DV. See, beaten women also thought they were smart and found themselves a good man or whatever. You are not in possession of some secret, obscure knowledge of male nature. You can't predict future either.

Smart women avoid men like a plague.

[misandriz]

All relationships regardless of who is involved, are shaped by the underlying structure of female/male dynamics by the way…. sex is misogynistic even when it's between two men because to penetrate is associated with dominance and agency while to be penetrated is associated with submission, feminine aka weak and inferior

[misandriz]

How do I stop being mentally ill